asha84

Whats with the 100 % ? In most of your msgs, i can see a 100%. Whats up with that? luv for another percent is never based on percentages... its either u do or donT! and the reply you gave was right! you handled it fine.. take it easy..

see some time ppl jus need time and space, to realise what they want and how they want it, and that happens in all relationships... And sometimes, this causes alot of heart break on the other side, cos you start thinking, if i could give in 100% then why cant she... well, we all arent alike ... its not that she doesnt love you, its probably theres too many things running thru her lil mind. so jus have a lot of patience, ALOT OF IT... if u believe it was meant to be, it will... no matter what... Take care

Hey there Good Morning !! Hmmm, so she sent you a text... you dont have to reply to it... but if u want to you can its your call... usually if i dnt have anything to say i jus reply bak with a smiley or sumthing.. which says that ive acknowledged your msg, but i have notin to say to you as of now... so jus let me be... but in a very nice way...

Good Luck MMD, I hope you find someone beter and able to luv you... take care... and keep in touch... Luv Asha

Many relationships reaches its point of saturation, i know, mine jus did (after 6 long years) so jus hold on in there... you want her to realise you're worth, well, you have to be strong and not answer or reply to any of her calls or sms's. you're on the right track... let her do everything to get bak to you, if that is what you want. you've already let her know that you love her and everything, now its upto her to decide... ill be cheking your thread now and then... till then have a look at mine.. its in "healing after a break up" ... under... "he broke up with me yesterday"

I know how you feel gurl, im going through all this myself... so hang in there... pull urself together... and take it easy...

I meant the exact same thing. i dont believe in taking revenge, God will take care of him from now on...

Dave.... you're the best !

I am your girfriend in this scene... My guy of 6 years, is doing the same thing, he came up front and told me the same exact things that you've posted here... whatever you're gonna do to her i know how it feels. he left me to have fun, after all these years... he knows i love him ...and no one can be there for him like me .. in ALL aspects... ive kept him happy in everyway .. but now, im on my own and not worried about anything.. than i used to be.. so tell her.. it will be hard... but it will save her from further mor turmoil... so you have your fun and space... while she gets to live her life without you ...

hey ther... thanks alot...

I did speak to him yesterday, and the whole thing was braught again. My very close pal, who really couldnt stand me being so heart broken and in despair ,called him up to give him a piece of her mind, and told him to never call me again. Well, me and my ex did speak after that, and he asked me if i really wanted this to go on, "i said i dnt know", then i asked him " why did he say all that to me, and leave me in a state where i found it hard to get myself back together again," he said "i wanted you to hate me, cos i havent been faithful to you... ((oh gosh this hurts)))))) , and that "i have given hopes to someone else and i am very comfortable with her, that we "bed" together... (((the nerve of the guy to do such and actually tell me)))ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHHH and shes cabin crew...and she knows about you and has been very understanding... blah blh blah ... ((((((((gosh i havent been understandin and thats why i was with you for 6 years!! get a life! you need treatment.. !)))))))))) i lost it completely, and i dint know what to do to myself!! (jus wanted to lay dwn on the road for some truck to go over me)))) sheesh... and guys, ii this 6 years, i have never even once given anyhopes to any one, let alone sleep and make myself comfy with other guys, why i couldve also slept around... and everythng....it really wasnt hard to do so... it was more hard to keep myself away ! ... but i did... i did what my conscience said was right and that was to stay truthful ! but anyways... ive left the Bstrd... ((but he will pay))) but now, after all i see infront of me...and all the tears i shed for this ((( oh i sooo wana abuse))) ... i can feel myself becoming stronger... with the support of friends like you all.. I will survive...

I know what you are going thru, and my guy jus broke up with me yesterday. i could see it comin, he left me for someone else he was more comfortable with and would put "herself" before the relationship, which was not what i did, i put the relationship before anything else. oki my mistake and i am sorry, but hadnt it been that he cheated on me in the first place, i would be my old self, it was only after he cheated on the first time that i started becoming insecure and possessive of my relationshp. but anyways, we were happy for 5 years and now again he has gone. and he knows at the back of his head that i really lve him and will take him back, because i did it the last time. and it will only continue if i decide to take him bak. which no matter how much i luv him, my self respect is more precious to me, and anyone who doesnt respect me and can treat me like * * * *, doesnt deserve my love, not one least bit. so if you take this person back, just be so sure and ready that, this pain and suffering youre goiing thru now, will come back again, only the next time mebbe 10fold... so think twice... Once a cheater always a cheater...

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Im 22 and he's 27... its jus amazin !