Good BJs

[Catdancer]

I really like when my boyfriend "has sex" with my face. I'm lying down and he's kneeling above me effing my face. But it doesn't always feel that great for him b/c sometimes my teeth his thing.

 

I love this too. My partner really seems to love this as well. I dont have too much of a teeth problem in this position, unless he starts thrusting too fast, then sometimes he'll catch one. lol

[Ashley1640]

I love this too. My partner really seems to love this as well. I dont have too much of a teeth problem in this position, unless he starts thrusting too fast, then sometimes he'll catch one. lol

 

I'd be afraid I'd choke and gag to death... That would be a terrible buzz kill. LOL

 

I think any sexual gesture is 'the best' when the other person is REALLY into it. BJ's are amazing for guys if the SO is really into it, and women feel the same way vice versa.

 

My thing is..... if it acts like a dead fish, don't f**k it, don't touch it, run the other direction.

[mr.mac]

My thing is..... if it acts like a dead fish, don't f**k it, don't touch it, run the other direction.

 

I'm not sure I know what this means, but I like it!

[ohemgee]

DO guys really dislike teeth that much? I like it.

[epicproportion]

DO guys really dislike teeth that much? I like it.

 

Have you ever had teeth drug accross your penis?!?! lol

[tiredofvampires]

I don't do anything at all to help them get off, as usually that means I won't get mine. So when I'm doing that, I tease it, stroke it, lick it, bob up and down on it with my mouth, etc. Things tomake them enjoy it but not get off on it.

 

But wow, then you miss the grand finale! That's one of the highlights...it makes you feel like a champ. And you get to also enjoy some added health benefits, haha (whether imbibing or as a masque). And there's nothing better than just a random one, apart from anything else...especially when he doesn't see it coming (no pun intended), when you're in that relaxed and lazy situation where it's not exactly "go" time, but you decide to take matters into your own hands (and um, mouth) and MAKE it "go" time. Just "him time." Nothing better. I think you should switch it up for your man, where you make the experience ala carte.

 

Believe me when I say no b.j. is better than teeth marks on your wang.

 

So I know this is the cardinal rule, of course. But someone asked on another thread about this once, and no one gave a reply...so I'd like to re-field this question. MOLARS: you can't avoid molars at a certain point of depth. Especially in the position Hers describes (woman on the bottom). They are going to scrape past, and you can't help that. So I have always wondered if that feels bad...it's not like biting with the front teeth, but it's still teeth, and I don't know how much that detracts from it.

 

Or while we're at it, how far down the throat it needs to go. I know deepthroating gets a lot of fanfare...but is that for the sensations? Or just the idea of it? The exertion of it and all? I wonder if it feels just as good with more shallow treatment. How good does a soft palate and an esophagus feel, with molars along the sidelines?

 

I don't know why but it would seem the hype, sensation-wise, would be overdone...?

 

Or maybe that's just me being wishful.

 

Definitely can be uncomfortable. You have to hold yourself up with one hand, so you can't really use your hands for the BJ. You're too busy enjoying what he's doing & moaning, so you're not really performing much lol When you are performing, he stops, which makes you want more.

 

Too confusing for me!

 

Yeah...it's over-rated, I think. Too much going on for anything to be any good -- it's neither here nor there. Great for the naughty factor, lousy for getting anything done worth a damn. Heh.

[hers]

Oh I still get the finale. I just don't get it as a result of the BJ, as often he'll pull out and cum in my mouth at my request. Best of both worlds, perhaps?

[ohemgee]

Have you ever had teeth drug accross your penis?!?! lol

 

 

yes and i like it

[EQD]

I like doing both using bjs as a 'journey' to sex. and finishing him off.

i like working my way around to the finish at my own pace, and trying out things i've never done before. like putting my hand on top of his penis and under my top teeth when going down on him, then working my tongue on his underside while the other hand massages his balls. knowing that i am in complete control of when i get him off is very pleasing to me.

[tiredofvampires]

@Hers:

 

Maybe...

 

I guess I just like the whole, "I saw it through, start to finish" feeling. And all the little nuances along the way with the process.

 

Maybe I just don't like to be interrupted when I'm working. Lol.

[mr.mac]

Oh I still get the finale. I just don't get it as a result of the BJ, as often he'll pull out and cum in my mouth at my request. Best of both worlds, perhaps?

 

Damn, that's hot! *whew*

[dangletsbang]

Oh I still get the finale. I just don't get it as a result of the BJ, as often he'll pull out and cum in my mouth at my request. Best of both worlds, perhaps?

 

That's what Trey and I do a lot too..

[Catdancer]

That's what Trey and I do a lot too..

 

Except that one time!!! Lol Shelby...I'm just kidding!!!

[tiredofvampires]

If anyone cares to answer my question about the discomfort of molars (and secondarily, the need for depth), feel free. Haha.

 

Edit: I've underlined it in my post above in case it's missed.

 

These questions having been asked in the past and not answered, is why...

[15 Storeys High]

I always find that sort of thing not too bad.....it's the deliberate scraping of the front teeth and possible follow through bite that kind of hurts, makes your stomach clench and your whole body just say no.

 

And as for depth....it just feels really good....and you're generally willing to risk a scraping from a few molars to get it.

[EQD]

If anyone cares to answer my question about the discomfort of molars (and secondarily, depth), feel free. Haha.

 

Edit: I've underlined it in my post above in case it's missed.

 

These questions having been asked in the past and not answered, is why...

 

its apparently one of those *no comment* questions.

 

MEN!>> ANSWER IT!

 

*Stomps foot*

[dangletsbang]

Except that one time!!! Lol Shelby...I'm just kidding!!!

 

Lmao. Yeah, the time we didn't..I get pregnant.

 

 

[Catdancer]

If anyone cares to answer my question about the discomfort of molars (and secondarily, depth), feel free. Haha.

 

Edit: I've underlined it in my post above in case it's missed.

 

These questions having been asked in the past and not answered, is why...

 

TOV...my partner and I do that position me somewhat lying down and him above me screwing my mouth. He doesnt hit my molars at all. I guess maybe it's the position combined with the way I hold my mouth. I posted somewhere above that some positions I cant do well because he scrapes my teeth. This one we've kind of played around with. I think it works best when I'm on my side, and then he does his thing. I have my hands free to "play" and guide him so that he doesnt scrape my teeth.

[Catdancer]

TOV..also...my partner says that deepthroating is over rated! lol He would rather have me be able to use my tonge, and suck a little better along with using my hands than deepthroating. I think he enjoys deepthroating as he moans like crazy when I do it, but he seems to enjoy other things more.

[EQD]

my bf seems very partial to deepthroating. but he'd never had it done to him before me so he's still excited about the newness of it.

[tiredofvampires]

Oh cool, thank you Storeys!! That's good news, because when you can feel your teeth in contact, and you KNOW teeth are a no-no, my reaction is "Uh oh!! This can't be good."

 

But you can't use technique (without draconian dental techniques) to "hide" them, like you can with the front teeth.

 

Yeah...stomach clenching and my whole body saying no is why I asked the other question...about how bad it is if I don't half swallow it. How much is that a loss to him, and how good does that feel? Or is it just the idea she's going whole hog? I just can't imagine a whole lot of great sensation in the back of the throat compared to other things that can be done, but it seems that's what everyone would like you to be able to do (as a gal)...so. I dunno.

[tiredofvampires]

its apparently one of those *no comment* questions.

 

MEN!>> ANSWER IT!

 

*Stomps foot*

 

Hee hee. Thanks for backin' me up, EQD.

[Day_Walker]

MOLARS: you can't avoid molars at a certain point of depth. Especially in the position Hers describes (woman on the bottom). They are going to scrape past, and you can't help that. So I have always wondered if that feels bad...it's not like biting with the front teeth, but it's still teeth, and I don't know how much that detracts from it.

 

Or while we're at it, how far down the throat it needs to go. I know deepthroating gets a lot of fanfare...but is that for the sensations? Or just the idea of it? The exertion of it and all? I wonder if it feels just as good with more shallow treatment. How good does a soft palate and an esophagus feel, with molars along the sidelines?

 

I tend to look at the involvement of teeth this way, generally the involvement of teeth are bad. This is a good rule for girls who are of average ability. Using the teeth is an advanced maneuver, (of course this will depend on the guys own preference of whether he likes teeth or not). It would seem to me that if a guy liked the position of a girl on the bottom then there might be some discomfort but overall the guy enjoys the experience (a little bit of pain with his pleasure kind of thing)

 

Oh another note if a girl is just has an average ability then trying to incorporate teeth is a bad idea. Unless a girl knows what to do with her teeth and what not to do the usage of teeth should be avoided.

 

Deepthroating is another personal preference, because it will depend on the guy and his own level of sensitivity in the areas where molars are going to potentially make contact. As far as the feeling it is just different from that the mouth provides. I think a lot of the fanfare is just the act itself because of the perceived talent that it takes to deepthroat. Not all guys enjoy it.

[karvala]

Ditto. I like the idea of 69 more than 69 lol. I've only tried it with my ex, & only reason he loved it is because he "loved having my a** in his face while I was going down on him". It turned me on to know he's enjoying it, but just like you mentioned, it would distract me to the point where I wouldn't perform my best.

 

At least I'm not alone in this! I hear alot of people saying how great 69 is, and I'm like...hmmm...maybe I'm not doing it right??

 

Yeah...it's over-rated, I think. Too much going on for anything to be any good -- it's neither here nor there. Great for the naughty factor, lousy for getting anything done worth a damn. Heh.

 

Another member of the overrated 69 club here. PsychGirly described it perfectly: the idea of it is great, the reality is somewhat less so. But then I'm a man, so I can only concentrate on one thing at a time.

 

So I know this is the cardinal rule, of course. But someone asked on another thread about this once, and no one gave a reply...so I'd like to re-field this question. MOLARS: you can't avoid molars at a certain point of depth. Especially in the position Hers describes (woman on the bottom). They are going to scrape past, and you can't help that. So I have always wondered if that feels bad...it's not like biting with the front teeth, but it's still teeth, and I don't know how much that detracts from it.

 

Okay, I'll...um...bite. For a highly sensitive uncircumcised male (aka me), yes, any sign of teeth is decidedly not welcome. Pain is obviously highly distracting, and can kill the experience within seconds.

 

Or while we're at it, how far down the throat it needs to go. I know deepthroating gets a lot of fanfare...but is that for the sensations? Or just the idea of it? The exertion of it and all? I wonder if it feels just as good with more shallow treatment. How good does a soft palate and an esophagus feel, with molars along the sidelines?

 

I don't know why but it would seem the hype, sensation-wise, would be overdone...?

 

Or maybe that's just me being wishful.

 

I think it's hugely over-hyped personally, but that's just me. There are much nicer ways of doing it, which have already been described in the thread. It does depend a lot on the woman, though. The whole thing is about sensitivity, adaptability and communication. Just like the rest of sex, in fact.

[diabolik]

right...i'd suspect that guys woudl be happy even with a mediocre BJ over nothing...

Correct. There is the dominance aspect to receiving a BJ that I enjoy, even if the BJ is mediocre.

Or while we're at it, how far down the throat it needs to go. I know deepthroating gets a lot of fanfare...but is that for the sensations? Or just the idea of it?

Very overrated, IMHO. This comes straight out of porn, and I think guys are infatuated with the idea, and perhaps the dominance aspects of it. Sensation-wise, stick to the head.