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Hello. Well this is going to be breif. The last person who replied to this topic told me to talk to a counselor on this site or something like that. If you know anything about a counselor on the site tell me how I can get in touch with them. Thankx. Bye.

Hello. Well let me start my saying this divorce is a BIG step. Now you have said you have fallen out of love with him. There is nothing that can change that. No matter how much he tells you how a divorce will affect your son. Now there is not much I know about your relationship and there is not a lot myself or other people who relpy can help you with your relationship. But I should tell you counseling will take a while to work. Also, I have seen a lot of children who were happier with their parents being divorced. But that is because their parents fought all the time. I don't know your situation but I just thought I'd add something to your problem to maybe help you. Well keep in touch. And I hope everything works for the best.

Hi. OK Welll I already go to a counselor. It's not at a school or anything like that. Well I don't discuss my eating disorder too much. And when I do, my counselor does not really give me too much advice. She just tells me to look at the postive things about me and tells me not to say anything negative. I think I know some of the reason I have an eating disorder....it's because I was molested when I was 10. Because up until that point I was never too much concerned with my weight. But I am not really sure. My Mom told me how when I was in Kindergarten I said I was fat. And I look at PICs and I was not even close at that age of being fat. I know I need help but I don't think anything will work. I need just a person I can talk to on line that can maybe help me through this. I'm just really lost. Also, am not one for "Hollywood Image". I just want to be skinny and be happy with how I look. I do not want to look like the girls on TV or in magazines. Another thing, I know what I am doing to my body. I know what the outcome will be if I do become anorexic. But I do not feel like I am suicidal or anything like that. And before I go I thought I should add, I'm not being selfish I was want to be proud of myself when I look in the mirror. Well sorry if this was rude. Reply back. Bye.

Hello. I have a BIG problem. I have a distorted body image...or thats what my Mom calls it. I think I am fat. I am only 5'3 and I weigh 107 and I am 14 years old. I don't know what other people see when the see me. But when I look in the mirror I don't like what I see. I am beginning to work out to maybe lose some weight. And I am currently taking diet pills. I have been taking diet pills off and on for the longest time. But I am in search of how to become bulimic or quit eating. All of my friends think I am crazy and my family does not know about my diet pills. Also I am moving to upper FL where I do not know anyone and I am scared of being heavier than the girls there. If you have any advice or websites that can help me with what I am in seach of I would greatly appreciate it.

OK r*e*l*a*x! OK This is your first date and hers also so things need to be taken slow. Now first ask her out if you already haven't. Call her and ask if she would like to go to a new movie playing and maybe dinner afterwards. And if she says yes ( and she should ) then take it from there. But if you would get her a gift just something simple nothing like jewelry. Get her 1 rose, and if there is a lot of color selections get a white meaning hope or yellow meaning everlasting friendship but if you like traditional go with Red ( love of course ). And if you were to kiss her it would depend on how comfortable she is, don't kiss her if she does not look to be enjoting herself. Also only kiss her on her cheek lightly since it IS both of your 1st dates. Well have fun! And tell me how everything worked out !

Hey! Well I am in need of some advice...OK well I posted a topic about being in need of conversation tips about a guy. Well I really truly thought I loved him. But then I began to do a LOT of thinking and I thought that me saying I loved him just gave me comfort and I didn't mean it. And maybe I just loved him as a brother since we have beens friends since 5th grade now we are going into 9th. But I don't know what I feel. I mean I know that I can't get him out of my head. I think of the kisses we shared ( we dated for a week and well then we broke up and now we are " friends " ) I think of just everything about him. I want to know what I feel and what it means but I just don't know...I get so confused and it seems that I am convincing myself that I don't love him. But I need to realize how I feel and I don't know how and I need to do it soon because I am moving next month 10 hours away from where I live now. So if you have been in a situation like this or you just think you could help me I would appreciate it a lot! Thankx!

If I were you I would kiss her on the cheek and THATS IT. Maybe on future dates you could kiss her on her lips but until then stay friendly. Waiting will make it soo much better for both of you . Have Fun & Good Luck!

OK. I really don't want to seem like a know it all, but it seems as if you are jealous. I mean you say that when you are in the realationship you are very unhappy but as soon as you "get out" and they find someone new or they are beginning to date you want them back. It seems like the old saying " you want what you can't have ". You might not be as lucky with this girl ( the 3 year realstionship ) to have another chance with her. After you get hurt by a person you try to move on and maybe thats what both your ex's did. You may get her back, you may not. But if I was you ( and I'm not ) I would not try to get back with your ex. Because if you were unahppy once, it might end up repating old patterns. I'm not sure if this will help you but this is a tough call on what you should do. Good luck on future realationships .

You see I like this boy. He is my best friend, and we have been friends since 5th grade. We are now both going into 9th grade. And we just recently tried to take our friendship to another level, we began dating. I was thrilled that I finally was his girlfriend. Well he is/was still in love with this really popular girl at our school. He has no chance with her because she is in love with an older guy. But we ended up breaking up not much more than a week after we began. Well any how, lately we have not had a big conversation. You see we talk/talked a lot about sex on the phone and just serious topics like that. Well just last week his Mom heard one of the conversations and she is not too happy. Well now I don't seem interested in talking about sex and being spontaneous because I just don't feel like it. And now on the phone there are long pauses before one of us speaks or I just don't add much to the conversation. Well I just need some new things to talk about with him. I really don't want to dwell on how much I like him and the past. Well if you could help I would gladly appreciate it. I'm Confused yet content...