lostandhurt Posted March 2, 2015 Share Posted March 2, 2015 Jeff, Whether you think she is worth any more effort and time on your part is up to you. If you want some answers and possible clarification tell her to meet you for a drink so you can talk face to face. Texting is a terrible way to communicate about relationship stuff. Far to many text something they would never say in person or don't realize how their text could be misconstrued. Who knows what the heck she is thinking but it might be good research to ask. Keep us posted Lost Link to comment
Ms Darcy Posted March 2, 2015 Share Posted March 2, 2015 It's fine not to want a life partner - if that's the case. I would just be clear about that if that's not really on the table. Link to comment
pippy longstocking Posted March 2, 2015 Share Posted March 2, 2015 I would text her back that you are not sure you will be emotionally available by then, so she should make other plans. there it is .. hahahahahahahahha Link to comment
Jeffbobo Posted March 2, 2015 Author Share Posted March 2, 2015 I appreciate everybody's responses and insite. I'm pondering what I should do at this point... I think I will take the advice of "lost", get together with her and ask for clarification. A couple updates... 1. I didn't get a chance to see "lost's" suggestion last night. At that point, I had a "screw this crap" attitude in my head so I pulled the trigger on meeting someone else this week. 2. The "new woman" in question texted me this morning and asked if I would like to go away with her this weekend. Ok... Why do I continually find myself in these situations. Ugh... Lol. Link to comment
mhowe Posted March 2, 2015 Share Posted March 2, 2015 Have you even "met" the new woman yet? Minneapolis is the hot spot, I guess? Link to comment
Jeffbobo Posted March 2, 2015 Author Share Posted March 2, 2015 Have you even "met" the new woman yet? Minneapolis is the hot spot, I guess? I've not met the new woman yet. Thursday for coffee. Yes. Minneapolis is a hot spot. It gets cold here, we get creative. Lol. Link to comment
mhowe Posted March 2, 2015 Share Posted March 2, 2015 I've not met the new woman yet. Thursday for coffee. Yes. Minneapolis is a hot spot. It gets cold here, we get creative. Lol. To be clear ---- new woman = coffee date = go away for the weekend??? Yowser. Link to comment
Jeffbobo Posted March 2, 2015 Author Share Posted March 2, 2015 To be clear ---- new woman = coffee date = go away for the weekend??? Yowser. Sorry for the confusion. 1. Coffee date = woman I *just* connected with last night. 2. Go away for weekend woman = woman we've been talking about. The "You're not emotionally available 24/7" gal. Link to comment
mhowe Posted March 2, 2015 Share Posted March 2, 2015 Still yikes. She just told you to stay lost until you were emotionally available 24/7. And then texted about plans down the road. And assuming you hadn't texted her back yet....now wants to go away for the weekend. If you do so, bring your GPS. Because she doesn't have a compass. Link to comment
Jeffbobo Posted March 2, 2015 Author Share Posted March 2, 2015 Ok. Another update. After taking "lost's" advice and discussing things with her, she apologized for the way she acted. She said her best friend of 20 years is going through divorce, and announced to her that she is moving to the east coast. She was having a hard time dealing with that news that day. She said she wanted me to be there to talk/listen and that she treated me unfairly. I told her I understand. After we got through that, conversation turned to the type of underwear I wear and what I swim in (I'm an avid swimmer). So I guess we'll see where it goes from here. Link to comment
mhowe Posted March 2, 2015 Share Posted March 2, 2015 Ok. Another update. After taking "lost's" advice and discussing things with her, she apologized for the way she acted. She said her best friend of 20 years is going through divorce, and announced to her that she is moving to the east coast. She was having a hard time dealing with that news that day. She said she wanted me to be there to talk/listen and that she treated me unfairly. I told her I understand. After we got through that, conversation turned to the type of underwear I wear and what I swim in (I'm an avid swimmer). So I guess we'll see where it goes from here. Come on...inquiring minds want to know? Brief/boxer? Speedo/jams?? It is fairly obvious where it goes from here...ehh hmmm. Link to comment
Jeffbobo Posted March 2, 2015 Author Share Posted March 2, 2015 Oh stop, you're making me blush. Link to comment
Rosti87 Posted March 3, 2015 Share Posted March 3, 2015 OP Just stay alert with her. Good luck. Link to comment
mhowe Posted March 3, 2015 Share Posted March 3, 2015 OP Just stay alert with her. Good luck. Alert? I'd wear a cup:surprise: Link to comment
pippy longstocking Posted March 3, 2015 Share Posted March 3, 2015 chuckling ........ Link to comment
Rosti87 Posted March 3, 2015 Share Posted March 3, 2015 Alert? I'd wear a cup Hello, hello, hello! Link to comment
Jeffbobo Posted March 3, 2015 Author Share Posted March 3, 2015 Thank you all for your input. Much appreciated. I'll stay alert as well. Oh... And for the record. Boxer briefs and Jams. Link to comment
mhowe Posted March 3, 2015 Share Posted March 3, 2015 Thank you all for your input. Much appreciated. I'll stay alert as well. Oh... And for the record. Boxer briefs and Jams. Phew. I know I will sleep better tonight. Be brave! Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted March 3, 2015 Share Posted March 3, 2015 After we got through that, conversation turned to the type of underwear I wear and what I swim in (I'm an avid swimmer). So I guess we'll see where it goes from here. Hmmm, she sounds like a classy lady. Link to comment
Capricorn3 Posted March 3, 2015 Share Posted March 3, 2015 Hmmm, she sounds like a classy lady. lol, that made me laugh out loud - almost made me spew my tea all over my monitor, lol. Link to comment
luxurylover Posted March 3, 2015 Share Posted March 3, 2015 this is what i was trying to say in my previous post but u said it so much better. esp the part about being clear from the start. which from what i read he has been. i also think it's going to be an interesting task finding a woman in your age group that's ok with just dating around. (in response to mhowe's comment)---i would quote it too but dont know how. but theyre out there im sure. i guess it's just a narrowing down thing Link to comment
Jeffbobo Posted March 3, 2015 Author Share Posted March 3, 2015 Phew. I know I will sleep better tonight. Be brave! I thought it might. Lol. Thanks mhowe. Link to comment
catfeeder Posted March 3, 2015 Share Posted March 3, 2015 2. The "new woman" in question texted me this morning and asked if I would like to go away with her this weekend. Ok... Why do I continually find myself in these situations. Ugh... Lol. Easy answer: you continually engage them. When you change nothing, nothing changes. Have you noticed? Link to comment
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