skyblue1 Posted March 22, 2010 Share Posted March 22, 2010 Hi guys, Not sure if you have read my previous thread. I was dating a guy for 3 months, he said he didn't want to see me for a month due to studying. I created a new profile of someone else on Facebook and added him in as a friend. He accpted and it showed he was married with a 4month of baby in a different country. I feel very down at the moment. He was a right idiot for cheating on his family. How can people be so awful? Link to comment
metrogirl Posted March 22, 2010 Share Posted March 22, 2010 Yikes...... He's scum, pure and simple. Link to comment
skyblue1 Posted March 22, 2010 Author Share Posted March 22, 2010 Yikes...... He's scum, pure and simple. I am very shocked!!! can't believe people do these sort of things, so the baby must have been 1 month when we met Link to comment
happyfrank Posted March 22, 2010 Share Posted March 22, 2010 That's terrible.. Karma is nothing to mess with. Link to comment
Jd1983 Posted March 22, 2010 Share Posted March 22, 2010 Wow, just be glad that you're no longer with him. Link to comment
annie24 Posted March 22, 2010 Share Posted March 22, 2010 what a scumbag. well, now you know why he 'disappeared.' i feel awful for his wife. and you know what? same thing happened to me. i was dating a man who had a wife and daughter in another country. he told me they were divorced, but a few months later, his friend told me they were still married (we had already broken up by then for another reason). Link to comment
Batya33 Posted March 22, 2010 Share Posted March 22, 2010 Ugh. He added a complete stranger on FB as a friend? Is that how you originally were in contact with him? I'm sorry this happened and glad that it ended quickly. I feel so sorry for his wife and child! Link to comment
BellaDonna Posted March 22, 2010 Share Posted March 22, 2010 That's terrible! I'm so glad that you found out that he was a philanderer sooner rather than later though. I feel bad for his wife and child- who probably will be the last to know. He added a complete stranger on FB as a friend? That seems odd too. Link to comment
newwave Posted March 22, 2010 Share Posted March 22, 2010 That stinks. I don't know how you met him, but have been hearing a lot of that with online dating. Link to comment
annie24 Posted March 22, 2010 Share Posted March 22, 2010 That stinks. I don't know how you met him, but have been hearing a lot of that with online dating. i met mine in real life. at a nightclub. Link to comment
newwave Posted March 22, 2010 Share Posted March 22, 2010 i met mine in real life. at a nightclub. Yeah that happens a lot too. That's why I decided if the guy I like doesn't come around then I'll ask people I know. I am coming accross married men a lot. Link to comment
skyblue1 Posted March 22, 2010 Author Share Posted March 22, 2010 what a scumbag. well, now you know why he 'disappeared.' i feel awful for his wife. and you know what? same thing happened to me. i was dating a man who had a wife and daughter in another country. he told me they were divorced, but a few months later, his friend told me they were still married (we had already broken up by then for another reason). I'm really sorry to hear that. It is awful. Don't understand how people can have the heart to do that sort of thing. Link to comment
lady00 Posted March 22, 2010 Share Posted March 22, 2010 This happens so often it's disturbing. I'm so sorry you went through that. And I'm glad you found out the truth sooner rather than later. I feel really bad for his family and for anyone he induces into dating him with his lies Link to comment
PaintWithLight Posted January 22, 2011 Share Posted January 22, 2011 I am sorry this happened to you but you cannot take everyone at face value. When you are meeting them online and begin to date, the burden is on them to prove they are all that they said they were. 3 months and you did not have a clue? You must have had some suspicions right? That is why you made the fake profile... Did he ever invite you over to his house? Did he ever spend the weekend with you? Did you know where he worked? Could you call him at any hour of the day? If he is just taking you out on short dates followed by sex at your place, that is a big red flag. These cheaters only operate this way because no one bothers to check them out. Link to comment
BriarRose Posted January 23, 2011 Share Posted January 23, 2011 I am sorry this happened to you but you cannot take everyone at face value. When you are meeting them online and begin to date, the burden is on them to prove they are all that they said they were. 3 months and you did not have a clue? You must have had some suspicions right? That is why you made the fake profile... Did he ever invite you over to his house? Did he ever spend the weekend with you? Did you know where he worked? Could you call him at any hour of the day? If he is just taking you out on short dates followed by sex at your place, that is a big red flag. These cheaters only operate this way because no one bothers to check them out. I agree with this. There usually are signs, especially by 2 or 3 months (this is the guy that was always cancelling on you, right?). Link to comment
sophie274 Posted January 23, 2011 Share Posted January 23, 2011 Mod note: The original post is 10 months old. Link to comment
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