Neverhurtagain

Well, I can relate. I have a close friend who has a girlfriend in another city, but, we've slept together and fooled around. Whether it's right or wrong is not the question, who's the judge? who's to say? If he's cool with it, I'm cool with it. I don't want a relationship with this person, I love him, but, not in love. The problem is when that person decides to keep switching things up on you, one minute it's cool, the other it's "This isn't right"...but then it goes back to being cool, like everytime he would go up there to visit, when he came back, he tried to set some rules to our relationship, some boundaries...but, they never last. That person is the one that's confused, I know what I want and don't want. If you feel comfortable with it, then you know what to do, if you don't then you know what to do also. Don't let that person control the situation though, then there's another problem, and if you are trying to pursue something solid or permanent with this girl, that's an illusion...you wouldn't build a house on shaky, unsecure foundation...would you?

UUUGGHHH... MEN GET ON MY NERVES!!! THEY THINK THEY CAN JUST UP AND LEAVE, AND COME BACK AND EXPECT EVERYTHING TO BE THE SAME. HE'S SELFISH, SELF CENTERED AND DOESN'T KNOW WHAT HE WANTS. WHAT HAPPENS WHEN HE GET'S A NEW HOBBY? DUMP HIS SELFISH BUTT!!! THINGS WILL ONLY GET WORSE, HE'S NOT READY.

oh girlfriend, I can so relate!! I lose interest in men really quick to...well, let me put it another way, I am always attracted more to the men who I can't really have completey, whether it's another woman (married men are off limits, I do have some restrictions, not many or they're emotionally unconnected. The guys with no strings, I get bored with...but, I know I have deeper issues, that I need to work on, before even considering getting in a "relationship"...so for now it's straight P I M P I N G...so, maybe you need to rethink the whole relationship thing for yourself, maybe, you're not ready. If you truly want a relationship, then I suggest you get some kind of counseling, because it sounds like you have deeper issues with the opposite sex. I had to just be honest with myself, I'm not ready and I'm not going to force it. When I'm ready I'll handle that...put some heavy thought into it, and be honest with yourself. You can't give yourself, unless, you know yourself...just a little food for thought.

You shouldn't feel bad...it's about communication and respect. You need to talk about it. Me personally I can go at anytime, morning or night that's me, and everyone's sex drive is different. If he know it's to late and you need your sleep, he needs to respect that, and act accordingly, or else...he just won't be getting any...I mean, what else is there to think about or say?

Most men, and some women cheat, is that better? Keep it real.

Men will always cheat haven't we learned that by now? It's their nature.

It's not stupid...it's normal to feel that way...ending the relationship doesn't end the love or care you have for someone...that's why relationships are a big ol' deal...and I'm not f***ing with em, no more, no time soon, it's exhausting...and I don't have the energy anymore...so I picked up my players card....no love, no attachment, no pain...it's all gravy

My friend, well let me say, my Homie Lover Friend. Has a girl in another city, mind you, all along we've been bumpin' n gridin'. Now, I'm not one that's about relationships, as you can see from my name...I ain't messing with that "love" stuff no more, but, I dig my dude...so he's moving where she is in October, and I don't want him to leave...even though we argue like cat's and dog's, we both have dominate personalities, and we clash like oil and water, but the sex is off the chain!! and he's cool to hang out with, so yeah, I want to keep him here, now I could easily get real ugly and sabotage his "relationship", because he likes to switch things around on me, he just came back from there 2 weekends ago, everytime, he always has some new rules to hand down, of course, being the P I M P 8) that I am, I never adhere to em, because why should I? We've already gone up and beyond, so if he doesn't respect the relationship, why the hell should I? and I know ladies, we all know how terribly weak men are when it comes to the so he never sticks to his guns anyway. This dude is talking about marriage to this chick...marriage I say!!! is it me or is this brotha confused? or is he just your typical D O G G ? what's the deal, men? give me some insight...holla!!!

I like em better than AIDS