GWB93 Posted February 16, 2017 Share Posted February 16, 2017 So me and my wife are now split after 3 years of marriage and a beatiful son. The break-up being her choice as she loved me but wasn't 'in love' with me anymore. She also wanted to find herself again apparently, Honestly it was the single worst feeling of my life, I'd put everything into our marriage and honestly mounded my life around her and my son. After this happening of course I went through all the stages and of course organising how I would see my son etc all of which was kind of messy but got sorted. After 2 months she get with a new guy and straight into a relationship they go. I need this isn't the guys fault but I can't help but take a dislike to him. He's a little older than her with a son. So anyway 6 months goes by and I still love her but it's not the ruler of my life and I except this and concentrate on my son and myself. I can't avoid her or NC because we have a son so it makes it harder to get closure. She then starts calling me when she needs my support if her relationship with the new guy is going bad or they are arguing or he can't do what she wants him to do. So I'm there aren't I because I'm still besotted by her. Eventually one night she rings me as she's going out and she'd like me drop her off with her friend. So I do, I knew straight away that id be getting a call later on for a pick up. Then it's happens and I drop her home and one thing leads to anther. The next day was horrible as she just had regret and said we can't be doing that etc. This of course breaks my heart because I want her so badly. We then agree to distance ourselves again and she's deleted me from social media etc but I do have to see her to pick my son up. I'm back to square one and hurting again and I don't know where j stand anymore. It would be helpful if someone could advise me on where I go from here because I'm so blinded at the moment? Link to comment
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