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  1. isisastaria
    So everyone agrees that saying the breast comment to me was an insult? I guess I'm not the minority then. He claimed he wasn't saying anything bad about MY body. Just telling me what he was looking at because I asked. I didn't ask him THAT! I asked what kind of porn he watched....S&M? Anything kinky? THAT is what I asked him!
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    Don't mind at all. I agree. I just can't do that, unfortunately.
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    I haven't spent 4 years of my FERTILE years to give up that easily if there's a way to work it out!
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    Yes. I'm game. Give me a job. i'm willing to do whatever it takes.
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    I agree with Joe... of course you're nervous! That's normal. Just don't make it out to be a bigger deal than it is. She says, "no"...then okay...what's the worst thing that could happen? I think you'll be fine. Jitters aren't death. They're normal. Regulate your breathing (don't stop doing that...people often do when they're nervous). And maybe act like she's a friend and that's what your intention is. To ask a friend out. You'll be fine....
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    Sorry...yeah It was a bonus thing. I wasn't mocking the situation. Thanks for your help. I think today I am finally ready to call it quits. I am really tired of feeling like i am just not good enough for him. All the online stuff came up right when I was feeling very close to him and we were freshly engaged. I feel our engagment is even tainted. He has made comments that are unforgettable every time I have brought it up. I am scared because he's leaving in a month. How will I be away from him for that long...engaged...and feeling like this? I just don't think it's going to work unless something really drastic happens on his end. I just don't see it working
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    No it was more of a joke. But I do like to talk to people about life sciences. I talk to a pediatric surgeon at church and I love to talk about all the interesting things he has come accross in his career. (This guy's old enough to be my dad and is married by the way). It's just a bonus...but yeah...that wasn't a "need"
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    I see where you're going with all of that. I have asked him and he just doesn't communicate real well with me about it. He's a huge avoider.
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    He keeps telling me he will do something and then doesn't. Like mitt. He promised he would go, and it's been 2 years since then. It's obvious he won't. Says he will, then doesn't. It's a trend for him.
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    Very good question. Yeah, I could be getting a little carried away. I think he can provide some of these things. I know he doesn't eat real well and that is a big concern for me. i am a total nut about that stuff. I just don't want our kids eating like that.
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    with the criticizing me...I would only want him to give me constructive feedback of course...not put me down. That was my point. I would want a guy who makes me feel special and cared for (and about), who understands my rape and what it did (or at least tries to understand). Someone who maybe knows what I'm talking about when I describe a sternocleidomastoid or a superior iliac crest.
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    Oh, and go to MITT in Los Angeles (link removed) it's an excellent training that gives people life skills in general. That reminds me! I need to go staff!! Any other mitt grads out there?
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    not want to shack up, either. That's a big one!
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    If I could waive a magic wand? I would have a really hot guy who is the same religion as I am (this guy was...that was a big reason why I stuck with him! Hard to find!) he would be kind and love kids...want a child/children, be physically conscious (exercise, nutrition), be educated but not necessarily hold a phD, never criticize me, hug me and kiss me when I am hurt, be trust worthy, generous, forgiving, gentle.
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    Oh yeah..that's a good idea. It just HHHUURURRRRRTTTSSSS like HEEEEELLLLL.......
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    LOL!!! Oh okay...I took that really literally!
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    I've heard it's really bad for women.
  18. isisastaria
    Dako: you really think i should have surgery?
  19. isisastaria
    Well, I DID say to him, "What if I told you I like big _ _ _ _ _ ? How would you feel if I said that?
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    You're so sweet i'm getting depressed. You seem like you'll do great just because you care. If she gets that, she'll be very happy and you don't have anything to worry about.
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    The reason why I was so blown away with his comment was that I eat really well, I go to the gym. And he tells me that he looks at girls with big breasts. He finds it exciting. I'm so humiliated!!!
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    sorry...smokebloke
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    i REALLY REALLY wish I could complain about something like this right about now. you're lucky to have a great relationship! Don't worry about this kind of stuff. It'll just result in a crappy relationship
  24. isisastaria
    Anyone Else Have Any More Comments? I Can Use As Much Feedback As Possible.
  25. isisastaria
    fnlyfrei : What you said made me all teary. You're right. hubman01: I know you're right.
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