CowboyJoe Posted June 2, 2010 Share Posted June 2, 2010 Well I'm new to this site and the reason i joined was because of a re-occurring argument my girlfriend and I are having. She seems to be ready to have children and I am completely terrified at the idea. I love kids don't get me wrong but right now im enjoying out life as a couple, and she wants that to change. We plan to get married in about a year or so and to me the idea of having children so soon is completely crazy! Her thoughts are that we have spend 5 years as a couple just the two of us and as soon as we marry she wants to start having a family. Am i crazy to want to enjoy a couple of years as a newlywed before having to change diapers at 3 am? I love my girlfriend very much but this is something i feel really strongly about, and I believe the decision to have a child shouldn't be one sided, it shouldn't be a joy to one person and a nightmare to another. Any help? Link to comment
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