that is rather a tough situation!!
I feel your struggle
I went through a 'breakup' like that about 6 months ago.
It was like I wasnt sure I wanted to date him anymore, but I sure didn't want him moving on to someone else.
I think you need to do some soul searching ...
think about if you can handle being just friends with him, or if there is still that yearn to be something more
If he doesnt want to be "something more" and you do, then maybe it is best you dont talk, it's not worth all the pain.
On the other hand, if you can handle being friends, GO FOR IT!
People say you cant be friends after you break up, YOU CAN!
hope everything works out the way you want it too! Keep us updated.