SapphireNoir10 Posted December 25, 2010 Share Posted December 25, 2010 Merry Christmas everyone! Even though you might be hurting, remember a new year is just around the corner. We can, and will do better in 2011. Stay strong, stick to Nc...and we will be fine *hugs* Link to comment
Minnie Mouse Posted December 25, 2010 Share Posted December 25, 2010 Aw thank you so much, I wish you a wonderful new year, love your optimism, you cheered me up! I needed that reminder to stay strong and in no contact Merry Christmas! X Link to comment
Snowy Posted December 25, 2010 Share Posted December 25, 2010 Stay strong guys. Merry Christmas! Link to comment
Mttens Posted December 25, 2010 Share Posted December 25, 2010 Merry Christmas everyone! I wish 2011 to be the beginning of a better and happier life for all of us, full of love and joy! Stay strong. Link to comment
jds1990 Posted December 25, 2010 Share Posted December 25, 2010 2011, new year new start! i know everyone says this but its the first time ive said it and i mean it. Been 9 weeks NC and its going to continue forever if it has to! Merry xmas everyone!! Stay strong x Link to comment
Live-N-Learn Posted December 25, 2010 Share Posted December 25, 2010 2010 was a learning year. Though very painful, in many ways it has made me a better person. Looking do forward to 2011 and apply all that I have learned. I can promise you i will never allow myself to go through this again with anyone! Link to comment
SapphireNoir10 Posted December 25, 2010 Author Share Posted December 25, 2010 I cant wait. Nothing better for a fresh start than a whole new year! Im going to enjoy Christmas to the full, with my lovely family, had a wonderful xmas eve with my best friend tonight. I am single. And I am happy for the most part. And I will be ok Edit: Exactly Live-N-Learn, we've learnt valuable lessons in 2010 that will make out 2011's even better. Link to comment
jds1990 Posted December 25, 2010 Share Posted December 25, 2010 2010 was a learning year. Though very painful, in many ways it has made me a better person. Looking do forward to 2011 and apply all that I have learned. I can promise you i will never allow myself to go through this again with anyone! I second this! Link to comment
theartofruin Posted December 25, 2010 Share Posted December 25, 2010 Thanks Sapphire! After doing well healing I've unfortunately been feeling really alone the past few days, but that message made me smile just knowing I'm not really alone in the grand scheme of things. It just sucks when everybody around me is happy and excited and I know I'm "supposed" to too, but I just feel so... bleurgh Today was especially miserable for me, but hopefully tomorrow (xmas day) will be a bit better. 2010 as a whole has just been a huge waste of time for me, so many regrets; but as you say I'll probably look back in the future and consider it a really painful but important lesson. I've got big plans for 2011, hopefully things go well. Anyway, Merry Xmas to all of you, and hopefully next year will be great things! Link to comment
SapphireNoir10 Posted December 25, 2010 Author Share Posted December 25, 2010 Im going to enjoy Christmas if it kills me! Lol! I am absoloutley determined to have a fab day, and not think about the ex. And just try and look forward to the future. I've made some AWFUL mistakes this year in relationships/dating/trusting people etc. But I wont remake them in 2011 thats for sure. Fresh start, new leaf. Im just gonna be glad for that. Your not alone Link to comment
blueberrypie Posted December 25, 2010 Share Posted December 25, 2010 After doing well healing I've unfortunately been feeling really alone the past few days, but that message made me smile just knowing I'm not really alone in the grand scheme of things. It just sucks when everybody around me is happy and excited and I know I'm "supposed" to too, but I just feel so... bleurgh I understand what you mean. I've been feeling this way. My coworkers' happiness/holiday spirit was getting to me. You are not alone! Merry Christmas everyone! Few more days to go, and a whole different/new year is waiting for us! Link to comment
SapphireNoir10 Posted December 25, 2010 Author Share Posted December 25, 2010 I can't wait. I think im more excited about new years lol. Link to comment
blueberrypie Posted December 25, 2010 Share Posted December 25, 2010 I can't wait. I think im more excited about new years lol. Me, too. At first I was sad that the breakup happened before all the holidays. I thought that it would have been so much easier if it happened in the middle of the year..But, I think it might be easier to go through with it when everything around you is dying along with my relationship with my ex. Although a calendar year is just that--the artificial point people created, I am glad that the end is ending and I can start a "new" year. This past year was very dramatic: Started to talk to my mom again, graduated, got engaged, had a big disagreement with my mom and stop talking to her again, and got dumped. Now, I am visiting my mom to reconcile, so that I can close this chapter of my life, and then start a new life next year. =) Link to comment
SapphireNoir10 Posted December 25, 2010 Author Share Posted December 25, 2010 Im glad mine happened close to the holidays, all my friends and family are around, back from uni etc. So I can catch up with people I havent seen in years, reknew old friendships and make new ones. I feel a lot better for it. My year was much teh same, met someone, got engaged, moved in, broke up, had to start again lol. Link to comment
sidehop Posted December 25, 2010 Share Posted December 25, 2010 Things will get better if you're going through a break up. Stay strong everyone. Link to comment
GotMyLifeBack Posted December 25, 2010 Share Posted December 25, 2010 Everyone here: congratulate and hug yourselves for coming to this forum because YOU want to grow as individuals and have great, healthy relationships. With VERY rare exceptions, do you see your ex here? Link to comment
jaywalk Posted December 25, 2010 Share Posted December 25, 2010 Merry Christmas and God bless you and all the rest of the readers and posters on this site. Link to comment
kennyc90 Posted December 25, 2010 Share Posted December 25, 2010 Merry Christmas! Yeah this holiday season sucks but I tried to make the best out of it!! Link to comment
newwave Posted December 25, 2010 Share Posted December 25, 2010 2010 was a learning year. Though very painful, in many ways it has made me a better person. Looking do forward to 2011 and apply all that I have learned. I can promise you i will never allow myself to go through this again with anyone! Me neither. This was the worst year ever and I will never allow another man to do this to me again. I'm changing many things, including never a guy getting this close again, not being obessesd with dating, and if it happens not dating just one person. The hurt was extremely painful and I can't bear it. I was fine being single and perhaps that's what is intended for me. Of course there is always the possibility I'll meet a great guy who wants to be with me, but I'm done looking for him right now. I'm fine with all of this and in a few months I am joining a singles group and maybe there will be a guy there (or someone will know a great guy). Link to comment
Irial Posted December 25, 2010 Share Posted December 25, 2010 Merry Christmas, guys. I'm hurting but I have hope it'll be better next year (at least I keep telling myself that). I hope each one of you has a great time, and those who don't: you're not alone. Link to comment
SapphireNoir10 Posted December 25, 2010 Author Share Posted December 25, 2010 Stay strong everyone and have a wonderful day Link to comment
CSLX9 Posted December 25, 2010 Share Posted December 25, 2010 Indeed. image removed Christmas in Denmark image removed Christmas in China image removed Christmas in Africa Link to comment
SapphireNoir10 Posted December 25, 2010 Author Share Posted December 25, 2010 Those pics are beautiful, thanks for sharing!! Link to comment
gradstudent88 Posted December 25, 2010 Share Posted December 25, 2010 Today is definitely harder than I had anticipated. I was in good spirits all day yesterday and last night, but the minute I woke up this morning, I immediately felt down in the dumps, as if a part of me were missing. And I know I can't let this affect the holidays, and I'm looking forward to spending time with my family, but it's hard not being able to share this with the one person that I really love(d). But I'll make it. Hope everyone else is staying strong! Link to comment
Mortrom Posted December 25, 2010 Share Posted December 25, 2010 Today is definitely harder than I had anticipated. I was in good spirits all day yesterday and last night, but the minute I woke up this morning, I immediately felt down in the dumps, as if a part of me were missing. And I know I can't let this affect the holidays, and I'm looking forward to spending time with my family, but it's hard not being able to share this with the one person that I really love(d). But I'll make it. I know right? I went to bed feeling fine, and woke up immediately miserable. This post spoke out to me this morning, I feel like this completely. You are so not alone there. And I'll try to not let it get me down in the holidays either. Link to comment
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