rtyu4567 Posted January 16, 2017 Share Posted January 16, 2017 His neverending nitpicking, dissecting everything it was horrible. Link to comment
kktang Posted January 17, 2017 Share Posted January 17, 2017 I wish I can come up with one thing negative about my ex. He brokeup with me for 5 months now and we were together for 2 months but during that two months he was really perfect. And it took me 36 years to find this guy! Link to comment
Tick Posted January 17, 2017 Share Posted January 17, 2017 He has to ask his friends and family what to tell me to end the relationship... They told me that I should....... that, that, that... Link to comment
rtyu4567 Posted January 18, 2017 Share Posted January 18, 2017 When i was feeling down for whatever reason, he would either dismiss it or say something to make me feel worse. Link to comment
lillorenzo23 Posted January 18, 2017 Author Share Posted January 18, 2017 How for God knows how long, every time we went out to eat together and the check was brought, they would ask "together or separate?" he would jump to say "separate". Can't tell you the last time he bought me something just to buy me something. Link to comment
emptyeffort Posted January 18, 2017 Share Posted January 18, 2017 that over the whole duration we had to keep it completely secret because of her sh*tty backwards parents that wanted someone of her ethnicity and religion. Link to comment
Trinity11 Posted January 18, 2017 Share Posted January 18, 2017 My ex didn't pick up when I needed reassurance. I mean something like give me a smile, a hug, or holding my hand down a dodgey Street when I withdrew because I was uncomfortable or nervous . Link to comment
erasemymemory Posted January 19, 2017 Share Posted January 19, 2017 How i had to be a robot without any emotion except happiness in order to appease him Link to comment
erasemymemory Posted January 19, 2017 Share Posted January 19, 2017 How rude he was to servers Link to comment
downright Posted January 19, 2017 Share Posted January 19, 2017 Always telling me that I am too sensitive when she is the one being insensitive and extremely critical. Nobody likes being called stupid. Her lack of communication: doesn't even bother to clarify when I misunderstood her, always shutting down when I bring up an issue. Unappreciative and someone who doesn't do what she says. Link to comment
rtyu4567 Posted January 19, 2017 Share Posted January 19, 2017 Lacks the ability to take responsibility for his actions. Link to comment
J Miracle Posted January 20, 2017 Share Posted January 20, 2017 I quit a 13 year smoking habit, and she never got past the fact that I struggled for a couple months in order to do it. I tried cutting back before quitting, hoping that would help, cause she made it clear she didn't want a guy with an addiction. But as soon as I was given an ultimatum, her or the smoke, I quit cold turkey and never ever went back. Even 3 years later, she would give me grief because I didn't quit as soon as I saw it upset her. Link to comment
rtyu4567 Posted January 20, 2017 Share Posted January 20, 2017 He mocked how i liked romance. Link to comment
lillorenzo23 Posted January 20, 2017 Author Share Posted January 20, 2017 How when I told him to listen to "Say You Won't Let Go" by James Arthur because it reminded me of him, he listened to it...and then responded with "I don't like it. He sounds like a whiny little b!+tch and his voice is annoying." Then the time I asked him what he would like his life to look like in 10 years, and he responded with "I don't think that far ahead..." Link to comment
J Miracle Posted January 21, 2017 Share Posted January 21, 2017 She told me "your at the root of all our problems." Link to comment
lillorenzo23 Posted January 21, 2017 Author Share Posted January 21, 2017 More times than not, if we slept together and I tried to cuddle, he would ask me to move over because it was 'too hot' and he couldn't sleep so close to me. Link to comment
rtyu4567 Posted January 24, 2017 Share Posted January 24, 2017 He did not seem to harbor genuine compassion or empathy. Every now and than it would seem like he cared about something he heard in the news or something a relative might have been experiencing, but in general he seemed to lack in those areas. I often found that very troublesome. Link to comment
rtyu4567 Posted January 27, 2017 Share Posted January 27, 2017 If I shared a concern about myself or someone close to me he would hardly acknowledge it and start talking about himself and how he experienced similar, he would go on never further conversing about my concern. Hard to have a two way convo with him. Somehow it always became about him. Link to comment
lillorenzo23 Posted January 27, 2017 Author Share Posted January 27, 2017 He was extremely insensitive and never thought before he talked. Ever. For instance, he wanted to 'try something new and exciting' in the bedroom. I went out and bought some things, one of which was a candle that burns into massage oil. So, when we had our 'new and exciting' encounter, I pulled the lit melted candle out, just as I was about to pour it he said "hold on stop, what are you gonna do with that?" I said, "you'll see". He said "is that wax or is it that massage oil?" I said, "massage oil." He said "Have you ever used that before?" I said, "Nope this is a first!"....so what does this dude say? In the heat of the moment, a 'romantic/sensual' time...he says "Me and my ex used to use them all the time, they're awesome!" Oh. Really? Cause that's exactly what I wanna be thinking about right now, is your ex pouring this sh!+ on you as I do it...great...way to ruin the moment. Jerk. Link to comment
Crystal Clear2 Posted January 27, 2017 Share Posted January 27, 2017 He judged my character without giving me a chance. Compared me to his ex when I'm not her. He gave up easily. More than 1 i know. He has too many faults. Link to comment
TheWonderer Posted January 28, 2017 Share Posted January 28, 2017 She pulled a gun on me when I tried to leave the jealousy and toxicity that she constantly expressed (for no good reason). Link to comment
lillorenzo23 Posted January 28, 2017 Author Share Posted January 28, 2017 On our first anniversary, I made a slideshow with our pictures to our song, then got him a card and a gift. We woke up together, he said "isn't today something special?" So I grabbed my stuff, showed him the slideshow, had him open the card. He read it, told me he loved me, kissed me, then said "So what are we doing today?" No gift. No card. No plans made. Link to comment
rtyu4567 Posted January 28, 2017 Share Posted January 28, 2017 When ever he did something nice, I would pay the price. I was better off not having him do anything because low and behold no matter how small of a gesture, it was royally thrown in my face. Link to comment
katara42 Posted January 29, 2017 Share Posted January 29, 2017 His life was always in some form of chaos Link to comment
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