Let me see if i can be a bit of help. Her feelings are basically racing at this point, ithappens. She loves you and wants to keep you to herself, she already has that but she wants that all the time. Its great that you want to slow stuff down but my advice is sit her down and discuss she needs to slow down for your needs. If she says ok then your set if she says no then it is up to you whether or not to end this or respect her and move in.
-signed D4H