agualibre777 Posted October 19, 2009 Share Posted October 19, 2009 You guys, this is really awful and I need help!! Whenever I get aroused by my boyfriend, my vagina makes sounds, similar to fart sounds. I am sooo anxious about it, that I've stopped being able to orgasm and even get turned on cause if I relax my pelvic floor it will make those sounds and even sometimes even if I don't relax it, it still makes those sounds and there doesn't seem to be anything I can do about it. He says it's fine but when I broke up with my ex he said mean things about it, and now I don't want oral sex even though it's my favorite thing to do, cause it'll make sounds and I don't want him to feel that my vagina is farting in his mouth, which is what my ex said. I look all online and I don't see that other women have this problem and I get the feeling my current boyfriend never experienced this either. I am so embarrassed, I don't know what to do..... wondering if I should just be celibate. Help! Link to comment
SapphireNoir10 Posted October 19, 2009 Share Posted October 19, 2009 Its basically just air getting into the vagina and making a noise as it comes out. It is nothing unusual or anything to be embarassed about. If you try googling it you may find soloutions different positions etc that could prevent it as much as possible. Sex is messy/embarassing sometimes, but dont be embarassed, its normal. Link to comment
hers Posted October 19, 2009 Share Posted October 19, 2009 Is it like squishy sounds (usually happens when you're super wet and his thing is rollin around in there)? Or are you queefing (where air comes out, which does sound similar to farts?)? Sometimes it happens and it's awkward yea but human too. You can't help it. Link to comment
MoTay Posted October 19, 2009 Share Posted October 19, 2009 Guys don't care. If your ex said mean things, it was just because he was looking for anything to lash out at you over. Don't let it get to you. Bust on your Kegels every day and have fun! Link to comment
gsxr104 Posted October 19, 2009 Share Posted October 19, 2009 I think if you talk to him about it, it will make you a bit more at ease with it. Link to comment
hers Posted October 19, 2009 Share Posted October 19, 2009 Also want to add that your boyfriend will more than likely be more turned off by your insecurity about it than by the sounds themselves. So don't worry!! If he cares about you, he doesn't care about this. Link to comment
mazzy1212 Posted October 19, 2009 Share Posted October 19, 2009 It happens. It doesnt happen often with me, but it does happen. The guy doesnt care, your ex was just being mean. Link to comment
Jd1983 Posted October 19, 2009 Share Posted October 19, 2009 Don't worry about it, it's just air pushing in and out. If you try to relax and not make such a big fuss about it, you can learn to enjoy sex. It happens every now and then. Nothing to be alarmed about. Link to comment
mca1975 Posted October 19, 2009 Share Posted October 19, 2009 Well I have had this before, but during sex, not just from arousal. Its just air getting caught inside thats all. But me and my boyfriend laugh about it, though it doesn't happen often. Try and believe your boyf when he says he doesnt care. You are just remembering what your ex said. Its nothing to be ashamed of and quite normal. He probably finds it kinda sexy.... Link to comment
jul-els Posted October 19, 2009 Share Posted October 19, 2009 Don't worry about it. It's very common. I've experienced this happening with more than one woman I've been with. It's never bothered me or them. It's a normal human function, like sneezing or coughing. No big deal. As for your ex, he was just taking a low blow because he knew you were sensitive about it. What a heel. Glad to hear he's your ex! Now you can go out and have some fun with someone who doesn't have such low class. Link to comment
lostandhurt Posted October 19, 2009 Share Posted October 19, 2009 It does happen to most women from time to time. Sometimes when having sex the man can actually pump air into you and it just doesn't come out right away until you orgasm again. After sex you can push on your tummy down low and probably make it happen. For the record your ex was being a jerk. He was trying to hurt you that is all. What a doosh! Guys don't mind at all. We love all parts of women from your head to your toes and everything in between. If you look at it this way. At least your bf knows when he is doing a good job going down on you because it happens when you orgasm! Don't stress over it and relax. Lost Link to comment
MoTay Posted October 19, 2009 Share Posted October 19, 2009 I think the guys on the "I'll be a virgin forever" thread need to come over and read this one. Link to comment
shes2smart Posted October 19, 2009 Share Posted October 19, 2009 Accept the fact that sex is funny, it's awkward, it's undignified, it's ungraceful and it sometimes smells. ....but only if you're doing it right. Exes....and soon to be exes....say things they know will hurt/bother us. I mean, look at the end result of his intentionally hurtful comment -- you said you're forgoing something you enjoy (oral sex) because of what he said. In essence, you're letting him deprive you of something you enjoy. Do you really want to give him that kind of power and control in your life when he's not even a part of it anymore? Link to comment
hexaemeron Posted October 19, 2009 Share Posted October 19, 2009 OP, sex is a dirty, filthy affair. Just like shuttle and others are saying, it's just nature of the beast. At least you don't have to worry about anal sex and all the potential funsies that can occur there.... yet Link to comment
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