Aueft Posted October 14, 2005 Share Posted October 14, 2005 I heard somewhere in another topic that it's impossible for a guy not to get a boner while kissing. Some sort of chemical release. Link to comment
Vert Posted October 14, 2005 Share Posted October 14, 2005 I heard somewhere in another topic that it's impossible for a guy not to get a boner while kissing. Some sort of chemical release. I'd tend to agree with that because I always get hard when I'm kissing my gf (not just casual stuff, but rather making out). I'd have to check the validity of that claim online, though. Link to comment
Cyne Posted October 14, 2005 Share Posted October 14, 2005 It certainly seems to be a valid fact. I could never hold off getting hard while kissing my ex, I wasn't sure if she could tell I had one or not because I always did my best to hide it. Link to comment
Vert Posted October 14, 2005 Share Posted October 14, 2005 It certainly seems to be a valid fact. I could never hold off getting hard while kissing my ex, I wasn't sure if she could tell I had one or not because I always did my best to hide it. They know, trust me. They all know. Link to comment
Cyne Posted October 14, 2005 Share Posted October 14, 2005 I mean, it should in no way be embarrassing... it should be taken as a compliment in my opinion. If there was an obvious sign like that for a girl, I would take it as a compliment. Link to comment
Vert Posted October 14, 2005 Share Posted October 14, 2005 I mean, it should in no way be embarrassing... it should be taken as a compliment in my opinion. If there was an obvious sign like that for a girl, I would take it as a compliment. Most do if not all. I think that a rare few will take it as a disgusting thing because they have a distorted view of sex and/or male arousal. Link to comment
Cyne Posted October 14, 2005 Share Posted October 14, 2005 I mean, it might be a little embarrassing for myself at first because it just makes you feel a little exposed, but it wouldn't take long to get over it. Link to comment
L8RISER Posted October 14, 2005 Share Posted October 14, 2005 I heard somewhere in another topic that it's impossible for a guy not to get a boner while kissing. Some sort of chemical release. Try kissing your momma! You get a hard on cuz it's a sexual act...touching can do the same thing. Link to comment
Amano Ginji Posted October 16, 2005 Share Posted October 16, 2005 Alrite...i always get a boner when kissing...but it only gets worse cuz then i want to do more than just kiss....cant control the feeling...u no wat i mean!! Link to comment
hurlyburly11 Posted October 20, 2005 Share Posted October 20, 2005 ive had this huge crush on this girl in my grade since about febuary but never really made a move on her until now, i can certainly tell shes atracted to me and im really attracted to her, like we were flirting and stuff no real kissing or anything just "touching" would a girl find that hot or what, from reading all the posts it sounds like she would find it hot but im j/w. and tomorrow night were gonna go out and hang, its not really a date date, but its more like a friendly date, i've made notions and stuff about going out on msn and she just said ya man , and idk if thats a yes or a jokey yes so idk, if u dont wanna fill this thread up u can just pm with what u think thanks 8) btw me being 15 and never kissed a girl, reading this thread makes me alot more confident Link to comment
Shadows Light Posted October 23, 2005 Share Posted October 23, 2005 i can certainly tell shes atracted to me and im really attracted to her, like we were flirting and stuff no real kissing or anything just "touching" would a girl find that hot or what, Flirting and stuff.. and Touching leads to kissing... lol... and yes.. I think she'd find it hot. Intriqueing... if she didn't.. she'd shy away from your "touches".. instead of inviting them. Link to comment
Shadows Light Posted October 23, 2005 Share Posted October 23, 2005 It certainly seems to be a valid fact. I could never hold off getting hard while kissing my ex, I wasn't sure if she could tell I had one or not because I always did my best to hide it. They know, trust me. They all know. Yes... and if I don't know intuitively.. I'll reach down and find out. lol.. Hey.. its our barometer.. to know we turn you guys on... whats wrong with that??? be happy about it. And quit worrying. Its a compliment. Link to comment
Cyne Posted October 23, 2005 Share Posted October 23, 2005 Yeah, but we need our own Barometer to know we turn you girls on as well Link to comment
Shadows Light Posted October 23, 2005 Share Posted October 23, 2005 Well that all depends...lol.. if we're having a converation and the twins look awake.. thats a good sign. Blushing. Heavy breathing. sighing, moaning.. groaning.. thats a good bet. The glassy eyed look, pupils dialated... eyes at half mast.. thats a good bet. Voice gets huskier. and quieter. Grinding her hips into you is a good bet.. trying to get closer. And then.. back arching, grabbing the sheets, biting the pillow case to muffle the screams, yep.. I'd say those were all excellent barameters. And the obvious... Flood watch in effect and another pair of panties ruined. lol. Link to comment
Cyne Posted October 24, 2005 Share Posted October 24, 2005 You're right on all counts, I illicited a lot of those reactions in my Ex when I was giving her a neck massage with my lips and tongue, I performed that on her for a good 30 minutes. She was breathing hard, squirming and was suffocating me because she had her arm wrapped so tight around my neck Knowing I could get her to react like that was very arousing Link to comment
Vert Posted October 25, 2005 Share Posted October 25, 2005 I confirmed last night with my gf that she could indeed feel it (she said every time), and this was after she grinded herself on it for about 30 minutes through my pants while she made out with me. I noticed her completely tense up and shake, and she admitted to having an orgasm from that. Good to know that I don't need to do much with this girl to get her to the big O Link to comment
Salvelinus Posted October 26, 2005 Share Posted October 26, 2005 I created an account just to ask this question... It seems that most girls agree that they like when their boyfriend get "excited" while making out, but at what point in a relationship is a little "excitement" acceptable? What if this kiss with subsequent arousal occurred on a first date when the two people don't know each other very well yet? As a few guys have mentioned, the "getting a boner phobia" is a real concern for a lot of guys. For me, I've always thought that getting aroused on a first date (which would likely happen to me if I really liked the girl) would creep the girl out or at least create a very mutually embarrassing situation. So... what do you think about a little "excitement" in the very early stages of a relationship? Link to comment
Vert Posted October 26, 2005 Share Posted October 26, 2005 I created an account just to ask this question... It seems that most girls agree that they like when their boyfriend get "excited" while making out, but at what point in a relationship is a little "excitement" acceptable? What if this kiss with subsequent arousal occurred on a first date when the two people don't know each other very well yet? As a few guys have mentioned, the "getting a boner phobia" is a real concern for a lot of guys. For me, I've always thought that getting aroused on a first date (which would likely happen to me if I really liked the girl) would creep the girl out or at least create a very mutually embarrassing situation. So... what do you think about a little "excitement" in the very early stages of a relationship? I would say not if she's mature and understands that it DOES happen to guys. If a girl gets grossed out by it then she's not very mature and doesn't understand why it happens. Link to comment
Steven1607307306 Posted October 27, 2005 Share Posted October 27, 2005 I always get boner when I kiss someone I like, and I've never really been embarrassed, it just makes me want to press against her body, to show her that she is makin me feel that way. Never really thought that they would think its gross... Link to comment
Vert Posted October 27, 2005 Share Posted October 27, 2005 Well, I talked with my gf about this because I wasn't truly sure if she would be embarrassed but she has echoed the sentiment of most of the girls here -- it's a huge turn-on for her to know that she has that effect on my body. She loves to feel it pressed against her body so she can rub on it (she came the other night by slowly grinding on it through our clothing... She only needed about 5 minutes of that to cum). Link to comment
Cyne Posted October 27, 2005 Share Posted October 27, 2005 Lucky for her Vert Every girl should find it to be a turn-on in my opinion. If a girl doesn't, she's either not mature enough or embarrassed about her sexuality. I myself am an extremely sensual person and just knowing the reactions I can illicit in a girl and what reactions she can illicit in me is a complete turn-on Link to comment
nsbguy32169 Posted November 2, 2005 Share Posted November 2, 2005 I get a boner just from talking to my girlfriend... let alone making out with her... Lol, damn, just thinking about her gets me hard... Link to comment
keeponsmiling Posted November 25, 2005 Share Posted November 25, 2005 It's great Once you get into a more physical relationship, you won't feel embarrassed atall. We all know what kissing finally leads too Link to comment
shorty20 Posted November 29, 2005 Share Posted November 29, 2005 I deffinatley take it as a compliment. When a guy gets a hard on from just kissing me, i only imagine what other things will do to him, lol... alot of times it does turn me on to know that I can turn him even when we're just kissing. It makes me feel confident in the fact that he's attracted to me. Any girl that says it's gross is deffinatley dealing with some issues and should probably question her sexuality in my opinion. Link to comment
justify_yourlove Posted December 1, 2005 Share Posted December 1, 2005 I definitely get turned on when my boyfriend gets hard when we make out. It means that he's enjoying it and erections are just sexy. Link to comment
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