MacTavish Posted September 17, 2014 Share Posted September 17, 2014 My ex likes to stalk me on twitter and facebook, but she dumped me for another guy a month ago. What is this her problem?!?!?!?!? She likes things I post and everything. It's like she wants me to know she was there. Link to comment
mhowe Posted September 17, 2014 Share Posted September 17, 2014 Liking or responding to your posts on social media is not stalking. If you don't want her to see your stuff, block/unfriend her. The problem is that you like knowing she is looking. Link to comment
doingitmyway Posted September 17, 2014 Share Posted September 17, 2014 Two words block her simple. No drama, no hassle Link to comment
mg22 Posted September 17, 2014 Share Posted September 17, 2014 Guilty !! She may not be so happy so shes snooping your social media to see if you moved on. Ignore and block her. Link to comment
MacTavish Posted September 17, 2014 Author Share Posted September 17, 2014 liking or responding to your posts on social media is not stalking. If you don't want her to see your stuff, block/unfriend her. The problem is that you like knowing she is looking. i did block her for your info and then she made another profile to snoop on my profile. Is that not stalking!????? Link to comment
Tanzi Posted September 17, 2014 Share Posted September 17, 2014 She's treating you exactly the same as she does her other Facebook friends. Liking and commenting on posts does not equate to stalking! She is using Facebook for all its intents and purposes ... most likely to show that their are no hard feelings. If it is bothering you in any way then the simple solution is not to be Facebook friends. Link to comment
MacTavish Posted September 17, 2014 Author Share Posted September 17, 2014 Dude I talked to her friend and she said she feels bad about leaving and wants to come back, but doesn't know how I'll react so she's doing these small things to get my attention. Like the social media stuff and INTENTIONALLY being places where I am on campus. So 2 of you are wrong. Link to comment
mhowe Posted September 17, 2014 Share Posted September 17, 2014 i did block her for your info and then she made another profile to snoop on my profile. Is that not stalking!????? It is social media and she is snooping and "liking" things. Look up stalking in the dictionary. It isn't harming you in any way. Link to comment
mhowe Posted September 17, 2014 Share Posted September 17, 2014 Dude I talked to her friend and she said she feels bad about leaving and wants to come back, but doesn't know how I'll react so she's doing these small things to get my attention. Like the social media stuff and INTENTIONALLY being places where I am on campus. So 2 of you are wrong. Oh my ---- she is running into you on campus? Call security. Link to comment
reinventmyself Posted September 17, 2014 Share Posted September 17, 2014 Dude I talked to her friend and she said she feels bad about leaving and wants to come back, but doesn't know how I'll react so she's doing these small things to get my attention. Like the social media stuff and INTENTIONALLY being places where I am on campus. So 2 of you are wrong. "What is this her problem?!?!?!?!?" Looks like you answered your own question Link to comment
MacTavish Posted September 17, 2014 Author Share Posted September 17, 2014 "What is this her problem?!?!?!?!?" Looks like you answered your own question I just talked to her friend. I called her to ask why. Link to comment
MacTavish Posted September 17, 2014 Author Share Posted September 17, 2014 I feel like an idiot for actually contemplating taking her back. Just a week ago I wasn't even focused on her and I met a new girl. What the hell is my problem? Link to comment
mhowe Posted September 17, 2014 Share Posted September 17, 2014 That is a completely different question!!! LOL Link to comment
MacTavish Posted September 17, 2014 Author Share Posted September 17, 2014 Lol !!!!! Darn it Link to comment
Tanzi Posted September 17, 2014 Share Posted September 17, 2014 Dude I talked to her friend and she said she feels bad about leaving and wants to come back, but doesn't know how I'll react so she's doing these small things to get my attention. Like the social media stuff and INTENTIONALLY being places where I am on campus. So 2 of you are wrong. Why are you trying to score points? We are trying to help you. You are now providing us with new information and if what you say is true then you already know what her problem is! Link to comment
MacTavish Posted September 17, 2014 Author Share Posted September 17, 2014 Yeah, she's bat insane and doesn't know what she wants. She had her chance with me and I treated her better than I did my own mother. Better than I did myself. Loved her a lot and would do anything for her. Even die, but she betrayed me for what she thought was love. So her loss. Link to comment
mhowe Posted September 17, 2014 Share Posted September 17, 2014 Caution ---- never treat a "new gf" better than your mother or better than yourself. Shows "doormat" tendencies. Besides ---- your relationship with self and relationship with mother is far more important. Link to comment
MacTavish Posted September 18, 2014 Author Share Posted September 18, 2014 Yeah, I guess I gave off that energy at first, but that was a year ago. I became more about myself when I got a job, and I didn't have much time to talk to her as much because I was working or tired. She wanted to talk on the phone all the time, but I couldn't do that because college and having a job is a killer. I guess she went and found someone to talk to. Funny she fell in love with the guy after 2 weeks of talking. Maybe it was to fill a void. Maybe not. I don't know, and I can't worry about it. Have a lot more to worry about that a girl that screwed me over. Link to comment
toby17 Posted September 18, 2014 Share Posted September 18, 2014 She could just speak to you rather than trying to get your attention by liking things on fb. But she's dropping crumbs and trying to get you to be the one to contact her. If she wanted to win to you back or even just try to talk to you, for example, she could man up and just do it. This gives you more of an idea what kind of person she is. Ignore her! She doesn't deserve your respect or attention. Link to comment
amila Posted September 18, 2014 Share Posted September 18, 2014 Its simple,she regrets leaving you Link to comment
t1lersm0m1 Posted September 18, 2014 Share Posted September 18, 2014 Move on and don't devote any more time or energy to her. Link to comment
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