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Dood I so agree with you and your sigs couldnt have said it better myself

Thinking too much .. nahhhh never. You should let him go if he is still in love with his ex. There will always be complications if he is. If yall have a fight who does he run too? If you answered his ex let hgim go now before you have even more feelings for him.

I have to agree with RobzGr8 on this one youve been friends too long. I also think were going to see her on girlsgonewild or the realcancun

Just because it didnt work for you doesnt mean it wont work for him. If he wants to call her well then let him call her. If he doesnt well then he doesnt. My ex and I had problems we broke up I called and then we worked things out. Different things happen for different people

I agree somewhat wit RobzGr8 you have the rest of your life to do thing and PEOPLE that you never done before. Tuff it out for a little while it can only get better. Havew you thought about the people that you would hrt if you killed yourself... probably not. Tuff it out and look forward to the things that can happen. Or look at it this way If it doesnt kill you it will only make you stronger!

Hmmmmmmmmm I dont think so. I known plenty of girls who just dont put out in a hurry. I guess you do RobzGr8. I like fredericks of Hollywood and om sure most of these guys on here do. Also i have had girls tell me your sucj a great friend before ... but ou know what great friends make great lovers. Heres my advice Diz ask her if she wants to go hang out at the mall movies whatever because you have to be friends b4 you get down to the nitty gritty!!!!!!

ZaZa.... I think you answered your own question with that reply. Have you ever been in such a good mood that you thought the world revoled around you???? Then you walked in to a romm with someone who was mad and then you suddenly felt upset also? I hate to say it but if your not in love with your wife anymore or you think she is holding you back the best thing for you to do is tell her. It would hurt more if she found out through the grapevine instead of directly from the source. I understand that your wife is depressed but why is she depressed??? do you even know. (besides moving) Also if you travel alot when do you find time to spend with this other women? and not your wife. If you feel you have meet your "soul mate" go for it but make sure it for real and that your not just finding comfort in someone elses arms because you have problems of your own. It sound like that yout not happy currently with your wife... I guess what im trying to say is if you think this women is for real and you have somethinf special the tell your wife NO MATTER HOW MUCH IT HURTS HER explain to her how you feel and how she makes you feel and tell her about the other women. And then go from there

DAng dont belittle them that much there not "gay" just scared not everyone has the balls judt to walk up to someone and say Hi my name is _____ would you like to go out? But like I said earlier the worse that could happen is she could say no, and if she does BIG DEAL! just GO 4 IT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

Doing something stupid like calling her???? Why would you even consider it stupid? Sometimes it helps to talk to your ex. Maybe you ca find closure in your conversation. Your still in love your going to feel bad for talking to other women, but I guarantee you one day that that feeling will come agian. It taked time though... so just dont go looking for the butterflies they will find you.

Ill tell you how I would do it. FLIRT !!!!!!!!!! see if she shows interest in you first. Make eye contact and see how long it lasts for. If it lasts more than a couple of seconds then go for it! The way I see it the worst thing that could happen is that she will say no. If she doesnt then the possibilities are endless!!!!!!!!!!!! Which would you prefer?

Seems like your in a hard situation to get out of. The main question you have to ask yourself about this new women is "Am I willing to go through what i went through with my wife for her" If the answers no then well then you know what you should do. Everyone faces this situation in life at least once, are you feeling love or just lust for another human bieng who apparently has no problems as of yet?