savignon Posted February 18, 2014 Share Posted February 18, 2014 Good for you!! Spending any more time calling/skyping/texting/Facebooking or whatever was taking away from time you could be spending on a real relationship. Block, delete, unfriend, etc and move on! Glad you had the nerve to put it on the table and get your answer! Link to comment
Luna2014 Posted February 19, 2014 Share Posted February 19, 2014 I met a guy on dating site, who replied my one sentence questions in forms of novels - like more than hundreds of words per message. We chatted back and forth for about 3 weeks on a daily basis, but he never brought up meeting somewhere offline. I eventually stopped contacting him nor even bother to ask him to meet. I was not looking for a pen pal after all. And I am still a true believer that if a guy is interested in you, he will at least work on his nerves to ask you out. Link to comment
EmmieQ Posted February 21, 2014 Author Share Posted February 21, 2014 Update: this guy just created a new facebook-profile (with his real name, but different spelling) to contact me and ask me whether we could talk, asking me why I deleted and blocked him from facebook... Link to comment
annie24 Posted February 21, 2014 Share Posted February 21, 2014 Blah...... Forget it. If he doesn't schedule a date, forget it. Link to comment
EmmieQ Posted February 21, 2014 Author Share Posted February 21, 2014 I figured that if he tried contacting me in this way, I owned him at least at explanation, so I did. But I don't regret what happened and I am not changing my mind... Link to comment
catfeeder Posted February 22, 2014 Share Posted February 22, 2014 Update: this guy just created a new facebook-profile (with his real name, but different spelling) to contact me and ask me whether we could talk, asking me why I deleted and blocked him from facebook... So, delete that 'identity' and block it. ..and walk away from social media for a while--it's a big world out there, go play in it. Link to comment
Tanzi Posted February 23, 2014 Share Posted February 23, 2014 I figured that if he tried contacting me in this way, I owned him at least at explanation, so I did. But I don't regret what happened and I am not changing my mind... That's fair enough. It might help you to give him an explanation and/or to get things off your chest. I'm glad you're standing your ground though. Incidentally, did he have an explanation for his lack of "actions"? Link to comment
EmmieQ Posted February 23, 2014 Author Share Posted February 23, 2014 Yes, he did. He told me his grandmother died and that he had been 'off planet' for about a week. He was never connected on fb (which is true, I saw he read my message, but he was never the 3 days before I deleted him). He apologized more than once, told me he understood my actions and respected them, but that he had felt very bad when he saw I had deleted and blocked his profile. Not sure what to think of it... Link to comment
greta96 Posted February 23, 2014 Share Posted February 23, 2014 Yes, he did. He told me his grandmother died and that he had been 'off planet' for about a week. He was never connected on fb (which is true, I saw he read my message, but he was never the 3 days before I deleted him). He apologized more than once, told me he understood my actions and respected them, but that he had felt very bad when he saw I had deleted and blocked his profile. Not sure what to think of it... That his ego has taken a minor blow and he doesn't want to lose the potential for some good making out and sex. Link to comment
Tanzi Posted February 23, 2014 Share Posted February 23, 2014 Well, he still hasn't made ANY plans to see you. More than any other time NOW would have been the time to prove himself but he didn't so I would continue with the NEW path you have chosen otherwise you will be sucked back in again. So he felt bad for the fact that you had deleted and blocked him, not that he hadn't got around to seeing you. That speaks volumes as to what this is all.about for him. Link to comment
missmarple Posted February 23, 2014 Share Posted February 23, 2014 So he felt bad for the fact that you had deleted and blocked him, not that he hadn't got around to seeing you. That speaks volumes as to what this is all.about for him. Exactly. It was all about online communication to him, not about meeting/dating in real life. Link to comment
Batya33 Posted February 23, 2014 Share Posted February 23, 2014 Nope -not an excuse worth anything even if it's true. Link to comment
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