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  1. ithappens
    Sway, you know what, thank you for your words. It was tough but very true. Sometimes we hold onto feelings that need to be let go. I truly appreciate your words.
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    So, I called my ex again today to ask about my shirt and she says you can get the shirt whenever you want. I said I want to get the shirt today and she said no. I then said a friend would come get it, she said not to let anyone know where she lives and that I can get it myself. She also wanted to give me back the ipod I got for her. Soooooo, a normal person probably would have just said forget it. Not me, I begged and pleaded for her back and she refused and said move on and get over her. It is never going to happen. After she said that she said, "now you want to fight for us, before you did not want to fight". I want to move on, I just dont seem able to. And the thing is, I really dont want to be with her in a boyfriend girlfriend way. I know it sounds strange. Can someone give me so advice?
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    we broke up cuz she wanted me to move in and althoguh I practically lived with her, I was not ready to move out of my place and into her place permenanlty. Can you believe that?
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    no, i would have my friend get it.
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    For those of you who do not know my story, to sum it up quickly... I was dumped for not wanting to move in with my girl and get married soon after. We were together for 7 months and I spent a lot of time over her place, and she wanted me there permenantly. Basically, I was hit with an ultamatum, and I guess I failed the test. Anyway, we were talking for awhile after we officially broke up and actually talked a few times a day, strictly on friendship terms. We talked about where we going what we doing and she (out of the blue) says I need to stop talking to her so much and move on as I will only get hurt if I continue talking to her. Anyway, that was the first time I knew it was really over. I said I understand and hung up the phone. The next day, she texts me and says she is sorry about the conversation. I did not respond. she calls me and asked if I got her text. I respond by saying "yes, thanks". We have not contacted one another for a week. Anyway, what do you all think about this? And, I have a shirt that I need to get from her. How should I proceed?
  6. ithappens
    Just e mailed her. I am a glutton for punishment. Someone help me from doing something stupid. Why do we love the ones who hurt us the most?
  7. ithappens
    Thanks Ray Kay. You know I feel better, but still have the urge to call her. There was so much potential for us. I want to call her back despite all that she said but before I left her place, I told her to lose my number. I have not spoken to her since. Should I call? I just want to say hello.
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    Thanks so much Ray Kay. I think that pretty much sums it up. We had so much potential. I guess there is no need trying to talk to her? When I left her home, I told her to lose my phone number, so I guess she won't call me. Should I call her because I do still care for her a great deal?
  9. ithappens
    Toolate, point well taken. But just because i want to move in with her at one point in the relationship, does not mean i have to do it if i am not fully ready for it. I love spending time with her. Should not spend time with her so much. It sounds like that is what you are saying. Her insecurities is what ended our run, not neccessarily, me not moving in. She thought by me moving in, she could trap me. At least that is what i think.
  10. ithappens
    Thanks for all of the feedback. It is much appreciated. I miss her though. I guess that is to be expected.
  11. ithappens
    Okay, I have question for everyone. Why do we want we cannot have?
  12. ithappens
    Just an update to my situation... I went over to her house to get my things, and the house felt sooo cold. It is prob. a psychological thing, but when I saw her, she had no emotion on her face and it was as if we were never in a realtionship. She had all of my things packed and said she was ready to be married and we were on two different pages. I thought we were talking about moving in, now she is talking about marriage, what gives? Anyway, she told me that by this time next year, she would be someone's wife. I COULD NOT BELIEVE IT!!! The anger of that statement made me realize that she was not into me, she was just into getting married to someone. That was all she wanted from the very beginning.
  13. ithappens
    Very true. Thank you so much.
  14. ithappens
    RayKay, i think what you are saying is right. The hard part now is the feelings that are there. Back to square one. All she had to do was be patient.
  15. ithappens
    sorry, because i am not comfortable moving in, she has broken up with me.
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