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Relationship has ended up 2 months ago not in bad terms. We were in 2 years of relationship and we'd good time like other couples. Anywayz she dumped, and she has feeling for me dat we would get back into our relationship but whenever i say dat i want her back! she turns me down! She doesn't know whether she loves me or not. Since she broke up with me, i wanted to stop contacting her but she was kind of sad dat we won't talk again or see each other again, but i wanted to be alone and to move on. Since we live in different countries, she wanted to see me again TO MAKE SURE ABOUT HER DECISION, but i dunno dat i will have her back. Really can't understand why my ex wants to see me? or whenever we talk online she says she was happy to talk with me. When we talk online, i joke all the time dat i date with other girl and moved on, but whenever she figures out my joke she is kinda happy to hear dat i'm still SINGLE. She also mentioned dat she can't see me if i will have a another girl.She mentioned about me not as a EX but something different... Ofcourse i was hurt and if she wants me, then I dunno what i have to do... REALLY NEED HELP .....

U know guys? I haven't met her yet. But after long time no contact with her she seems like missing me, and yesterday i asked her, do u still miss me, she answered dat she wanna cry, so i leted her know dat i'm so hurt and i don't wanna be hurted anymore. But she didn't say exactly dat she wanna back into relationship. I still not keeping touch with her, she asks me on weekends to talk to me, so i said "ok "but i never mentioned about "US " ANYMORE, things getting like i want....

Anyhow my gf dumped me and then after moving on just lil by lil she asks me to meet up, but she says it's up to me dat i will meet her or not. After i broke up with my EX i really felt bad and she could understand how i felt, now i feel little eazzz cuz it took long time to heal after heartbreaking. Now she says that she doesn't know when i see her, she tells me dat she might fall in love with me again. That's why she wanted to meet up after 8 months later since we live in different countries. She is single now and me too, i still care for her but i dunno dat i can still love her cuz she hurted me alot. How should i react when i will date with her? Any hugs, cheek kiss? I dunno how to react when u dating with someone after breaking up? Any advice would be great!!! Thkz

u know the cause why he wants to end is miss communication, U've to talk with him seriously if he wants!!! give him some space dat he would choose something... If he will turn u down, u know what u have to do, No single fish in the ocean!!!! I know this feeling it's because he is the first one for u!!! Open ur eyes!!! and u have to move on!!! That's the way it is!!!

All u have to do is get over it, I broke up with my ex girl friend 3 weeks ago, until yesterday i was pleasing her to come back, and she goes like I don't love u anymore, Dat girl really screwed me up, dat's sad, but u know just buy one book about breaking up or those kind Psycho... books it will really help u know? I started to read this book and now i know how she did wrong to me, but u can't just forget those good days dat u had with ur ex, u know? and lil advice just be her friend!!! Ask dat to keep a relationship as a friend, keep in touch, and then u go dark, no call, no emails, and it means u r giving her or to him lil space to think what she or he lost, if she or he will realize how much u cost for for her or for him, they will contact anyhow... and then don't loose ur chance. That's what i'm doing. Good luck ya'll, i hope i will listen to ur comments soon!!! This forum really helped me to go throw... and move on, no single fish in the ocean!!!!

I wanna know what happened during this period. he trethend again or she has died??? R u alive???

U know, u r girl, but it doesn't matter woman or guy, and I've heard from alot of ppl dat we should move on, and forget, u know u can't just forget this things just like this. I'd broke up 3 weeks ago, she loved me so much and then when i came from country side she said Ofcourse it was tough, it was really tough i was planning to make suicide, but now i laugh, I'd big lesson and she was the first girl for me we were in long distance relationship, most ppl say dat Long Distance relationship would effect our love even more stronger and it did... But I dunno how ppl can forget others so quick, and i've been asking for her to come back for 3 weeks, now i'm tired all this stuff, and i just sent one letter dat i hurted so much, and appriciated dat she loved me and then i wished to be just a friend, I said to myself I've move on... There is no single fish in the ocean... and I totaly agree dat ur soulmate is yet far and u will find, and u have to wait for somehow... That's the way it is... When i read those old posts I didn't want to believe dat i've to move on and get over it, but being in this forum feels at eazzz... I know i have some feelings to her but if she comes back i can't let her.... I'm hurt, i was thinking how i did wrong, but she was the one who did wrong... But now don't regret dat i'd been with her, i've good memories, u know? Move on it doesn't mean dat u have forget, Those nice things with ur BF and GF always will be in ur head, and it will be exprience for u, someday u will be glad that u've broken up.... for me not yet though.... I just can't move on but i have to... and i will give u lil advice, if u really love her and u think u can love him, be with him unless he loves u otherwise gotta be in dark...

I dunno dat i have to get over it or no, u know she wants to keep relationship just as a best friends u know? it's really hard, and she gave me a hope dat if i write a letter with my feelings i can be with her, but u know i wrote a letter how we were and she isn't saying it was my fault, we argued alot but i loved her so much

Things happened to me since i cam to back to my country, let me explain all, First of all i met one girl and we fall in love and then we started our relationship and we were in seriouse relationship for 2 years, actually we are long distant couples though, but i thought in my self if i really love her i won't do such a nasty things to cheat, u know? Then she gradueted from her university then she gotta job at Narita airport, it was okay but she couldn't talk with me everyday and i got angry whenever she was late from her work or such problem as then i got angry all the time, Finally she got tired of me and I dunno how to solve my problem, I've read alot forums but everyone saying dat to move on, I dunno dat maybe it will be better maybe not, I can't move on cuz, she ain't gotta new guy, she has some feelings too but she is saying dat she had already choosed to be alone, and some ppl r saying for couples need some break, Do I have to talk with her even we has been broken up? Or just leave her alone, which is better?

Things happened to me since i cam to back to my country, let me explain all, First of all i met one girl and we fall in love and then we started our relationship and we were in seriouse relationship for 2 years, actually we are long distant couples though, but i thought in my self if i really love her i won't do such a nasty things to cheat, u know? Then she gradueted from her university then she gotta job at Narita airport, it was okay but she couldn't talk with me everyday and i got angry whenever she was late from her work or such problem as then i got angry all the time, Finally she got tired of me and I dunno how to solve my problem, I've read alot forums but everyone saying dat to move on, I dunno dat maybe it will be better maybe not, I can't move on cuz, she ain't gotta new guy, she has some feelings too but she is saying dat she had already choosed to be alone, and some ppl r saying for couples need some break, Do I have to talk with her even we has been broken up? Or just leave her alone, which is better?