cupcake22 Posted April 13, 2011 Share Posted April 13, 2011 Because he says "life isn't worth living without me." But I wasn't the one who slept with 3 other chicks...so now what? I suggested him getting help, but I had to promise to give him another chance. Link to comment
guynextdoor Posted April 13, 2011 Share Posted April 13, 2011 What next? Block all contacts.. Link to comment
Mauxly Posted April 13, 2011 Share Posted April 13, 2011 I had an ex threaten to commit suicide if I didn't take him back. I made arrangements to see him and then drove him straight to a counselor, even paid for it, then went NC. Your ex sounds like a master of manipulation. Guynextdoor is right. Cut this guy out of your life. His mistakes aren't your problem. Link to comment
sidehop Posted April 13, 2011 Share Posted April 13, 2011 And next time please call the police. He doesn't sound emotionally stable at ALL that can threaten your life. I just wouldn't take any chances. Link to comment
catfeeder Posted April 13, 2011 Share Posted April 13, 2011 Go nowhere NEAR an ex with a gun. Especially an unstable one. Link to comment
Mauxly Posted April 13, 2011 Share Posted April 13, 2011 And next time please call the police. He doesn't sound emotionally stable at ALL that can threaten your life. I just wouldn't take any chances. This too. Let's say for a moment that he's serious...calling the police may save him. Let's say that he's not...calling the cops will show that you arent willing to play his game. And as Sideshop says, he could very well be a risk to you. Link to comment
catfeeder Posted April 13, 2011 Share Posted April 13, 2011 [...] Let's say for a moment that he's serious...calling the police may save him. Let's say that he's not...calling the cops will show that you arent willing to play his game. [...] Yep, you've got zero to lose and everything to gain by phoning the police. He'll be taught by people trained to handle him that his threats--and his gun--are too serious to use. Link to comment
abitbroken Posted April 13, 2011 Share Posted April 13, 2011 He manipulated you. I agree with calling the police next time and do it as discreetly as possible. Also, I would use the free counseling resources available in your community. You need to get away from this guy. He is unsafe. Link to comment
dramallama Posted April 13, 2011 Share Posted April 13, 2011 He's trying to manipulate you into coming back and giving in, similar to a child throwing a tantrum. Don't play into it. Ignore him, and if he threatens to do something stupid, either call his family or the police - do not respond. Link to comment
MakeItCount Posted April 13, 2011 Share Posted April 13, 2011 Did he do this while you were around? Call the cops, asap please. This is a serious matter. And stay the f**k away from him. Someone so unstable is not someone you "give another chance to". And like agresel said, you didn't have to. Link to comment
metrogirl Posted April 13, 2011 Share Posted April 13, 2011 Oh my goodness! You aren't seriously going to give him another chance are you? What's next, is he gonna threaten to shoot your mom or your dog? Link to comment
Miss Firecracker Posted April 13, 2011 Share Posted April 13, 2011 Because he says "life isn't worth living without me." But I wasn't the one who slept with 3 other chicks...so now what? I suggested him getting help, but I had to promise to give him another chance. I imagine I'd promise anything if someone had a gun making threats. If he would shoot himself, why do you think he wouldn't shoot someone else? He doesn't value life, his nor yours. Report this to the police. Tell them you feared for your life and had to promise to see him again. They understand that sort of thing. Link to comment
cupcake22 Posted April 13, 2011 Author Share Posted April 13, 2011 Thankfully I live 8 hours away. Link to comment
Miss Firecracker Posted April 14, 2011 Share Posted April 14, 2011 Thankfully I live 8 hours away. Is he still calling? Eight hours isn't too far when you want to see someone. Link to comment
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