My ex followed me back on social media

[IAmConfused10]

quick summary.

 

I broke up with my ex because she said she didn't feel the love that much anymore. The next day she texted me saying she never wanted to break up but it was too late because I already did it. Since then it was no contact for 2 and a half weeks until she accidentally texted me but all I said was ok yup to her when she said wrong person. She unfollowed me about a week and a half ago and then she followed me back 2 nights ago. We are still no contact and have not talked for around 3-4 weeks. Her bestfriend that is a guy told me that she doesn't hate me and she is going to try and talk to me in a few weeks a but why would she follow me back now then? Does anyone know why she would follow back so early like that?

[Dottieflanogon]

You don't need the drama.It's like having a FB status that reads: "I just can't believe it..." in the hopes that 42 people beg to wonder what's wrong. And why dont you block her and separate your life from her and stop playing push and pull games. It's over,you moved on

[ChellyV]

Obviously still clinging. Put your profile on private. And move on.

[IAmConfused10]

Obviously still clinging. Put your profile on private. And move on.

 

I'm clinging or she is

[Movingforward3]

Using tea leaves to read an ex actions will drive you insane. Take her at her word and move forward. Unless she is tanking in front of you begging for another chance, stop. Just live your life.

[IAmConfused10]

I don't know if you guys are understanding that she followed me back... I am livings life I just don't know what she is trying to do by doing this

[SooSad33]

Does it matter why she followed you?

The fact is.. is you broke up with her... Im sure she does stil have feelings for you. It takes time to 'let go', totally and move on.

[HeartGoesOn]

I don't know if you guys are understanding that she followed me back... I am livings life I just don't know what she is trying to do by doing this

 

No, you're not "living life" you're living in the world of Facebook, in the hopes that there's a hidden meaning in her status updates. Either way, it's a tough pill to swallow, but if she wanted to be with you, she would.

[dave_1966]

Facebook is meaningless, it's data capture for big business. Close your account, and live in the real world. 'Likes' and all the other cr@p are meaningless.

 

How old are you by the way?

[92151794]

Totally agree with movingforward3 Im sorry for you pain. Breakups are never easy. Getting through one myself.. From my experience I've always tried to read into actions my ex did like this and have concluded in my case as well as yours It doesn't matter what it means She may still be fond of you. But thats not even worth thinking about. If she really wanted you she would at least make an effort to win you back. Not something small like following you. That isn't an action worth thinking about.