Long distance Girlfriend was murdered

[BenDoodle99]

Oh, no she said she used to live in Oregon then her family moved to Cali,

[Maroney555]

oh ok sorry, my mistake.

 

if i were you, i'd call her "mom" who i'm starting to think was her friend. and i would call her. actual phone call.

[BenDoodle99]

i have been, not been replying or texting last couple hours...

 

looks like people were right...

 

now im just curious as to what about her is real

 

here's a pic of her she sent, she'd sent like 20 in total.

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[r0ckox]

Sounds like you have a case of the crazies, on this one.

First off, it's total BS. None of that is true. Her "mom" is really her friend, and they're laughing their a$ses off right now about it.

I once had a LDR with a girl who pretended to goto Vegas from Cali, and her drunk-ex kidnapped her "child" (who was non-existent) and had gotten into an accident killing the baby. She sent about 40 pictures of herself too... come to find out it wasn't really her, she just grabbed some girl's myspace photos and sent that as her own.

 

Im sorry that you were put through this, it's cruel and uncalled for.. but it's the truth. She just didn't want to tell you that she wasn't coming.

How would her ex-bf's dad know she was at the airport? How would he kidnap her? How would she contain him by kicking him in the groin, and have enough time to run away and find her aunt's house? Although a kick in the groin is very painful, after 30 seconds or so you're able to move and walk/run again.

 

Where was her friend while she was kidnapped? How was she able to hide her cell phone and then continue texting you while it's going on?

And what exactly did she lose too much blood from? Where is her friend? What happened to her? How come she's not dead?

Why is it that when you called, all of a sudden her "mom" (friend) is too busy talking to a doctor and can't talk? The girl is already dead, right? What else is there to discuss? Why hasn't she called back?

How would her mom know all of this, and why would she be texting you about it? Her aunt wasn't home? Who found her? Who brought her to the hospital? What hospital is it?

 

 

etc.

 

These are all questions you need to ask yourself.

 

Maybe nothing is real about this girl. Maybe she's just some girl who created a personality, and a false life for herself. I'd try and find out who's phone number (the mom's) it really belongs to. What does the voice-message say? Is it a robot or a person? Does it sound like an adult female or some kid?

 

Such a cruel world we live in.

 

Try calling her phone number from a pay-pphone, or a blocked # in a few days and see who answers the phone and how much information you can get.

[BenDoodle99]

It's her normal voice message, her voice saying "I can't get the phone right now leave a message"

 

I was already considering the phone thing.

[casper01]

Mate you've been scammed there's some 13 year old kids in America havinga right laugh at you, how can you be that gullible?

[kirk]

I'm sorry to say mate, but it looks as if this is one big lie. A lot of the story just doesn't add-up.

[C_Unknown2005]

Wow this thread has blown up!

[RougeKali823]

Oueben call the hospital and give them her name. From what I can tell she lied to you because a kidnapping taking place at any airport is highly unlikely. Here are a few things I want you to do. BTW my brother had a similar thing happen to him and I got the girl to fess up by making him follow the steps below.

 

1.Check the tags on that picture to see where it originated online.

2. Tell us how many pictures she's sent you.

3. Call the service provider of her cellular service

4. Text her mother saying that you'd like to know where to forward flowers and a donation in her honor (if she responds to this but was too busy to talk earlier than its DEF a scam).

5. Next, call the police in NY and tell them her DOB, age, sex and whatever else you know and they will search for any crimes against persons fitting that profile.

6. Contact the airport she arrived at and give them the same info you give the police.

7. Calm down and accept that loving honestly is never wrong and if you were scammed that it doesn't invalidate your love but that she (or whoever you spoke with) is morally bankrupt for having misled you)

[Dragunov-21]

Think you've been had, mate =/

[BenDoodle99]

The thing is, this is 6 months of us talking on the phone, for hours a day most of them, I don't know how she'd be able to fake it for that long...

 

Maybe she has mental issues or bipolar disorder or she suddenly wanted a way out/got cold feet etc.

[RougeKali823]

Did she send you only one picture?

[BenDoodle99]

no about 20 or so

[RougeKali823]

no about 20 or so

 

Who paid for her plane ticket? Kirk is right and this is why I suggested that you check the photo info.

[kirk]

Did any of them pictures feature a time-stamp, or was she holding up any messages ("I love you Ben ____")?

 

Chances are that picture, and the others she sent, were just from another site.

[Miss Firecracker]

It is quite a coincidence she was murdered on her way to meet you. I can imagine she's having a laugh about this. She should be ashamed for treating you this way. Things like this are hard, but you have now learned a good lesson. Don't invest much time in strangers online. Certainly don't believe you can be in love with one.

[agent1607307371]

The thing is, this is 6 months of us talking on the phone, for hours a day most of them, I don't know how she'd be able to fake it for that long...

 

The sad thing is, there are sick sad people out there who do do these things and can and have done them for considerably longer than six months.

[AmandaB]

Im curious as to why she was in New York when her connection was in London. I doubt they would divert a plane to NY due to snow in London. Also, if she even was in NY why did she leave the airport? This story is like swiss cheese, too many holes in it.

[sweetpea03]

The thing is, this is 6 months of us talking on the phone, for hours a day most of them, I don't know how she'd be able to fake it for that long...

 

Maybe she has mental issues or bipolar disorder or she suddenly wanted a way out/got cold feet etc.

 

Some people are cruel and like to play games...

 

I knew of a girl in high school who would try to get guys to fall in love with her online and pretend to be in a relationship with them. These guys would call her, text her, chat with her a lot. They acted like a couple. Then when she felt like they were getting too close, she'd cut contact. She never had feelings for them, but faked that she did. She has many psychological problems that need to be fixed and I always felt horrible for her prey. I think she also did it to help her ego or something. It was sick to see how happy she was when she would talk about this game of hers.

 

This is why online relationship are not always healthy and it's better to be with someone in person... in my opinion.

[ToF]

I googled and there isn't a McNary High School in Anaheim....nor could my search generate one for the whole LA county. Sorry man.

 

So, is this being ignored or have I missed something?

 

This seems like a VERY crucial bit of information.

[SapphireNoir10]

I think OP you need to listen to what posters are saying and do some investigating so you know one way or the other.

[sweetpea03]

So, is this being ignored or have I missed something?

 

This seems like a VERY crucial bit of information.

 

Well as the story goes, she did live in Oregon(where the high school does exist) and her family moved to Calif... I live in Southern Calif myself and would have recognized the school name.

[BenDoodle99]

600 E 233rd St, Bronx, New York - (718) 920-9014

 

Our lord mercy - NY hopsital

 

I was told this is the place she was at.

 

is it possible to call and ask them for any deaths under the name of Alexis?

[Maroney555]

Where are you getting this info?

[sweetpea03]

600 E 233rd St, Bronx, New York - (718) 920-9014

 

Our lord mercy - NY hopsital

 

I was told this is the place she was at.

 

is it possible to call and ask them for any deaths under the name of Alexis?

 

Hospitals are not allowed to disclose personal information on patients or the deceased, unless you are family. Also, the name you wrote is wrong, the only similar one is called Our Lady of Mercy Hospital.