ZeldaPrinces Posted August 12, 2008 Share Posted August 12, 2008 Bryan, I don't assume he's making a sexual advance or disrespecting me. And I understand that guys can get them for random reasons! Heck, they get them by doing a maths exam. They get 5 in the sleep during the REM stages, just because the body does a check to see if it still works. But the ones that occur from females are due to a turn on, and I do not believe that a kiss should be a turn on. Link to comment
ZeldaPrinces Posted August 12, 2008 Share Posted August 12, 2008 Guys don't get them from kissing guys (if they are hetrosexual.) But they get them from kissing girls. Which shows us that it clearly is a turn on. And for me that is not okay. Its okay for some people and thats fine, but I stand by my belief that I believe love is love and sex is not love and a turn on is a sexual response. Link to comment
Tezza Posted August 12, 2008 Share Posted August 12, 2008 It's a compliment cos I know that I have turned him on... Link to comment
BryanBiff Posted August 12, 2008 Share Posted August 12, 2008 ZeldaPrinces, Why is it "not ok" for a guy to get turned on by kissing a girl? Isn't that like a normal reaction? If I'm kissing a girl that I really like - or even think about it - then I get turned on. Otherwise I might as well be kissing my grandma. So yes, I get an erection. But that doesn't mean I flaunt it or make the girl feel uncomfortable or pressure her into doing anything she doesn't want to do. Usually its the opposite - I try to make it not that obvious. That's self control. Truthfully, I haven't had that much experience with girls, so I let the girl be in control of the situation - she tells me how far I can go. Bryan Link to comment
phish Posted August 12, 2008 Share Posted August 12, 2008 Kissing, I find is not something that is supposed to be a turn on. It is meant to be a mutual feeling of love. I'd say its more about expressing love through physical contact. Its as much about flesh as it is emotions -the two are pretty much inseparable. Kissing is not a platonic activity. I get an erection while making out -its all part of being passionate and letting deeper instincts take control. I haven't met a girl yet who was weirded out by it. Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted August 12, 2008 Share Posted August 12, 2008 I think if you are making out with a man, it's completely natural that he become aroused. You should expect it if your kisses are passionate. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted August 12, 2008 Share Posted August 12, 2008 i do this all the time with the girl i'm seeing. i make sure she knows i have it. Link to comment
ZeldaPrinces Posted August 13, 2008 Share Posted August 13, 2008 Well I don't expect it from my Man because he likes the kiss but dosen't become turned on by it. We more enjoy the fact that its relaxed. He dosen't get an erection because he's not turned on by me. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted August 13, 2008 Share Posted August 13, 2008 Well I don't expect it from my Man because he likes the kiss but dosen't become turned on by it. We more enjoy the fact that its relaxed. He dosen't get an erection because he's not turned on by me. wow. that's ... nice? Link to comment
amtjrtcet Posted August 13, 2008 Share Posted August 13, 2008 I love it...its like a game, and you just made it to level two. Link to comment
BryanBiff Posted August 14, 2008 Share Posted August 14, 2008 He dosen't get an erection because he's not turned on by me. When I kiss a girl I WANT to be turned on by her and I want her to be turned on by me. That doesn't mean that we will have sex and if she wants to be abstinent, thats cool. But I expect to be physically attracted to her and that means my body is going to show it. 1 Link to comment
xRoh Posted August 16, 2008 Share Posted August 16, 2008 Haha when I was with one of my ex's I wouldn't even need to kiss him and he'd have a hard on. But yes, I love it when the guy has an erection. I like knowing that I turn him on and it feels good too. Link to comment
abbynormal91 Posted August 31, 2008 Share Posted August 31, 2008 I like it... a lot. =D I think if a girl doesn't like it she probably has some hang ups about sex and/or isn't really into the guy. I can understand maybe being scared because you aren't ready for that sort of thing but just know that at any time you can stop. Link to comment
tina-rocks Posted August 31, 2008 Share Posted August 31, 2008 It's the best feeling in the world as you know they are turned on by you. You gotta love it. Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted August 31, 2008 Share Posted August 31, 2008 It's the best feeling in the world as you know they are turned on by you. You gotta love it. I ditto this post...... Link to comment
beauty_is_pain Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 i think its a big turn on, a boner, or hes like moaning , and saying thing like oh my god just makes it that much hotter for me Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted September 13, 2008 Share Posted September 13, 2008 I like it! What's not to like, right? Link to comment
collegegal1 Posted September 26, 2008 Share Posted September 26, 2008 I would say it depends on the situation how the "boner" incident would make me feel. For example, if you have just ended a 2nd date with a young lady, you kiss, and you get a boner, you would probably not want her to know that...dont get me wrong its very natural but that could be interpreted (on her part) that you're overly sexual. If this young lady is your girlfriend (or something like it...haha) its a beautiful thing and i dont think it would bother her in the least.....it doesnt bother me in the least, i quite enjoy it. Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted September 26, 2008 Share Posted September 26, 2008 It's a great thing...... Link to comment
MinziGirl Posted September 26, 2008 Share Posted September 26, 2008 Are you sure you are ok when you are asking this question out in the forum? Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted September 26, 2008 Share Posted September 26, 2008 Are you sure you are ok when you are asking this question out in the forum? yeah...LMAO! Link to comment
SimplySasha Posted September 26, 2008 Share Posted September 26, 2008 A little kiss on the cheek and he pops a boner, yeah, weird. Some heavy panting and smooches and he pops a boner, GAME ON. Link to comment
OverThrown Posted September 28, 2008 Share Posted September 28, 2008 Heh, my first and only kiss was full on french kissing so I was very aroused Awkward seeing it was just a day out with someone I just met. Link to comment
Sure94 Posted October 14, 2008 Share Posted October 14, 2008 Usually, it's quite an accomplishing feeling. Like, "YES! I've made him horny!" - in some situations I've been quite embarrassed because they didn't get a boner!!! Link to comment
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