Legend11 Posted December 15, 2017 Share Posted December 15, 2017 Hi I know you all hear the same story of break ups and usually they are quite similar.. My story may not be different. My boyfriend and I dated for 6 months (I know, it’s not a long time) everything was going well (at least in my mind) and moving towards something that could be very serious. I felt safe with him, he was my confident and support system.. we never fought, we did have a few disagreement but for the most part we got along very well...then hurricane Irma struck and everything changed. He started to distance himself, started working out a lot, spending time with his friend and basically busy all the time. I figured he needed some space so I tried not to read too much into it. One thing that I must say is that when the hurricane made landfall in Orlando we were together and everything‘ seemed fine until we lost power. He started to freak out and basically telling me that he was going to move back to raise his daughter. I was confused because right then I understood that he didn’t even picture me in his future. Needless to say that hurt pretty bad. The following week he told me he didn’t want a relationship but that he wanted to casually date and that he was a bad guy and that I deserve better. Honestly that really broke my heart. I was falling for him and opened my heart to him and then I got dumped. The reason I’m here is because I need advice. I am still very hurt even though it happened almost 3 months ago. I want to email him my thoughts and how I feel but at the same time I don’t want to look like I’m thirsty or begging him to take me back. I know that he has moved on; in fact 2 weeks after breaking up with me he started dating someone else and they seem to be happy. I am not jealous but rather hurt and I don’t know if writing an email will give closure. I’ve had this on my mind for a month now and I feel that it will in a way give some closure. Any thoughts? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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