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my first love and i had dated during my jr/sr years of high school while he was working on a soap opera in LA... we got engaged 2 years from our first date -- valentines day =) anywho, we broke up 2 months later cuz i found him cheating on me... moral of story: don't date a soap opera guy cuz he'll think that's how life should be... (J/K)

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Hi! My boyfriend and i want to have sex at this stage in our relationship... however we're both living with other people (he lives with his parents and brothers) while i live with my roommate @ college. So the opportunity hasn't really offered itself... I was wondering, 2 questions. 1. where is a good place to have sex for the first time? - (A) should we wait til we have a place to ourselves some random day? - (B) a hotel? - © Other? 2. are there any things i should know about having sex with a virgin? my boyfriend is a virgin and I just want to make this a pleasurable and good 1st time for him... not uncomfortable, or such... THANKS!!!

hi folks... my friends have suggested i start a journal and give it to my bf... has anyone had a love journal with their significant other that they sent back and forth when they saw ea other on the weekends? any thoughts on journals would be appreciated. thank

hey everyone ~ its my 1 month with my bf (we go to schools in different cities so i guess u could say its Long distance -- only see ea other weekends, fri-sun) and i want to do something fun/special with/for him. any suggestions, thoughts, ideas? thanks!

i've been dealing with the ex's gf since they started dating [when i wasn't even contacting him!] i just don't get it...

I never received any help on here the last time I posted but I'm going to try once more... Would anyone like to tell me what the heck the ex's gf is talking about and why she would think we're competing??? THE GF: sooo THE GF: *sigh* THE GF: I give up [ME] THE GF: I'm not going to compete with you anymore THE GF: if you're wondering what I'm talking bout, I know you emailed [the BF] again... I can't help but wonder what you put in those things THE GF: but yeah THE GF: I know you emailed him again THE GF: and I'm tired of fighting this THE GF: listen [ME], I dunno what your away message is about [00:00] *** Auto-response sent to THE GF: to receive love is one of the most beautiful gifts... and yet to offer love without any hope of return is the greatest gift you can give... THE GF: but it owuld be nice to receive a response to what I said ...i feel horrid but i blocked her... couldn't deal with the DRAMA any more and i wasn't going to add more to this kindling fire by trying to reason with her for the record, the last time i emailed him was 1-2 months ago (?) and we (the ex & i) don't even talk [but read my first post for info on that]... and also, i may still have feelings for the ex but i'm not trying to get him back. the email was about something PERSONAL and PRIVATE [aka. something from our past he should be told] thanks!!!

was this a first date? cuz if it was, perhaps she's just letting you know (setting the background for you)...

he (tyler) told me when we broke up (the last time) that he (at the time) wanted us together and if we were meant to be, it would happen... does the fact that he has a gf now mean he doesn't want us back together? or just...???

Hi Everyone. I'm new to this board and looking for a little advise and help! You all seem to have such strong stories and I thought perhaps you might all be able to offer some advise on a situation which should have been ancient history by now. the history My ex-boyfriend, (for the purpose of this post his name will be "tyler") tyler, and i dated last spring ('04) at college. We met through a mutual friend and hit it off instintaneously. We both are Christians and had a lot of mutual friends who encouraged the relationship as well. Well, all seemed to be going great -- very serious very fast, but still great! A while into the relationship however things got weird. I don't mean to brag but I think mine are fairly weird in comparison to others... let me explain, tyler and i spent the week of easter together when school was out. it ended beautifully with him making a very strong commitment to me... the relationship seemed to be going forward! however, the next day he tells me that he is having some problems and wants to remove his former commitment. I was like - WTF? But i thought perhaps he had the jitters and let it go... The next day however we talk again and he says we should break up! I was like - what the heck!?! I have to admit I was furious and let him have it in a few discussions. Friday we decided to go have dinner together [this was 3 days later] and that led us to his room... which led to a parked car at the beach... so apparently it wasn't a lack of sexual attraction which inspired his original break-up. We got back together, needless to say, and all seemed fine over the weekend. Monday rolled along and we had lunch, fooled around and talked about doing something after dinner. Well surprise, surprise I find him (what -- 3 hours later?) and he is writing a LETTER telling me that we have to break it off AGAIN. So, this is 1 week later and 2 break-ups later after the original commitment. We have a heated conversation in his car that night and somehow end up making out and fooling around. The next day, things are OK between us (aka - back together for the 3rd time) and we decide to spend the night together. Its a great night and we both agree so... yet, I have this major guilt complex in the morning and am thinking that he only sees me as a 'ho and someone he can come to for some fast sex. Right? But he's not willing to go back to making a commitment... Its hanging in the air above us. We talk and I ask for ALL or NOTHING. He at first says he can't give anything [because God told him to! - bull!] and then he finally says YES, HE'll be my bf. And it won't be over in the flash of light. I believe him, am feeling very very happy and we part. Wednesday (the day later!), I am getting out of my morning class and he's waiting for me - that's cool, i thought. Well I was in for a nasty surprise when he tells me that he is breaking it off AGAIN! Idiot -- i was feeling like such a fool... He says its all because of God telling him not to date me although he was still greatly attracted to me and liked me a lot. So that ends and my mom who knows him tells him off (basically) and suggests that he not cause me any more pain -- aka, backs off. fast forward a month... i'm freaking out that i might be pregnant because we didn't use a condom our last night together. i take a test at home and its undecisive so i go to Planned Parenthood... The nurse tells me that i'm pregnant but that i can take care of the situation with a pill... so we do it and its taken care of (all without Tyler's knowledge). summer... i don't hear anything from Tyler (fyi - i didn't talk to him since our last break-up -- he was always avoiding me on campus). fall... Tyler is back on campus, too, and still not talking to me [blaming my mother for his reasoning - which is a bunch of bull]. Tyler has a new girlfriend (for the purpose of this explanation -- Marie). Marie is (acc. to friends) similiar in features and looks and attitude as me. I don't know But basically Marie asks me why i hate tyler and tells me that Tyler told her that we had sex (although I had made him promise that he wouldn't go broadcasting our last week to anyone). He also told a few other mutual friends (which really annoyed me). I stay silent about the real reason why i *hate/dislike* tyler (aka. the abortion). only 1 mutual friend and a couple of my gfs know. spring... i'm back from the school's winter break and still having to constantly see the ex and his gf all around campus (even if i try to avoid the usual routes). The ex is arrogant, rude and obviously hates me [although many say he still likes me and just wants to respect my mother's wish by not talking to me -- which again is a bunch of bull. and my mother won't talk to him because its a waste of her breathe]. whereas the ex-boyfriend's girlfriend, marie, is being a jerk too. she is always glaring and staring at me and lecturing me for innocent things that i say/do... -- sorry that was so long!! but basically i wanted to know what you all thought. pls share your thoughts and advise... he and his gf are wrecking my life. i can't go anywhere without them making it a nightmare... and the scary truth is that i somewhat still love/like him... there are days when i hate him and yet other days when i love him in a way that makes me sick with confusion/longing. and he doesn't make things any easier... he is often staring at me and so here i have 2 ppl staring and i find that oh so discomforting. so questions... 1. how does one get rid of an annoying girl who is constantly glaring and condescending? i don't want her to think she has the winning hand... and frankly why would she care pittly squat about me? she has the bf, the place in his heart, etc... what do i have that gets her so annoyed? 2. is there a way of winning the guy back? 3. ANY THOUGHTS??? PLS>>>[/u]