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  1. Cindy C
    Vincent Did you mean that in a bad way> I am really hurting Here
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    So in other words ignore him for a day or two and see what happens
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    Your welcome good luck. Just wish mine relize what he has
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    Oh yeah sorry your welcome for my advice. He is from Connecticut and I forgot to mention I do have a 5 year old son he lives in the good part of connecticut i have seen his house and I did send his family a fruit basket for the holidays and his mother did send a thank you card to me. She seems nice. i know his friends and his parents didnt like my friend was he was with her she was very controling He loves to Jet ski and she told him to give that up and she didnt want him to hang with his friends either I am the opposite I let him do whatever he wants I show him alot of love. Maybe he is just scared I really don't know he is hard to figure out sometimes.IS THERE A WAY TO MAKE HIM REALIZE WHAT HE HAS IS THERE ANYTHING I CAN DO TO MAKE HIM REALIZE IT.
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    Ok I have to cut in here you might not like what I have to say but my opinion is STOP HAVING SEX WITH HIM. The reason I say that is because you shouldnt give me the right to have sex with you anymore yes life is short yes but comon find someone you love and loves you and wants to be with you. I have been in that situation before and I know that it doesnt bother you now but when he does meet someone it will bother you trust me. Hope you don't get mad at what i am saying but you wanted advice and the best advice I can give to you is to STOP HAVING SEX WITH HIM.
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    Well she is married now and I hate her lol. I was thinking it was a rebound but it was a year before we became more than friends i do keep asking him if i as a rebound he said no cause he wanted me when he was with her because when all of us went out she would leave him alone and go dance with other guys and stuff and we would talk. Yes he did introduce her to his parents but it was 4 years before he went with her. He really is a nice guy but I am crying everytime I go to sleep. Is there a way to wake him up to see what he really has. I do everyhting for him I write poems for him i see him even if I am busy I still make time for him.
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    Okay I agree with knight bear Get over it cause if you have to prove you love her and want her back and she doesnt know if she wants you then she isnt worth your time. Go find someone else who will love you and want to be with you and you don't have to prove your love for her. Its her loss not yours keep that in mind.
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    He tells me that its not lust and he has never lied to me this whole timeand I have never caught him in a lie. When he use to go out with my friend he use o see her alot I only see him 2 a week he took her to the movies and the main thing I really want is how he really feels about me he won't tell me. He told my friend everything about how he feels and stuff why cant he do that for me
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    I Use to be like that too wondering why he has to look at porn if he has me. I got over that and accepted it and now we both look at porn and watch it on tv. Alot of men look at porn because maybe they want to see what moves he could do to you. Thats why my guy does it he wants to see if there is anyhting that will please me. yes of course the girls are very pretty and stuff but you have to keep in mind will they ever meet them. When I see my man on the Pc looking at porn I say babe you want a bucket for that drool I make a joke out of it. Alot people watch porn just to see if there is anyhting new that they can do to please there partner and believe me I have learned some things lol. Porn isnt really that bad. But if you do feel strongly about it then give him the ultimadum either you or porn.
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    25 you have awhile to meet that perfect person you will meet another true love trust me you still have time.
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    Far as I am concern age is just a number. I was 17 and dated a 29 year old. I am now 29 dating a 35 year old. If you are happy and love what you are doing go for it. If you have any advice for my problem look in the forum under Cindy C cause my head is so confused right now
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    Not going to lie to you it took awhile but I had my friends to help me through it. Right now I have problems with this other guy don't know if you have seen my post but I am strong and I am gooing to have to come up with something to do to fix it. The best thing for you to do is to be around people that helped me get my mind of of him. One thing you do not want to do is mope around the house and think that what you could of done to keep her. Its not your fault its her loss. Get out and socialize don't be shy. One more thing you do not do is Listen to LOVE SONGS because that doesnt help trust me I have been there. Keep your chin up don't let this girl know that you are hurting make it like it doesnt bother you and remain friends and talk to her. Liek I said before you will meet that perfect girl. How old are you just curious
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    Thank you. See we are in a serious relationship well that is what he keeps telling me. See he used to go out with a friend of mine. We became good friends and when they broke up everytime I was his shoulder to cry on. Then we started hanging out and it became more. I really don't know if he loves me he saids he does but action speaks louder than words. I have suggest that him and his parents go out together but he saids they are never home. I really do love this guy but does he really love me or is it lust?
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    Hello, Yes it is hard to get over your true love. You can't let life stop there though. You will meet that person again the one you want to spend your life with. You have to keep in mind that there are others out there. You will meet that person again. I have been through that before meeting my first love and yes I was feeling the same way as you are right now but I didnt stop my life cause of it I kept myself busy hung out with my friends alot and kept saying to myself its his loss not mine and it worked. So keep your chin up and you will meet that special person again. Cindy C
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    Hello, I need some advice. I have been going out with this guy for 2 years now. I havent met his parents. Is there a problem there I don't know why I did ask him why and he said because its none of thier business does anyone know why? I hope someone can help me. It has been so hard on me. He has met my family though. He just hasnt met my father yet. So why does he want to keep me a secert and why doesnt he want me to meet his parents. I need some help Hope someone can help me
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