Survey: How long were you with ex/reason for breakup?

[futuredentist]

1:3 months

2:6 months ago-and it still hurts

3 said she wasn't ready at this point in her life for a serious relationship-she said she needed to get her life sorted out career-wise

4 28, she's 26

[wtfjh]

1. 1 year

2. 1.5 mos

3. +

 

 

[DavidNetk]

1) How long were you with your ex?

2 Years

2) How long has it been since the breakup?

June 24, 2004 - her birthday (2 months ago)

3) Why do you think you two broke up?

She stoped loving me. Found someone else.

4) Your age

I'm 18, She's 19

[Nap-Man]

1) 2 1/2 years

 

2) 5 months

 

3) she wasn't sure that i really loved her (or so she tells me)!

 

4) i am 26 she is 27

[saddis]

1) 6 months

2) 3 weeks

3) money was always too big of an issue, she's an extrovert and i am not

4. i'm 20 she's 19

[CC]

1) 7 years

2) 7 months

3) he didnt feel like he loves me anymore. wanted to sort himself out.

4) both 23

[Fill]

1) 3.5 years

2) 1 month

3) Said she wanted to be single, didn't want to be committed, didn't want any priorities or burdens in her life, etc.

4) Both 22

[StrawTink]

1.5 years

augut 4th 2004

needs space doesnt want a relationship anymore

25 here 24 him

[auburnslp]

1) 3 years

2) 4 months

3) God told her she was still married to her ex-husband-she left me to reconcile with him

4) 37

[StrawTink]

so really in all truth we were in love with people who gave up because its too hard to put in some work into a relationship when it gets hard they walk because in real life love isnt a chick flick........ its more like a straight to video horror flick where the last one standing did all the torturing but blamed it on some crazy childhood thing. and because nobody wants to put in work anymore our relationships last as long as its easy. so new advice is everyone needs to hook up and keep it superficial..... make it easy and then we get to stay with someone.

[Clarabelle]

1) 5 years 2) 5 months 3) pressures of becoming parents; money problems 4) 37

[bestfootforward]

1. 2 years (living together)

2. 1 month

3. She got paranoid that she was in too stable a situation for someone of 20 and that we both, despite loving each other, need to get out and have wild youths while we still have the chance.

4. 22 (me) 20 (her)

[slw1]

1. 4 months broke up then 3 weeks

2. 3 months

3. She didnt like my morals(afraid to commit)

4. me 34 her 32

[HJP1990]

1) 2 years

2) 6 months

3) Saw his profile on a online adult dating service

4) his age 37 my age 32

[fantasia2004]

A) 2 1/2 years

B) 11 months

C) insecurites, immaturity, cancer illness, and money issues and communication the list goes on...

D) he is 29 I am 32

[southern_chic]

1. 2 months

2. 2 weeks

3. he wasn't ready for a relationship.....I really don't know!

4. I'm 16, he's 19

[trinitystorm]

1) 2.5 years

2) 5 months

3) he was tired of the relationship....waiting for commitment, complaining etc...

4) He: 32 Me: 31

[medtranusa]

Almost 9 years living together and engaged 10 months before breakup

9 months for a couple months

 

He said he did not love me anymore but he really meant he had someone he wanted to pursue. He met her 2 weeks before breakup with me. They have a sometime rocky relationship and he still has not totally let go of me. He calls us friends.

 

He is 40 and I am 42.

[DEgirl23]

4 years dating

5 years married

 

Been divorced for 10 years

 

too young, family, responsiblity too early

 

We are now 35 & 36 and dating again. We are both changed people and it like you are friends first and getting to know each other again. We just started dating about 2 weeks ago. We have two kids, daughter 15 & son 13. It is nice to have that in common. We seem to communicate a lot better this time around and more honest with each other. Well time will tell. Wish me luck!

[KaiserSoze]

1. 7 years

2. 1 month

3. She was not happy

4 29

[nosoul]

1.6 weeks(not long enough!!)

2.2days ago

3.because we didn't go out enough or so he says(he was always busy)

4.me:14, him:14

[StrawTink]

how come noone on here is talking about how everything is working out for the better? like they are doing fine and things are working out with ex. that they did nc and x came back and they are working everything out?

does it not work ? i want to hear some good news dang it.

[Vert]

I wish I could help you, strawtink. I really wish I could help you in that department .

[nicholascrack]

1. About three years

 

2. It's hard to really say, broke up really around two-three months ago. The line between break-up and together was blurred at times.

 

3. I became a different person after I began selling drugs, making money, etc. I made very little time for her and her needs.

 

4. I'm 21, she's almost 20.

[curbie]

1) 3 1/2 years

2) 6 months

3) She fell out of love with me

4) I'm 24 and she's 22