Kellbell22 Posted November 2, 2011 Share Posted November 2, 2011 My boyfriend and I had been together 4 1/2 years. We dated in high school and continued our relationship into college. Our colleges are 4 hours apart but our long distance relationship survived for a little over 2 years. Last Halloween, I went to visit him and we both met a girl named Jessie. A few weeks after I met her, she sent my boyfriend her phone number over facebook and I saw it and checked his phone for her number but he didn't put it in his phone so I didn't mention it to him. I didn't think about her anymore until about a month ago when I saw that one of his friends had been hanging around with her. I always got weird vibes from her but I didn't question him about her because I trusted him. I went down to visit again and she came over to his apartment for a party. I have always gotten strong gut feelings about things and I am never wrong about them! She was all to interested in being around me and I had absolutely no reason to feel this way, but I had a strong hateful feeling toward her. After I left, I couldn't shake my feeling about her so I began to question my boyfriend. After questioning him, he finally admitted that the weekend before I visited, she had come onto him at a party and they had sex. He said that he was extremely drunk and vunerable and that he didn't care about her at all. My boyfriend and I had only ever had sex with each other prior to this. He says that he loves me and will do anything not to lose me and now he is trying to transfer colleges to be with me. I know that he does love me but I feel so hurt and betrayed by what he did. I love him and I want to forgive him but I don't know if I am going to be able to ever trust him again. We are broken up right now but he is trying to transfer to my college to get our relationship back. I am so lost and I have no idea what to do about this situation!! HELP! Any and all advice would be greatly appreciated!! Link to comment
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