Gymgirl71 Posted February 5, 2015 Share Posted February 5, 2015 Read my other post if you want to know the entire story. I shouldn’t even be asking this…I should be done with it and wipe my hands clean already. Anyways, so as if things could get any worse they have. I had this gut feeling that he was up to no good…so I decided well I am done with this and I signed back up for online dating. I am doing the quick match where you swipe left or right. Well low and behold I see his profile. I should have left it alone and moved on. Nope. We didn’t even break up officially yet. I was dumping his butt then he starts turning it on me asking what was I doing on there, and some BS about how he didn’t think I was serious because I never said how I feel. Really??? This is why we took the other dating site down. I told him to his face that I am not a serial dater and only want to be with one person and he told me he was on the same page. How much more clearer did I have to be with him? So then he starts telling me that he never went on a date with anyone and had no intention of it and all he did was say hello. I told him well, would it have been okay for me to talk to men on a dating site while seeing you? Answer me that. Then he starts calling me jealous and showed this awful side of him I never saw before. Besides him not making an effort to see me last 2 weeks, not calling or communicating well what else do I need to walk away and forget I ever met him. I don’t understand why other women can be strong and walk away but I feel so empty. Lord help me. I need to just go MIA and leave him alone. It will only get worse. He obviously doesn't care. Link to comment
DancingFool Posted February 5, 2015 Share Posted February 5, 2015 Empty about what? Like what did you ever get out of this guy other than being treated like dirt? What he is pulling now is the classic mindf... trying to turn things around on you like it's all your fault. How do I find it so easy to walk away from guys like that? My ego can't handle a guy who thinks that I am sooo incredibly and utterly stupid that I would actually buy this bs. It's just too insulting to me. Oh and the whole I look but I'm not going out on dates with them....it's so bad and pathetic it's actually funny. I'd be dying laughing while slamming the door in his face. When you look at someone like that, you have got to realize that pretty much anyone at all that you meet after him is actually going to be an improvement. The bar is low. Link to comment
Gymgirl71 Posted February 5, 2015 Author Share Posted February 5, 2015 Thank you! I actually have or had a high self esteem up until 2.5 weeks ago when his mind games chipped away at it. I'm attractive, smart, funny, etc so why I'm even questioning all this is unreal. I should have deleted his number, told him to have a nice life and ended it. Link to comment
shellyf62 Posted February 5, 2015 Share Posted February 5, 2015 Block his number rather than deleting it so he can never contact you again! Link to comment
No1 Posted February 5, 2015 Share Posted February 5, 2015 So all this drama over a guy that you have been seeing for 7 weeks? How come you just cant admit that you dont belong together? I see that you try to figure out what he is doing. Im going to say dont try, just accept that this man is a flake. He got your number, he flirted with you but his actions say that he doesnt want to be with you. Link to comment
overthemoon86 Posted February 5, 2015 Share Posted February 5, 2015 totally forget this guy, he isn't be honest with you and you are clearly seeing that...he is not worth trying to figure out. BLOCK HIM! Link to comment
DancingFool Posted February 5, 2015 Share Posted February 5, 2015 Just block him. E-mails, phone, whatever else, just block it all. He is soo not even worth thinking about. Link to comment
mhowe Posted February 5, 2015 Share Posted February 5, 2015 Thank you! I actually have or had a high self esteem up until 2.5 weeks ago when his mind games chipped away at it. I'm attractive, smart, funny, etc so why I'm even questioning all this is unreal. I should have deleted his number, told him to have a nice life and ended it. High self esteem doesn't get chipped away in 7 weeks from a boy who doesn't pay attention. Self esteem, be definition... Is holding yourself in high esteem regardless of what someone else says or does. Link to comment
Gymgirl71 Posted February 6, 2015 Author Share Posted February 6, 2015 Thanks everyone. Your right. Not going to do anything. Just walking away. No words necessary his actions told it all., Link to comment
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