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  1. wouldnt you be pretty upset to meet your maker and had to tell him/her that you killed yourself? i look at this way, my friend has been in so many wrecks & suicidle, and the maker hasnt killed him yet? maybe your are scared to kill yourself b/c the maker is telling he wants you to stay b/c he has somethin planned for you. when it is your time to leave this earth he will decide your faith. how old r u? if your old enough why not move out and into a friends house? i mean you can get away from your problems if you will take the time to brainstorm. your choice is your choice, do what you go to do, but listen to what i said
  2. no i dont think it is at all. it is not immature, i would rather date a guy with a car then a guy that is immature and likes to play video games
  3. thanks funnyCAgirl, that means alot to me. well we didnt go on the date but the man of my dreams drove me. But i am in love with him, but i know i cant have him legally until 4 more years. he is quite a bit older than me but i feel so close to him and i feel that i can tell him anything and his feelings wouldnt change toward me. he would seem like a really best friend but people would be so suspcious bout a 14 yr old being tight with a 21 yr old. i know he has feelings for me and there is no way i can avoid them but i jus dont want to get hurt..*AGAIN*.. if you have any suggestions plz feel free to leave 'em here
  4. ok i that is cool. i mean i like the attention and it helps my self-esteem and all. but when old farts with beer bellys and beards hit on me it is just really freaky. i have told my mom and she only told me that she would kick there a**s$ if they do it again.
  5. i am really glad that you have good advice darkblue and you always seem to put your two cents in my posts. Thanks but i will just countinue with this and expect the least out of it...it is keepin me busy
  6. ok i am 14 years old, and when i date a guy he is mainly 2-4 years older than me. I think for one that i date guys older is because one they are a whole lot mature, b/c girls mature faster than guys and that is bout the time a guy starts to grow up. im in a small relationship right now, where i can say he is quite a bit older. i am no mentioning though. second thing is they have cars and can drive, in stead of their mother carting them around, and third of all you dont often see older woman dating guys younger than them
  7. ok, that is ur opnion, this is my opnion. So i am just going to keep doin what i am doing, and if i get hurt or involved in with the law i will let you know. thanks though for trying to conveince me otherwise
  8. ok whatever..i just will persue what i an doin
  9. It is so not my fault but i want to know if it is how i look or what. i always seem to attract men over 17 and ^. and i am only 14, if you will look at my previous post there are alot of them on age-gap relationships. I mean i know i look older but i dont know how to stop. HELP ME?!?!?!?!?
  10. My mom knows i have such feelings for this guy, and she trys to tell me it is wrong. i know it is but i am stubborn. I honestly dont believe in age. It is just a number put on the human body to put an educated guess on how the body is aging. So in scientifcaly saying there is no such thing as a aduly, kid, teen, baby. But that is how i am thinking, i have no clue what i am going to do.dont get me wrong i am listening to your advice and i am taking the time to read it, but i am trying to decide if i am going to persue it or not. sometimes i hate being me.
  11. I have the same prob. you have right now as i speak. I am only 14 and i am in love with this 21 yr old guy. he likes me and it is so obvious. Please feel free to p.m. if you need someone to vent to, i dont believe in age i just dont. I believe if you love the person it doesnt matter, an age is just a number on guessing how the body ages
  12. Thanks combat_barbie, i like what you said, i think i will continue seeing him and see what becomes of the situation, thanks for all the other advice too.
  13. i understand where ya'll are coming from, but i mean would it be ok to remain friends with him? i am not the girl that would **** the guy and hope he might stay with me because i gave it up. But i would like to keep in touch with him he only lives an hour from where i live. And by the way when i am 18 he would only be 24. so it is not bad. i dont know what to do. i sometimes hate being in this situation but at times i wouldnt give nothing 4 it. ugh.....**SIGHS** thanks guys, i'll keep you posted and let u know what i am going to do. and what becomes of the situation
  14. Me and my mom have talked about this problem i have. I recently met this 21 yr. old guy through my moms new boyfriend. Well we hit it off pretty good, I mean he even knows that i am 14. People have told me that i look 16 and have a maturity level of a 20 year old. I love the fact that i am like that, but anyways me and this guy are getting pretty close. Well he is working on my moms building she works at, it is getting renovated and he is part of the construction crew. Well last night i was suppose to meet this other guy to go to a football game, he stood me up, but i still wanted to go to the game, so Jay(21) volunteered to take me. Well i got to admit that i looked pretty hot, and he came over the house and was looking me up and down, and was smiling and he even touched my belt buckle that i had on(pretty close to my prized possesion) haha. He even gave me his phone number and stuff, me and him play around in the pool we have, we play games in there were there is touching involved. But i would like some people that i are in a situation similar to mine and doesnt mind expressing how they feel. My mom told me to keep in touch with this guy so when i get older he would be available. so i was like ok sure. But i wanna know how some people feel about this, what do i do? i know it could cause him problems but i can't help but fall for this guy deeper and deeper every time i see him. please tell me the negatives and positives of this. _____________________________________ "when angels forget to fly when its 20 below in july when violets are red, and roses are blue, thats when ill stop lovin you"
  15. well sorry guys i am stubborn, but i did call him and i left a mess. so in other words we will not be going on the date tomorrow. my feelings are hurt, you guys dont know how many times i have got hung up on some of these guys i like then i get my heart broke. so i mean i will give it one more try after school tomorrow and if no answer he can got 2 h*!**~e****!~!!~LL is doesnt make any since, why couoldnt he just tell me that he was busy or something then get me all excited and happy then hurt my feelings in the end. well all i know is it is just making me sick..
  16. well he like shows no emotion over the phone and stuff, so i am calling him tonight to ask if he still wants to go on the date or not, if he doesnt my feelins will be hurt but i'll get over it. the thing is i REALLY REALLY like him and i dont want to get rejected. but you have to sometimes. so i jus hope he says yes and every thing goes well.
  17. well i called him and he is going with me to the football game!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YAY I AM SO HAPPY GUYS!!!!!!! he was like annoyed sounding though, i pray to god that he likes me
  18. Ok so the story is i really like this guy i met back in end of June. Well i kinda blew him off, b/c i had a boyfriend at the time and i didnt want to cheat on my ex. so i kinda was cool being friends. but now that i think about it i really wish i would have got his number, so here is is August 30th and i am finally geting his number from a mutual friend of his grandmothers. so tonight i call him and im am really nervous, bout it. so please tell wat i can do about it. i am having these heart renching pains and i am really gettin these cold rushes.....? what to do?
  19. yeah, that is true. but i can not get in touch with a friend of mine that has his number, and i am hurtin because i think of each min that passes by that i do not talk to him he might be getting a girlfriend. so i have tried and tried and tried to call the woman that knows him until my fingers are nubs! she wont answer, and it is just driving me insane. So the football game is on friday and i wanted to invite him along with me so we could talk and stuff. is that a good idea for the first date? i am 14 and he is 16 and i wanted to go to the football game and then i was plannin to go see my horse afterwards. but i am so impatient that i cannot wait another minute to get his number!!! please help : ( how should i confront him about coming along with me, and would it be ok for him to pick me up in his truck if we were to go? not asking for to much is it?
  20. thanks guys! i am so nervous, but i cant wait to call him tonight! i will let you know what happens. how can you overcome nervousiness? when i go to call i guy i like or what i have a small problem, i get cold rushes, shivers, and just shakin like a earth-quake is within my body. So when that i happens i dont call because i freak out, help me on that one please.
  21. i did back then but we recently broke up, so no i dont
  22. no we dont, all i know is he works somtimes where i work, and he is the boss ladys son next door neighbor, but i have talked to a couple of my friends and they say there is nothing wrong with it, so i will update ya'll when i call him
  23. no because i didnt get his number and he didnt get mine. i wanna get to know him better. i messed up passing on this guy and now that i look back at it i wanna punch myself for it. so that is why i wanna get his number and call him up. he likes everything i like (ex. horses, 4wheelers, dirtbikes, cow-tippin) and so on.
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