kennyc90 Posted March 23, 2011 Share Posted March 23, 2011 Is it cheating? Miscommunication? Boredom? Long distance? Link to comment
jumper11 Posted March 23, 2011 Share Posted March 23, 2011 It could be so many things.. from my experience, and people I know, it's generally miscommunication, misunderstandings, and boredom/feeling comfortable. But could be SO many things.. Link to comment
Oneironaut Posted March 23, 2011 Share Posted March 23, 2011 I'm curious to know if you have a specific reason in mind, because really, this question is so general that it's impossible to give any single, specific answer. Link to comment
kennyc90 Posted March 23, 2011 Author Share Posted March 23, 2011 I'm curious to know if you have a specific reason in mind, because really, this question is so general that it's impossible to give any single, specific answer. I don't really have any reason in mind. Link to comment
Destiny2112 Posted March 23, 2011 Share Posted March 23, 2011 I guess, in my case it mostly was long distance and miscommunication... I had no idea how much he suffered from the distance, he didn't really talk about the way he felt towards the end, which I find a pitty... If I had known, how serious the problm was for him, I could have reacted, but I had no idea, so the break up really hit me out of the blue... I was happy with him and I thought, he felt the same... obviously he didn't Link to comment
Hollyj Posted March 23, 2011 Share Posted March 23, 2011 commitment and trust issues. Link to comment
TidalWave Posted March 23, 2011 Share Posted March 23, 2011 Somebody else. That's what I believe is the no.1 people break up, be it whether they cheat on their partner with the person, or fall in love with them sand whatnot. I don't believe that majority of people break up with somebody because they find it unhealthy relationship not worth amending and their character dictates to break it up, for there's not many people of such character thinking reasonably. Most of the time people will rather suffer, overlook stuff in the name of naïve hope that it'll work out some day. Link to comment
thagator Posted March 23, 2011 Share Posted March 23, 2011 Based on the relatiinships I have seen end, I would have to agree that it's usually a trust or commitment issue. Cheating would be next, then there are a lot relationships that should have never started in the first place, usually just based on lust and the couple do not really know each other and are therefore ignorant to the fact that they're incompatible, the only reason they will last any length of time is due to sexual attraction. Eventually the constant bickering gets to them. Miscommunication can end a few but seems like small beans if everything else in the relationship was healthy, miscommunication can be resolved in my opinion. Although, I did just get dumped because of communication issues Link to comment
ForumGuy Posted March 23, 2011 Share Posted March 23, 2011 One of the parties falls "out of love" for whatever reason (romantic type love). You don't break up with someone you still love......at least I don't think so. Link to comment
LapointeP Posted March 23, 2011 Share Posted March 23, 2011 yeah I agree with this...my ex broke up with me because I we were too different and he didn't see a future, Link to comment
Glowguy Posted March 23, 2011 Share Posted March 23, 2011 You should make this into a poll. I think it's trust issues as well, but boredom is probably a close second. FWIW, I broke up with someone I still loved..... because of trust issues. Link to comment
kennyc90 Posted March 23, 2011 Author Share Posted March 23, 2011 You should make this into a poll. I think it's trust issues as well, but boredom is probably a close second. FWIW, I broke up with someone I still loved..... because of trust issues. Good idea. Link to comment
kennyc90 Posted March 23, 2011 Author Share Posted March 23, 2011 Darn it. I can't make it into a poll anymore. Link to comment
Lonewing Posted March 23, 2011 Share Posted March 23, 2011 breakup of communication due to a difference in opinion - on everything from "you should drive in the middle of the road and not next to the white line" to "I jsut think of you as a friend." Link to comment
Snowy Posted March 23, 2011 Share Posted March 23, 2011 1) Falling out of love. aka boredom 2) 3rd person in the picture. aka cheating etc. 3) Incompatibility. aka sexual incompatibilty, social incompatibility, personality incompatibility etc. Link to comment
lostidentity Posted March 23, 2011 Share Posted March 23, 2011 Most girls break up with me because I'm possessive. I've broken up with a million girls I didn't like (usually boring), but I've never broken up with one I did like. Link to comment
lostidentity Posted March 23, 2011 Share Posted March 23, 2011 Actually, from talking to a number of women, I wouldn't be surprised to find out that possessive relationships are the number one cause of breaks ups initiated by women. Link to comment
thewendy Posted March 23, 2011 Share Posted March 23, 2011 In my case, timing issues, as well as his needs changing, led to him falling out of love (or as he puts it, he doesn't love me the same way I love him). Link to comment
Seraphim Posted March 23, 2011 Share Posted March 23, 2011 Usually it is bad communication or no communication to begin with. Link to comment
ks240030 Posted March 23, 2011 Share Posted March 23, 2011 My ex and I broke up after 2 years because he did not want the relationship to go to the next level (we are in our 30's). He is a commitment phobe and said that he just want to date me and if we are still together for the next 10 years, he would marry me but out of obligation/pressure. Link to comment
Spawn Posted March 23, 2011 Share Posted March 23, 2011 its hard to exactly tell what could be the biggest reasons for breakup..... but what i have observed and noticed in this life...almost all the couples around me have broken up cause of trust issues and bad or virtually no meaningful communication, maturity could be the right word here. These days human feelings have been replaced with a cell and a facebook account. Most feelings are expressed with smses...hmm what happenned to good ol ways of falling in love... Link to comment
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