sightful thinking

all I can say is give it some time and see how things work out,see how she is feeling.

ive been in the same exact situation,the email you wrote him...sure it sounds like a bad idea but you where tellnig him how you feel,the truth which is good to hear.I wrote a letter to an ex of mine telling her how I felt at one point about what was going on,she didnt like it but it was the truth on how I was feeling.If he calls again pick the phone up,dont run away from the problem,it will cause more trouble and it will come back to you.just try to make everything the way you both want it.

okay I havent had sex yet,but I would wait until you know the person,get to know everything about them like there hobbies and interests,what there favorites are,especially know there personality and who they are.Its important to know who the person is.But the main thing you want to ask yourself is do you love them,sex is a form of love,expressing love.Make a commitment to this person dedicating yourself to them.You are giving them your body and so they give you theres.Sure the pleasure is great but its the love that matters and the effection.If you just plan on having sex to share the love of course make sure he is wearing a condom,and if both of you have come to an agreement and talked it over ahead of time of having kids,then may it be a moment to charish and just shelter each other in the love that is shared and thoughts of the future.

its been awhile since I have been in love,or in a relationship so to say.I have coped for awhile now and been fine but appartently latly im getting quite sad.About a month ago I meant someone that I was very interested in,we got to know each other and visited each other,went out on outings every weekend.But for some reason my feelings that I had for her kind of just faded away out of no where.And I just feel alone,that void is not filled with anything.Even my music,which usually satisfies and cares for everyone of my needs is not helping.My friends dont seem to have an impact on anything.Ive been getting out and meeting new people but I never really get to see them much.There busy doing there own thing.I know patience will bring me something special,but it seems my patience is wearing thin.I just want to feel love again,to have that romantic scene,to hold one that I care for and love,to be dependant rather than independent.I just dont know what to do.My mind isnt thinking right latly,all pieces of thought are scattered around.My feelings and emotions within my heart are disordered and hiding so I cant even feel them.

its our senior year as well,what a coincidence

okay I really dont know what forum to put this under but it deals with my friend so I guessed this would be the right forum to write the topic under.Well anyways,my friend has been in a relationship for 2 months and some days,both of them had just split up not to long ago.He is getting really mad latly and frustrated becuase people are getting made and him and mocking him for dating her,she is classified in the school a dirty girl so to speak for certain reasons.And he is fed up with the way poeple are talking,and regreting decisions in the past such as dating people younger than him because of there level of maturity.I just told him to ignore what people say and let the past fade away,the past is very hurtful if you hold on to it.I also told him there is someone special and just right for him,and that maybe he should start dating people his age or just a little older.Does anyone have some advice I can tell him?The reason im asking is because he is kind of shy,he would never tell anyone about this and I know he wouldnt be itnerested in this website or any other forums,hes not much on forums but thats a different subject....advice on the matter ive spoken about?

I agree