i need help

[Eyleia]

me and my ex broke up and then 2 months later he hve a new Gf... he message me that he want to be with me again its becoz her new gf doesnt choose him over her old Bf so she dont want to be with her again coz he dont want to be a 2nd option he deserve better..... i feel like he come back to me coz i am hes back up plan or second 2 option? and same as him also i deserve better..... its hurt me .. i dont know wat to do should i come back with him or no ?

[Jibralta]

No. You are his second option and back-up plan.

[dave_1966]

You should not take him back.

[Matti Jr]

No, and you should cut off contact with him since he's with her.

[Eyleia]

but his new gf broke up with him its becoz she choose her old bf over him thats why my ex bf want to come back to me

[reinventmyself]

Double standard!

He doesn't want to be a back up plan but he's asking you to be one?

uhhhm. . .no!

[Eyleia]

he didnt asking me to be one.. but he explaine to me why they broke up

[boltnrun]

Didn't he ask you to continue to be his side girlfriend while he was with his actual girlfriend?

 

And doesn't he live many hours away in a different country?

[HeartGoesOn]

but his new gf broke up with him its becoz she choose her old bf over him thats why my ex bf want to come back to me

 

Don't settle for being anyone's sloppy seconds.

[Eyleia]

yes hes the one

[boltnrun]

yes hes the one

 

So what is so appealing about this guy?

 

Another reason besides "I love him!"