Louiselamb1 Posted March 29, 2017 Share Posted March 29, 2017 So I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years we have a 12 week old baby. When I first met him I had a friend who was my partner in crime (or so I thought) she wasn't the nicest of people but was always to me so I never worried to much, then when I got with my boyfriend she changed instantly and tried everything in her power to split us up by saying things to him to make him believe I've cheated. She even went as far as to give a man my phone number messaged him off my phone and made out it was me, this is just one of the many things she done. I ended my friendship with her a couple of month into my relationship with my boyfriend. Since then he has no trust in me I have spent the past year and half not speaking To any friends just staying in the house cos apparently I can't be trusted to go out. I have let him take this control for this long in the hope it will make him see that I would never cheat and I love him, because believe me I do. He also has a cocaine problem and when he takes it he gets really paranoid checks all the bins, checks the whole house basically for evidence that I have had people in. He can scare me at time and has gone to hit me with my son in my arms. He's spat in my face, dragged me to the floor by my stomach 6 week after a c section. I'm not completely innocent I have three things at him before. He constantly calls me a tramp and a slag and he has defiantly affecTed my confidence. He disappears on occasion he works night shift but has many times not come home for hours after his shift finishes, always comes back off his head saying he's been with his friends. The day my son was born he left the hospital an hour after and as I know now went out I didn't hear from him till 2pm the next day I was sat in hospital going out of my mind when I got home with my baby there was blood all over my house he had marks like he had been in a fight An there was enough beer to take a small elephant out. My house was trashed. So the other day we have an argument and he basically told me he's cheated on me but then quickly changed his mind and said he said it to hurt me. He says things about leaving me all the time he wants to split our money but then on the other hand books holidays with me so therefore plans a future. I just don't understand why if he hates me so much and truly believes I have cheated why is he with me? I wish I could prove to him that I would never do that to him I love him and want to be with him forever. He wants me to do a lie detector test which I can't get my head around and don't see how it would help because he clearly doesn't trust me, he knows I'm at home with my baby but accuses me of sneaking people in the house while he's at work. I can't even ask him what time he will be home because he will then say it's so I can sneak someone out, I'm losing my mind with it all I feel like I have no where to turn. Link to comment
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