Tangz Posted April 29, 2010 Share Posted April 29, 2010 There are alot of dumpers out there that dump us but are still shaky after the break up. They themselves haven't got over the relationship when they broke up with us. Alot of the time its dumpers who admit that the relationship was always good, that there's nothing wrong with you, and just feel the spark was gone or thought it was time to move on. They still love us so much but have some kind of desire that overwhelms this feeling (GIGS anyone?). Would it be fair to say that once this feeling of NOT being with us anymore, or the feeling that the relationship had lost its spark is temporary and when that diminishes they are then left with the feeling of loving us so much? Or do you think that they "listen to their head not their heart" and eventually stop loving us so much and get over us quicker than we do? Its understandable but I couldn't imagine they could be as bad as us? We feel like our whole world has collapsed - the person we love has left us! Most of all we spend all our time thinking about being back with them and getting depressed that we aren't with them. If they dont want to be with us then they obviously don't have that feeling that we have so why do they also get so upset? I'd like to say that there are dumpers out there where their head says not to waste their time with us and move on but their heart is still attached to us so strong .... that its a test of their willpower whether they reject what their heart tells them or in the end eventually cave in to their true feelings? Thoughts??? Sorry this probably makes no sense whatsoever. Link to comment
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