Cadence Posted May 5, 2007 Share Posted May 5, 2007 Haha..this is definitely something that I can relate to as of last night. I made out with a guy I've been seeing for the first time and I was THRILLED with how turned on he was. I wish I were as easily turned on... Link to comment
ShroudedSorrow24 Posted June 7, 2007 Author Share Posted June 7, 2007 wow sorry, this has absolutely nothing to do with this thread. I haven't been on this site forever. This was one of the last threads I started actually. Anyhoot, this is the first time I've logged on in about 3 years and this poll is still getting comments. Just thought that was kind of neat ;-) Link to comment
omayra Posted June 7, 2007 Share Posted June 7, 2007 I get a boner just from talking to my girlfriend... let alone making out with her... Lol, damn, just thinking about her gets me hard... the guy i am talking to know also gets one. u can just tell because he breaths hard oer the phone. lol i really like it . omg huge turn on!! Link to comment
Parsley Posted June 8, 2007 Share Posted June 8, 2007 LOVE IT! One of the things I missed most when single. I absolutely love it. Link to comment
Brooke657 Posted June 8, 2007 Share Posted June 8, 2007 It would depend on weather or not it was someone I just started dating or if it was like my boyfriend. Link to comment
JadedStar Posted June 8, 2007 Share Posted June 8, 2007 I know there have been a bunch of topics like this, but the girls don't reply much to them and it'd be nice to have a girls input..... When you are making out with a guy and you feel a boner does it make you think "eww thats nasty" or do you like it?? These examples are just general, if you could explain more thatd be great. I never thought "eww that was nasty" but for some reason hearing you put it that way as in "a boner" that for some reason turned me off. I guess that is just an ugly term for me. LOL Erection or hard on for some reason sounds better. I dont know guess one of my quirks. But there is nothing eww or yuk aobut that. It is great as i know he is turned on. Link to comment
Brooke657 Posted June 8, 2007 Share Posted June 8, 2007 I never thought "eww that was nasty" but for some reason hearing you put it that way as in "a boner" that for some reason turned me off. I guess that is just an ugly term for me. LOL lol that's exactly what I was thinking...it just sounds gross when you say it like that. Link to comment
JadedStar Posted June 8, 2007 Share Posted June 8, 2007 lol that's exactly what I was thinking...it just sounds gross when you say it like that. yea, a boner sounds like something a teenage boy gets when he sees his first playboy, or a guy at the stripclub or watching porn. LOL. Just that term invokes negative connotations for me for some reason. Link to comment
booberry Posted June 14, 2007 Share Posted June 14, 2007 I would love it and DO love it. Giving him an erection is like a trophy I won for my skills at kissing! Link to comment
expressed Posted June 17, 2007 Share Posted June 17, 2007 I only had my first real kiss last week. And by real kiss i mean with tongue and with my girlfriend that i love. Not something like a game of truth or dare in the back of a bus. And I knew that i would have an erection as I always get one from her when were touching closely, aka spooning or cuddling or my arm around here. It even happens sometimes when shes just in the room. I wish i had more control, but anyway during our first kiss I went on top of her and she was on her back and everything was fine, but then I ejaculated. This was one of the most embarrassing moments of my life. Although I'm almost 100 percent sure she didn't know I still feel embarrassed. And I really hope this doesn't happen again and i feel like i don't have control over myself. But maybe its because it was the first time we were this close and i was on top of her? Does this happen ever happen to anybody else? Link to comment
Bullet For My Valentine Posted June 19, 2007 Share Posted June 19, 2007 Hmmmm,look,I'm a guy (no * * * *),and from my experiences with my (now my ex) girlfriend. I can tell u this,it's not as much connected (getting an erection) with kissing as much it is with an airflow. The more CO2 u have in your body the more aroused u get,and now,many guys hold their breath (including me) so they would not breathe in their partners face or some * * * * hence they get a "boner". So for all guys who h8 getting a boner or feel shy 'cause of it,breathe normally (slowly OFC),and for all those girls who like giving a boner (I can see there are much of u - encouraging try drowning ur boyfriend!!! lol Link to comment
Alexis_failure Posted June 20, 2007 Share Posted June 20, 2007 I love it when I'm making out with a guy and i can feel his hard on thru his jeans. It turns me on knowing that i'm doing it right and he's enjoying himself. what do you do when u feel him get hard? Link to comment
Bullet For My Valentine Posted June 22, 2007 Share Posted June 22, 2007 Dunno, I guess u just squeeze him real hard to ur body just to show him u like it... At least that's what my girl does to me. And I really like it when she does it, 'cause she starts breathing heavy..... We haven't even kissed on our lips yet and she still does it.... I really really love it! Girls do it!!! Link to comment
WorkoutAddict Posted June 30, 2007 Share Posted June 30, 2007 I like it. I feel flattered. Link to comment
Undefined Posted July 1, 2007 Share Posted July 1, 2007 When I make out with my boyfriend, and he gets an erection- it makes me feel wanted, and special- it's nice to know he likes what he's getting... in a 'not gross' way. Link to comment
Allie. Posted July 4, 2007 Share Posted July 4, 2007 Hahha...I usually dont mind it. But once, one of my ex's was on top of me and we were making out, and all of a sudden, I felt something kinda go "pop" on my thigh...so that was a bit awkward... Link to comment
333 Posted July 4, 2007 Share Posted July 4, 2007 Hahha...I usually dont mind it. But once, one of my ex's was on top of me and we were making out, and all of a sudden, I felt something kinda go "pop" on my thigh...so that was a bit awkward... hahah gahh i hate when that happens, each time it happens i burst out in laughter and can't control it, it's awful. my boyfriends understanding by now but the first time he was really confused about why i was laughing, and it was so embarrassing to not be able to give him a reason because i just can't control myself when it happens. im ridiculous haha Link to comment
l0velife Posted July 4, 2007 Share Posted July 4, 2007 I think it's sexy, honestly. My boyfriend does it all the time Link to comment
Bradster Posted July 5, 2007 Share Posted July 5, 2007 I was gonna make a post on this but found it, I have recently started going out with this girl and I get a hard on when kissing her (with tongue), I think she saw it once lol, and she just looked away from it, do you think she minded? Or felt embarrassed herself for some reason? Link to comment
alphaliterati Posted July 7, 2007 Share Posted July 7, 2007 for a very long time, I have asked myself this very same question. You know, I never quite understood why guys ever wore pants and for that reason, I never did. But I, sooner rather than later, realised I was finding myself in situations I was afraid to publicly display affections for fear of 'exciting' myself. It eventually occurred to me why male 'pants' generally sold quite well. Believe me, I hate them. But when I know I will be exposed to a brazen lass, I dig out my best and most elastic underwear........from then, I can rest assured I have nothing to worry about. Whatever bump is palpable on the outside with a good underwear is almost negligable........I think. Link to comment
alphaliterati Posted July 7, 2007 Share Posted July 7, 2007 Shy girl, thanks for sharing your throughts. Yes, kissing can be intimidating at first, particularly when so physically close. But we all learn. By the way how old are you? Hey hi? Sorry, kinda conducting an experiment.........would you like to take part? Let me know...........thanks. Alpha. Link to comment
dtgrl812 Posted July 9, 2007 Share Posted July 9, 2007 It's not a disgusting thing, it's a beautiful thing. If the girl is disgusted, she has either an issue with sex (not to say kissing always leads to sex) or an issue with her feelings for the guy lip-locked to her. i was going to reply to topic and kookie wrote what i was thinking!! Link to comment
dtgrl812 Posted July 9, 2007 Share Posted July 9, 2007 ive known guys who have gotten boners from the way thier girl smells (thier favorite perfume; or what have you) Link to comment
Clue-Less Posted July 10, 2007 Share Posted July 10, 2007 It all depends on how into the guy she is, if your just havning fun kissing it can be a little forward but if you want to take it to the next level its a great way to open the door "so to say". Plus every person reacts differently in sexual situations no one is the same. Link to comment
SexySadie7 Posted July 10, 2007 Share Posted July 10, 2007 What would be embarrassing about a guy getting a boner when he kisses you? I think that's flattering. It shows you turn him on. If he's not getting any reaction at all, I just have to wonder if he's really into you at all. Besides, it feels so nice to snuggle against the 'boner'! LOL... hey... we have sex drives too, guys! LOL.. anyway... I was dating this guy awhile back and we slept together after not seeing each other for many months. He didn't seem to have a boner or anything all night long. In the morning too, I just tried to caress him down there and he got all defensive, saying he "didn't want to be played with". I think that guy needs a case of viagra! I hate guys with no sex drive! Or who knows, maybe he was gay! He really wasn't very affectionate in the first place, and NEVER ever showed any public displays of affection. He even wanted me to call HIM instead of him calling ME! Some guys are so weird. Needless to say, I'm not dating HIM anymore! Anyway.. yeah... it's not unnormal at all for guys to get erections when they are making out with someone they are attracted to. Hey.. if erections didn't occur, would any of us even be here??.... lol I gotta ask though... I hear that guys can make their erections go "away" by sort of doing something to their penis, kinda of like pushing it down. I saw a bf do that once, and it seemed like he was being rather 'mean" to his penis, but i guess it worked. Like another female poster said, I don't have this device either, so I guess I'm in the dark about how they work sometimes too! Link to comment
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