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My ex will not give up and she is tryin so hard to get me back..Its almost pathetic....i flat out told her that i do not want anything to do with her...shes been trying to make me look like im the one who messed up telling my new interest lies like she has been doing since the beginning go...still i dont know what to do..she just wont give up....My new interest does not believe her either...its almost like she is a cumpulsive liar and needs physcological help...im just so fed up with her everymove..pls give me some advice to get her off my case..not to mention my new interest...thxs

I have no idea what to do with my ex..this afternoon i was spending some time with my new interest...at about 3 my ex calls...i didnt realli wana speak wit her at the moment bc of everything thats been happenin so i didnt answer..so she calls again..i pick up this time askin her what she wants...she asks if we can talk now...i tell her i cant bc im with so and so...she says wtf..shes more important than getting our relationship together...i say..what relationship...and she hangs up...what does she want from me...i got nothin to say to her and thats that....i am not coldhearted but this girl has put me thru alot of crap...i just dont kno what to do anymore....

Its the truth..I see that I am doin better off wit my ex and her crap...Im back on my feet and moving on...life is a lesson and ive learned that the hard way..This new girl is amazing tho..today im spending the day with her and mayb even night...im going to take it lilttle by little and step by step bc i cant and wont be put back in hell...to the men out there..watch out bc there are some heartless and scandalous girls out there..chose them wisely and make sure u neva get put in my situation..my smiles are real and my days are betta...if uve took time to help me and my prob..thanx..

So I waited to see if her cheating on me was a lie..but it wasnt...people are even coming up to me asking me if i am still dating her...sad to say yes...hehe...i jus laugh about it...I dont think her friend has told her that i know she has cheated on me....I've already lost out on my best friend..i past that chance up and now she has moved on...I trusted everything my gf as said and she threw it right back in my face..I am not gonna try anymore..believe anything she says...or let my heart back into something and get nothing...recently i have been seeing this new girl..i was interested in her awhile back but gave up that chance too for my lying gf...I am going to break it off with liar and give my time into this new relationship that may come about...I cant go on with it anymore than i should...he lost out on a good thing.....thanx for everyones advice...

whats up...I recently found out that my girl has cheated on me..not sure how many times...I had a talk with one of her really close friends and she told me just about everything....Its been already two weeks and my gf has no idea that i kno..how can she go on acting like nothing ever happened...OMg it killed me...I was convinced her love for me was real..I fell right back into her words...WORDS...I did ask her if she ever messed around while we were dating and she said no..she swore she didnt....I took her back not knowin this info but i did suspect it....right now...im just playing her game...i want to see if she cares for me enough to tell me....I look at her different now...I cant believe anything she tells me...I am still with her now...I want to see how scandalous she can be...she was my first love but when i started to see signs that she was changing...my gut instincts were right...Its not hurting me no more..i already moved on and she dont know that yet..what brought her to it...if it was me...then she shouldve told me from the start...but i can play her game too...Shes a liar, cheater, deciever, not to mention heartbreaker...her love for me is worthless now....Our relationship has been a lie since the start..

All i can tell you that if she just didnt come out and tell you about this guy is that there is something to it....theres always a reason for lies...and if there was nothing to hide..then why lie about it..if you have a gut feeling about things...then more than likely something is wrong there...and thats the truth...

well this relates to my breakup in my other posts...lately my ex has been paying extra attention to me and it kind of throws me off guard...I just dont know what to think anymore...Im so close to giving her another chance, but at the same time, i have my doubts..she tells me that she loves me and wants to be with me...but could she be just trying to get me back to let me go.payback is a bitch and everyone knows it...im the one who broke up with her..but not to move on..only to see if my feeling for her were real...i love this girl and it hurts me to put her through this right now...ive realized that these feelings are real and that i just cant move on or be with anyone else...It just scares me right now to think that maybe she wants payback and that shes just going to leave me...I was just wondering if anyones been in this situation..i mean, she makes it sound like im her soulmate and that she wont ever leave me..but thats where the doubts kick in..she dont know how much i care for her and love her..Sometimes I make it seem like i dont care...but deep down it kills me not to be with her...but now i know i want to be with her...i just dont know if she could be so cruel and not mean a word she says...Does she really want to be with me or is it part of a plan to get me back...Im scared to give in and be left alone..Everyone knows that the heart doesnt lie..does she really care like she says she does though..well if anyones been in this kind of situation..i want to know your story...

If you love something, let it go, if it comes back to you, its yours, if it doesn't, then it was never yours to begin with. This quote has been runnin through my head because right now I kinda feel im in this situation..anyhow...does anybody believe that this is true and is the right way to go about things...

thank u so much..thats exactly what i needed to hear..bc she kinda made me seem like i did the wrong thing..i kno it hurts her much but love hurts and thats the reality....well i am going to take time away from both of them actually..im leavin for 2 weeks..so my bestfriend is here..and my ex is somewhere else..so ill be leavin and im going to do that..imma see who comes to mind the most and whoeva that is..thats the person for me..thanks a lot..really appreciate your help..

i had a post out askin about what i should do about my girl and my bestfriend that is in love with me..well last night i emailed my girl telling her that i needed to separate bc it was wrong that she is not here and that im having these feelings for my ex which is also my bestfriend..i mean my girl claims she is in love with me too...but i dunno...i just hope that in time i will figure out what i want...she told me that she is not going to run back to me..which i kno she probably wont..but if i made a mistake do you all think she would take me back..im sooo scared that i might have lost her for good...i just dont kno..im soo confused right now..i do love her but i just dont know if the love she is giving me is what i need..on the other side..my bestfriend and ex gives me the kind of attention i need but i am not in love with her...its crazy and i would like to hear anyones advice or similar situation...bc i dont know what im thinkin anymo..haha..

Dont worry..only time will tell if you really love him or not...my bestfriend was in the same situation.. i went out with her but broke up with her..that was a year ago..she was in love with me but never told me....she kept her distance n tried to move on bc i started to go with someone else...but till now she still feels the same..only now she told me everthing and now its only startin to hit me that this girl is really in love with me...so i think its best to tell him how you feel..because you never know..but..just keep your head up no matter what....stay UP

I couldnt help not replyin to ur message...u really need to stop with all that wrong doing..u think its a game or something..these guys could fall in love with you and basically give you the power to mess their life up...for real...if you kno you cant stop cheatin or whateva you do..u need to stop getting into relationships...i hope my girl isnt doing those kind of things bc itll kill me..well overall..jus chill n be single..dont bother gettin into relationships if you know they are going to turn sour..

Im 18 and have a girl that is 16..we been together for almost six months..last year we went out but broke up bc she was leavin fo the summer and she didnt want no drama so we broke up..i move on and started goin with my bf...i broke that off after bein in the relationship bc i felt guilty of not havin as strong feelings fo her...after that..my girl right now told me how much she wish she never let me go and how much i really meant to her...so we started goin together in january and the firsts months were too good to be true.we never fought at all..never said bad thing bout each other or anything..the person she was at that time was what i wanted and needed...she let me knew how she felt..was there for me like a girl shoulve been..she told me she loved me only 2 weeks into our relationship.and that she never lost feeling fo me...and to me that was crazy bc i neva been there..i always been the type to watch my steps and play it safe..but she got to me like that...well as time went by..she began to change..like the real person in her came out...she was just too different and i didnt kno who she was..i as if was jus that person to get me back bc at the time her friend had also fallen fo me..so to me, it was a game to her..but .as much as i tried and wanted it to be the same it just wasnt..but i just couldnt let her go..i do love this girl but its hard to say if im in love with her or not...well i got caught up in some bull and she wasnt there like i always though shed be...but instead..my bestfrien/ex was there..we go way back n through all the girls n *beep* i been throught..she stayed strong and kept it real with me...while i was in trouble..she stayed on the phone talkin to me seein if everthing was ight with me and all..while my girl was out doin god knows wut...but i asked her a question out of the blue..i asked her if she was in love with me,she ended up telling me the next day that she was..she could even pinpoint the exact moment she knew she was and it was ever since summer last year...but when we were together she never really told me how she felt about me because she was scared to scare me off...but she let me know everything now and it really left me in a confused state..about a month ago i tried to tell my girl that i needed time to myself to see what i really want..but she wouldnt respect that so i ended up stayin with her....i didnt explain to her that i was confused because it wouldve hurt her more...the thing is though that sometimes i feel i cant trust or believe her....but i do when it comes to my ex because shes always been real with me..i know her more than i know my girl because we go way back..so basically i have two girls in love with me..i dont know if its because my girls maturity level or what...my ex jus graduated last month and my girl still has another year to go...i tell her to leave me and have fun bc she is still young and all but she insists that no matter what everyting will work out...right now my girl is in the states and my ex is here...i broke it off 3 days befo she left but we got back together the day she went on vaca...i think i made the wrong move in doing that...im so confused bc i see what i didnt see before in my ex..i know her love for me is as real as it gets..if yall could see the things she does for me and has done for me..i dont think anyone could compare...but instead of bein with her im still with this girl bc the things weve also been through..its even hard to let her go...but im sooooo confused on what to do..should i tell my girl right now while shes away that i need time...bc i have began to fall for my bestfriend...its hard because they practically tell me the same thing..that they love me n that i have their hearts and that no one in the world could give them what i do...when my girl tells me it dont feel like it comes from the heart..but when my ex tells me...its right out of the heart and i can feel that..i dont know what the hell i am thinkin...pls give me advice bc this is really getting to me more than it should....i just dont know what to do anymore bc to me..either way..im going to break someones heart..pls gimme all the advice...Confused