ShaunMaloney Posted May 31, 2017 Share Posted May 31, 2017 Hey guys, I'll try and keep this as short as possible. I have recently found out that my girlfriend slept with one of my best friends around a year before we started going out. I hear you say - well this was before you two were together so why does it matter? But it's not that simple. I'll give some context - Around a year ago me and my now current GF got really close, close enough to the point of considering a relationship / admitting feelings for eachother but nothing physical happened. I was going away travelling for a while and we left on the note that we were close but wanted to do what we wanted to do. During my time away we stayed in close contact, she sent me a card for my birthday saying how much she missed me and that she loved me. Around a week after sending this card she slept with my best friend. Now fast forward to the present and I have only just found out this happened. One of my friends brought it up with her "How did Shaun take it when you told him about you & John?" and she had not realised I didn't know. She assumed my friends would have told me. Now two things upset me here. 1) That I found out over a year after all my friends. I know they probably didn't want to tell me as they knew how much I liked her before we were going out, but I feel a bit out of the loop. 2) That she was still saying how much she missed & loved me then goes and sleeps with one of my best friends! I just can't imagine myself doing this if the roles were reversed. _____ I know this might sound quite rant-y but it's come as a shock to find out this. I never expected my current GF to not meet new people whilst I was away travelling - we hadn't signed a pact or anything to get together when I was back, but one of my best friends and not knowing really hurts. What should I do here? Am I right to feel annoyed or am I over-reacting? Thanks in advance, Link to comment
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