Morrighan

HORRAY xMowthyX !!!!! I recently watched a medical program about Gynecomastia and it sounds like exactly what's going on! I can't remember the statistics they quoted, but yes, it is common. They performed surgery to remove the tissue. It seemed fairly uncomplicated.

Try seeing a therapist yourself. It sounds, to me, like she won't go because she feels horrible about it and is afraid they will say it's her fault. A therapist can give you advice on how to approach it with her. You sound like a very caring husband who is trying very hard. I hope it works out okay.

I would also suggest talking to a therapist/counselor before talking to your wife. I'm not at all saying that you are crazy. I just think that you need to sort your feelings out before involving your wife and children. Also, I know that you care a lot for your neighbor, but you should be fair to her and to yourself and stop being "romantically involved" until you can figure out where you're at and what you are going to do. Don't ya think? And I agree.. you should definitely tell your wife what's happened once you decide what you are going to do. She deserves to know. Best Wishes!

Try a second opinion. Go see a different doctor. If they say the same thing, ask them for suggestions. The other two posts are great too.

I agree with faeriechyld. You and hellojello should both see a doctor. If you are pregnant, you might be showing signs of a recent or soon-to-come miscarriage. Having an out of the ordinary cycle can be caused by any number of things. You two should definitely see a doctor as soon as possible. P.S. A friend of mine died from complications caused by major blood loss when she miscarried. She refused to tell anyone what had happened or go to the doctor. PLEASE see a doctor!

I agree.. it IS sold as a "board game".. However! It is a tool for focusing energy and intent.. just as tarot cards are sold for divination purposes. It will work for some, and not for others, but in and of itself has the POTENTIAL to bring trouble your way. As a Wiccan, I can tell you from experience that even if it was only a candle that you focused upon, you could call forth spirits/energies. The thing is.. a candle burns away. A Ouija board doesn't. Once you "open" it by focusing your energy on it, it retains some, if not all, of that energy. Make sense?

I used a Ouija board many years ago and was contacted by what we thought was a man who'd hung himself on my property. (That's what he told us.) He caused a lot of poltergeist activity around my house afterward. He also scared the crap out of my other friends who had been doing the Ouija board with me. He would come to them in the middle of the night as a silhouette in the doorway. When they called for their parents, their parents either couldn't hear them yelling, or just "physically couldn't get up." Also, we all became ill at the same time, the day after he said he was going to harm us. 15 years later, and long after figuring out how to keep him at bay, I found out that it was the spirit of a boy who, he thought, was just playing and giving us what we wanted (to be scared and excited about the experience). So, what I'm trying to say is, even if you luck out and get someone who doesn't intend harm, it can still cause problems that last a very long time. Ouija boards, in my opinion, shouldn't be sold as a "game." You can have serious problems getting rid of something/someone who comes through. Ouija boards are portals through which ANYTHING can come. The spirit can tell you what you want to hear, but be something/someone completely different. I would be thankful that you haven't had any huge connection and hope that you haven't let something through. If you insist on continuing, please find someone who has some knowledge about using the board and who knows how to protect themselves and you. .S. Watch the movie "Witchboard" if you can find it. It's a little extreem, but the point of the movie is a good one