jwl73

Yeah, It's strange how that works. That's how I am. I feel miserable for awhile after a break up and then all of a sudden I don't have a care in the world. Go figure!...

She actually called me a few days ago (to my surprise) "just to say hi", so she's probably not out of the picture completely. I dunno?

As long as two people are legally adults i don't think there's anything wrong with any kind of age gap. I think society makes too big an issue of it when there is none. There are NO rules when two people feel a connection and if anyone has a problem with that it's their issue. Follow your heart! BTW I know plenty of people who are far more mature mentally past their years and vice versa...

Thanks for the replies so far! What's the opinion on e-mailing her the poem I wrote? Should I just wait it out?

Hi, About two months ago I met an incredible woman and we started dating. I am 30 and she's 31. Things have gone very well but also very fast. People around us are absolutley amazed when they find out we've been dating for less than two months because of how well we get along with eachother. She lives about an hour from me so we're not around eachother in excess (usually two to three days a week). The topic of things of how quickly things have gone has come up a few times, nothing alarming, but we're both quite concsious of the fact. Recently we attended a wedding of a friend of hers and several days later she told me that since the wedding she has felt differently about us and that she didn't know if it was because of recent stress (she's been doing quite a bit a work and looking to purchase her first home) or what the case was. She said she think she needs some time to sort out her feelings and that she didn't really have anything further to say. I've dated before, but I've never had this kind of connection with someone so quickly. Everything in my eyes was great with no signs of anything going awry. I'm a bit confused that this came out of the blue like this and I really don't know how I should take it... P.S. I also told her to contact me when she was ready. I had written a poem I was going to give her as part of a sweetest day gift but since I probably will not see her on sweetest day, I was thinking of e-mailing it to her. Any thoughts on this? Thanks!