sbxoxo Posted December 17, 2017 Share Posted December 17, 2017 Okay, so I know this might seem like one of the SHALLOWEST post on planet earth :welcoming: But I'm warning you now :peaceful::peaceful: I genuinely feel like I may be TOO attractive, for my own good. Wherever I go - there will ALWAYS be someone who "likes" me, or "fancies" me. And I mean everywhere, but I feel like I'm not attracting the sort of attention I really want. In reality, I am quite a sweet natured, NORMAL person who appears quite naiive on the surface but I am intelligent and I can just TELL whenever people are attracted to me. I think I finally understand that attracting a true boyfriend, will take time and this applies to everyone. Can't rush those sorts of things. Now that I've joined university, I am getting a LOT of attention and it can be quite intimidating for someone who suffers with anxiety. I always assume that those guys want a relationship with me, but now that I'm an adult - it's become way more apparent that they are probably looking for sex and their intentions may not be as pure as I would like to think. Growing up, I was always labelled as one of the "prettiest girls in the whole school" and as "perfect" by the boys in the year above. I'm not trying to boast, it's difficult when you feel like all these guys are watching you to be honest. And especially when you feel as though you're a lonely person who craves love, it's difficult not to feel used? What I'm asking is: HOW can I improve my life, and stop caring about so many people being attracted to me and possibly intimidated by me whilst sticking to my values etc how can I stop caring about people who pretend like they don't want to talk to me, because they either think they aren't good enough to or they are too good for me? how can I stop feeling like everyone hates me, and that guys only want me for my body? how can I stop feeling self-concious about living my best life I feel like I OWE guys favours because of my attractiveness sometimes. k sorry if this made no sense tbh xx Link to comment
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