sky508

I say move on. That just happened to me and i was truly heartbroken because he did it to me before and I sent him a few text messages asking why he would ignore me like that, then I apologized to him !! saying I butted into his life too much, blah, blah, blah. After my apology a few months went by and he contacted me to hang out but I was busy. I figured I was in his good graces again so I asked him out for the next few consecutive weeks and he was busy but the last time I asked he said he would call me back the next day with an answer and then never answered me back. I never took the hint. Just go on and think about other things because I started obsessing over it and sent him too many texts because I was confused and felt I needed an answer this time. He really hurt me shutting me out like that so I know how you're feeling. It will take a while but then you will start to realize what a jerk he is and that you're better than him. Read the book, "He's Just Not That Into You."

I did the exact same thing you did. I asked someone out for dinner, someone that I had worked with for over 1 1/2 years and we had a strong connection and he asked me to hang out about four weeks prior, and he told me he would call me tomorrow and let me know and he never called. I texted him to check and he never responded to my text. He has done this to me before and I think it's rude not to have someone respond back as a friend. I did the wrong thing, though. He blew me off before like that before but this time I didn't take it lightly. I was hurt and upset and I texted him every day for a while to see what was wrong. I knew it was too much but I was so hurt in my feelings and he treated me like I didn't even exist. I know you're supposed to let it go if someone ignores you but I just never understood that. He liked me but I think I must have bothered him too much. I came off as needy and insecure. If he doesn't call you back just let it go and let him do the contacting. You'll look stronger. I regret my actions and I will never see this person again and I'm hurting from it.

Are you and this co-worker flirting with each other and does she know how you feel? I ask that because I am a married woman who fell in love with my co-worker and he left the company but we still kept in touch, almost slept together, however my the emotional roller-coaster I was on ruined anything I would have had with him. He ignored all my messages recently. I am entering counseling, but now that he is gone I look at my husband and I can't believe I could have fallen for someone else like that. It hurts that I will never see this other person again and I wonder if you can love two people at the same time? I still care for my husband and we get along great but I still let this happen to me.

I am in love with a guy and he thinks I'm immature because I can't be around him because of how I feel about him. He says that he has girls he had crushes on and still hung out with them. I say it can't be done, why should I subject myself to seeing him with another woman? It hurts too much.

I was in somewhat similar situation with my co-worker. We had great chemistry and flirted a lot but I let him know how I felt and came on very strong to him with my texts and he ignored me but then he would contact me. I'm wondering if it's not an ego boost for your co-worker that you like her and she wants to keep you thinking she's interested or if she's just afraid of the situation and backs off?

I have recently been in similar situation. I have been in a long-term marriage and we love each other but no spark anymore. I worked with a man and there was that instant attraction, flirting. He left the job and wanted to stay in touch. I honestly fell in love with this man. I never slept with him because of how emotional I was for him and he wanted a NSA fling. I couldn't bring myself to have sex knowing there was no emotion from him and it was just for fun. I'm devestated to never see him again but I am entering counseling to figure out why I wanted to cheat. I know it's because it feels great to have that passion for someone again so should I be married? I am tormented now for how inappropriate I have acted towards my co-worker and for emotionally cheating on my husband. I have told my husband what happened, I know I have hurt him but I could never live with the guilt over feeling so strongly for someone else and I wanted to know if he still wanted to stay married to me and he said yes. He's amazing. I know how you're hurting. Seek talk therapy.