demiel23 Posted November 23, 2016 Share Posted November 23, 2016 Me and my girl were together for 5years. Highschool sweet hearts. 3 kids and all. Im 22 and she is 20. We had an arguement 3 weeks ago and now we split. I hit her. I regret it. The part that hurts the most is she dont want to leave me. She said she is still attached to me and not ready to let me go. So she didnt move out. This past sunday i found out since we split that she has been with another guy at her job. They havent had sex but just the sexual touching. We talked about it and she said its just bcuz he was there for her. Now they hang out she spends the night at his house. But she still lives with me. I told her to go and be happy..... she said she doesnt want to be with him. She still wants me and isnt ready for life after me. So i am confused on what to do. She said she knows that the guy might not care and he and her both decided they dont wanna be together but they still hangout and talk. She told me in time we will get back together... is this true? I hope so.... i love her with all my heart and i cant imagine life without her and my kids. Why is she still attached to me after i did this? She says she isnt ready to let me go and she still cares about me and she needs me emotionally. We still have sex and everything like we used to. We just arent official anymore. I need help. Link to comment
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