Honeycomb8 Posted November 20, 2017 Share Posted November 20, 2017 Hey guys My friend has just invited me to go to her birthday dinner, and apparently my (last long term ex) will be there. She's a great girl and I'm really keen on going, but am now sort of wondering if it's a good idea. Thought this was inevitable, but still awkward considering I've blocked this guy on everything. We broke up more towards start of last year but had a two year relationship and it was a very intense and serious relationship. We stayed friends until recently. I think emotionally, he still has the same feelings for me, so it makes things awkward. I am not keen on being friends with him anymore because he's disturbingly selfish, immature and completely temperamental. I'm definitely over him and just thinking about having to talk to him makes me feel exasperated. In addition to this, I'm currently in a new relationship with an absolutely amazing guy. Things are going so wonderfully, like everything fits effortlessly and now I finally do understand why nothing in the past worked out. I think it would make him feel uncomfortable if I went and I've already asked for his opinion on this. But she's a good friend, so it kinda makes me feel petty if I skipped it just cos of my own problems? What do you guys suggest I should do? Link to comment
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