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    I know exactly how you feel. i told myself the same thing.. give him one more chance and the first time he messes up im out the door.. but guess what babes..its so hard..you find you give them chance after chance beacuse you hope that you didnt go back for nothing.. I wish you well.. I really wish we lived closer as i think having people around you going through something similar is great support..Take care and keep us updated.
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    Thank you my Mamasita..you are the best! I know what you say is true. My heart rules my head way too much i know this Babes I just wish I could stop feeling so much for him. Just scared I will never feel this passion again. Maybe I should try this NC everyone is talking about.. Love you Pootie..This site is the best. Its so comforting Thank you Darkblue.. I appreciate your words of wisdom....
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    I dont want to sound harsh but why is this so hard for her? She loves you, misses you but still cannot decide if she wants you? I hope by going out with her its not going to set you back if she then decides that she is still confused. Are you meant to wait until she is ready again. I guess if you love her you will wait, but make sure you are not just being pushed to the side lines until something else comes along. Go out with her and be yourself, enjoy the night and dont get too serious as it may make the night awkward. Just be you, no mind games as I am sure you know they dont get you anywhere. I feel for you because if i put myself in your shoes I would feel nervous of the out come . Let us know how you go.
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    Thank you Ray Kay. its so hard to leave but you have hit the nail on the head. What you have said is the truth its like you know the situation. I just hope i have the strength to go...he has drained me of everything even my strength.
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    babe..i am in the same situation as you.. except mine is way more verbally abusive. I love this guy too..and i dont know why. I think we need to do something or we will stay and find it harder and harder to leave. Love?? is it?? or do we feel sorry for them?
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    thank you..god he just called me and asked me to the movies after yelling at me all morning..is this normal? i feel like i am losing me mind.
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    Quing I think you are really strong. I think that dream basically showed you that you can rise above it all and you will be better for it. What ever dosent kill you makes you stronger. I am just so amazed that you were able to shake his hand. It shows that you are able to see things for what they are. Alot of people feel too much emotion and cannot do what you did. Good on you..dont think i could ever be that strong wow
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    My boyfriend of the past year has blamed me for everything going wrong in our relationship. He is very verbally abusive and has threatened me so much that my mum had to call the cops and put an AVO out on him. I still love him, and after all this happened he was so lovely and sorry. A week later he was swearing and cursing me again telling me everything happened because i am the one at fault. He has told his whole family our private life and keeps saying he has done nothing wrong and he is crazy beacuse i made him this way. He hates me seeing my friends, hates me having my say. He calls me a liar and worse( dont want to swear on this site) I just dont understand why i still love him after all he has put me and my family through. At the end of it all he is so adiment that it is my fault i often wonder if maybe it is. Confused....
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