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MakeItCount

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  1. Everyone should read his story. I followed it since day one and it was one hell of a learning experience for everyone who involved haha.
  2. Great to hear man, and glad you're going places. I have a feeling, whether this lasts or not, you'll be in one hell of a position to not even think twice about it. Good luck once again!
  3. Hey kid, thanks for the constant updates. Great post. It's nice to see someone give back to the community. Sincerely wish you all the best of luck my man.
  4. You too? Bahahha, I got a text a cpl weeks ago. Christ man.
  5. Damn son. Didn't see that coming! Only you know how you feel man. All the best, I really hope this works out for ya! Keep us posted.
  6. You ruined it by posting to page 56!! I HATE YOU haha, glad to hear it kid, I think you've made the right choice. Best of luck to you man.
  7. My advice would be to keep hanging out with her. You'll either be crazy about each other and thedistance for those few months won't matter, or you'll get bored of each other and it'll end. You have 5 months where you are in decent proximity with her - I think that will work just fine. This way you can get through the early stages and figure out what you want in time for her to leave. I think this is a great opportunity man, and it seems to come at the right time.
  8. Tough call man. Very tough. When is she leaving for the summer? I'm assuming you have exams either this month or the next? If I were in your position I'd keep hanging out with her, see what happens. How far of a drive would it be from NYC to wherever she is in Florida? Considering you're starting a new career etc, it might just not make sense. Right people, wrong time? So altogether you'd be apart for about 9 months, barring visits every month or so?
  9. Hey kid, one thing really hit home for me, and that's you saying this girl is not selfish and actually wants to make sure you're happy. That was a big thing with my ex too, and very refreshing to hear your progress right now. Shows that if we just do us, anything is possible. Hopefully things with E and you work out, and if they don't, at least you've had that epiphany that there's lots more out there. Glad to hear man, keep rollin'.
  10. glad it was a gongshow man. When we went we drank for like 18 hours straight. Best time of my life. hopefully going back in April. Rock on.
  11. I agree kid, it sucks not having that special person to share it with. Glad to hear things are going well, knock em dead. Hope you're having a blast in the DR.
  12. When it rains it pours. You're obviously stressed out, so seeing her right now doesn't help...just wait till next weekend when you're out, you definitely need a vacay.
  13. ^ I have an eharmony account, but I haven't paid yet so I can't see people haha
  14. I've had one up for a while, as soon as I switched my profile from the typical "hi i like camping" to some random crap that popped up into my head, I started getting way more messages. Totally agree, it's like the bar scene hahaha.
  15. Exactly how I feel man. Maybe some day. I think until we actually find someone to fill in that void, someone who CAN be our best friend..they'll always be in the back of our minds. Or the front. haha.
  16. Yeah, don't be taking a plunge. Real changes need to happen as faithful commented in your other thread. If he gets comfortable with you before being a different person then he'll just revert back.
  17. Daisy, thanks for sharing and best of luck with the situation. Sounds you're being smart about this. Don't wreck all of this progress until you're SURE he's changed.
  18. I'm honestly glad to see this up and down emotion from you man. You've clearly grown so much from this experience, and it really shows. Take it for what it is, a learning experience. Looking at it from the outside, you ex is no good for you. She's not emotionally mature, nowhere near close to you. At this time in life, she's not right for you. She may never mature, and that's a fact we all must accept about our ex. It would be so much different if any of us were abusive, immature, etc. our faults were that we cared too damn much. Now we know better. And still, at that, it's not a fault of ours. It's how we were raised. To treat women well..nothing wrong with that. Stay strong man, don't let these new flakey chicks get you down.
  19. Not worth it, it just says to go NC for a month, work on yourself, get in touch again, do something fun, don't bring up the relationship. There ya go.
  20. how to kick loves ass is based on Magic of Making Up, one of those e-books. Same advice you'd get on these boards.
  21. Stretch, and lots of it. Was it a sharp pain or a throbbing pain? This is one area I can help you with,
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