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well we did stay broken up until she got back, but while she was away the 3mnths i felt less fro her because of everything that had happened and because i missed her and she wasnt here etc, felt like why love her when shes not here kinda thing. the thing is now i am movin on, i did kinda keep it in my head that maybe we would just get back together when she got back but now i dont feel AS much and seein someone new, but now i just wonder...would u guys have gotten over her too if you were me? and is it normal to get over someone in 3 mnths ( well alil longer seems she broke up with me way b4 she left but we were only kinda together)???? thanks for ur help and replies

Hey I need help! advice pls! If you were with someone and you were fallin in love and then they were goin overseas for 3 mnths n were scared so they broke it off with u but then they kept actin like you were a cpl and you knew they did care but you wanted to be with them and they wouldnt let you, and you said you would wait for them again and again until they got back from overseas and she kept sayin not to wait for her, then she realized she did want to be with you and asked to get abck with you the day b4 she left, would you still wait for her or move on? it feels like she really got the "dont wait for me "in my head cos she must have said it for a reason hey and now shes gone i feel like theres noone to love and i feel maybe im fallin out of love but i dont know???? would you wait for her or not? how long do ppl usualy wait until they move on with other ppl etc??????? outta curiosity, thanks for your help! also can ppl fall out of love if the person their in love with isnt around?

can i ask, do you think that you can feel over your ex like sure you dont have any feelings enough to wnat to try again but your still close friends but then when you loose that friendship realize you do still love them?

if your in a long distance relationship can you fall out of love with that person because their not around you? ive heard of so many people say they were fine when they were together in the same town etc but when they had to move apart one of them ended up saying they werent in love anymore. why? if you did live in the same area but now you are far away from one another even just for certain amount of time like 6 mnths but when you left to move your relationship was rocky does that make it easier to fall out of love with them because their nto around?

your unique and theres nothing wrong with that, in high school i had a close friend very much the same vegan etc but many guys werent into that at our age seems were all alil immature then. she didnt have a bf al through high school but now just outta high school she met a guy at uni whos just liek her who she loves and he loves her very much. sounds like your just unique and yourself which is so truly wonderful but very mature, in time youll meet someone so dont worry for now.

ahh i forgot the most important thing..............DONT GO TOO FAST!!!! go up and down as long as it takes to say wollongaba hahahah and by the time you finish saying wollongaba you should have gone up and down twice.

hiya.... just quick tips, try not to forget about his balls all my boyfriends have said how its so wonderful i always play with them cos so many girls dont. also liek the last reply, shes right always always ALWAYS tease first, i used to usualy tease my ex by running my hands over his body n then slowly down further n further each time for quite awhile and then just when im about to go really low and tough his thing i decide nto to and instead run my hand down the inside of his leg so my hand only brushes against it which is enough to drive him wild, then grab it go down lick it kiss it pretend its the most admirable thing in the world. also NEVER EVER forget eye contact, guys and i mean all guys love it when you look at them while doing it. another tip is to use a hand also so while your sucking at the same time use your hand to wank him, thats a good one, dont just use yor mouth. also never forget to use your tongue, ive hear about girls who forget to use their tongue and thats weird so dont forget. also try to go dep but this can be tricky cos sometimes you come close to dry heaving, but go up and down alot always using your tongue. youll do fine just make sure you have fun!

hi, my ex boyfriend and i ended it because well he did because ive been overseas for awhile now and hes gone thru hard times and has to change his direction in life and just be by himself for awhile, he said hes beging to feel less for me because im not there and doesnt knwo if hes in love with me anymore then he said that he does love me he really does the next day but just has to sort his head and life out at the moment, before i left for oevrseas things were hard between us so this is understandable and best decision i think anyways, though im overly sad and miss him alot. what did he mean when he said he doesnt htink hes in love with me anymore but the next day said he needs to explain himself and that he does really love me he really does????? and the other thing im confused about is hes got rid of all my letters ive ever sent him, weve broke up once beofre when we just started out and he didnt get rid of them but this time he has, the thing is dnot you only do that kind of thing if youve been the one that was dumped or if your mad at that person? why has he done this, is it because he sees absolutely no way for us to reunite as a couple and doesnt se a point in keeping them???????? but even then when i have split from exs ive still kept their letters.........im confused, should i take this as a sign

I was just wonderin wether you can come out of a relationship with someone you love and straight away start havin a rebound relationship with someone else and end up fallin in love with them???

Hi everyone... Im going thru a really hard time tryin to understanda few things, i could really do with peoples views and advice..im lost!! ive been seeing this guy for a yr and a half now but in the beging fora few mnths we were just "sex" and i was planning to move abroad and he had just broke up woth his last gf. he broke up with is last gf but even as we were together he told her he still had feelings for her and i was just a shag and he still hoped for them to get back together etc. I didnt know htis at the time but probaly wouldnt have cared then as we were just shag buddies. the thing is they still keep in touch, he broke up with her as she couldnt take the waiting around for him any longer as she had to move city and he wasnt able to sell his house and was under pressure etc, so they were always kinda unfished as both of them didnt actually want to break up, they felt they had to and agreed to. i knwo he never gave he closure and still hasnt, what i found out now is though is that he wanted to see her while we were officaly together to be with her kinda thing but then he said no to her as he didnt want to hurt her or lead her on. she left to move city and asked to see him and he said no even though it had abeen a year soince they broke up and a year since they had seen each other, he said no to her because he knew he woud want to get close with her if he saw her again and said he always would be tempted if he ever saw her, i know all this cos i read his emails to her, he also asks her for perverted pictures of her and says he always fantasises about her......but he says hes in love with me??? do you thinkes still in love with his ex...what should i do???? they are styill very close and keep in touch almost daily if not atleast weekly.....am i being used or what????? so confused, or is this all normal to want pictyures and fantasise bout her or do you thin it means he still has feelings for her????????????