I am a 28 year old who has been married for five years. My husband and I have a 6 year old boy. I think I married him for all the wrong reasons. We married after our child was born. I thought things would get better if we got married and it would be the right thing to do. We have now been in counceling for 2 months because I told him I wanted a divorse. He really wants to work through this. I have lost all attraction to him. I can't so much as give him a hug or kiss without feeling uncomfortable. I know that I can be attracted to other men so it's not a physical problem. I love him because he made me a better person and because he gave me a wonderful son but I have fallen out of love with him. We just bought a house and have lots of debt. The counceling just doesn't seem to make things better. We just seem to fight more. I feel like I'm basing my reactions on trying to not hurt his feelings. He's a really great guy but I just don't think he's the one for me anymore. I feel that he might be happier with someone that can give him what he wants. He keeps using our son as a way of staying together. Like "think of how it's going to affect him". His parents got a divorse when he was young so I guess he knows what he's talking about. I just don't want my son growing up thinking that our relationship is a healthy one. Any advise on this would be greatly appriciated!!!
