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    Mac, I am here if you need to vent..... -SuperDave71
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    Cyprian, You can achieve anything you want if you try hard enough. Thank you for the kind words. SuperDave71
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    The fact is,....you shouldn't wait until they figure it out. If they do...they do..if they don't ...it's not on you. You are only left to figure YOU out and what you can tolerate as loving behavior...as for me...ONLY 100% will do. Never wait for something that is not 100% guranteed to return...Live your life...if they choose to stay ...let them communicate with you and let them show you that there is nothing more they would rather do than to spend the rest of their lives with you making you both happy. Nothing else will do....until this happens...you are only settling for what you BELIEVE love is. The sad truth is...NOT seeing it for what it is....rather than what you believe it to be. -SuperDave71
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    I could not agree more Macgyver.... SuperDave71
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    Jennyjen, How is it going today? -SuperDave71
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    MasterT, Push those blues away!!! If you want blues, come to the South and I will take you to Beale Street...HOME OF THE BLUES ( music) HA HA HA -SuperDave71
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    Do not pass go....do not collect 200 dollars... KEEP GOING SUNDAY!!! you can do it!!! DON'T make me get the duct tape!! -SuperDave71
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    ANY communication counts....sorry. -SuperDave71
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    Note to self: 1.) Buy Ticket to Chicago 2.) Find nearest HOME DEPOT or LOWE'S 3.) Buy 100 dollars of duct tape 4.) FIND MACGYVER4EVER and tape him to the floor and microwave his cell phone. *sigh* Your Friend, SuperDave71
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    Welcome to my challenge Bar35.... You can do it!!! You have all of us behind you. When feeling down..Just post. We'll help you! Welcome! Your Friend SuperDave71
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    Hi there, Let me warn you about something.... My challenge is for you only...NOT FOR GETTING BACK AN EX...if this is yoru intension...you will be disappointed and miss the meaning behind it. You have been warned. -SuperDave71
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    Pisces, GREAT to see you back! I am sooo happy you are doing much better! Anything I can do to help, I will be here if yon need me. Your friend, SuperDave71
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    Kate and Bear, The way you let your ex see how much you have changed...is just to be you. If they choose to see you, they will contact you. The moment you try so hard to PROVE that you are better and have changed is the moment you lose you again. I know we all have heard of the philosophy of "We all want what we can't have"....I disagree with this. We can do or have anything we want as long as we know how to go about getting it. Ex's will usually call after time passes....BUT DO NOT MISTAKE THIS FOR ANYTHING BUT A PHONE CALL. SuperDave71
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    Bar, Are you referring to me? I am a bit confused Hope you are well. -SuperDave71
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    Sweetharmony, You are most welcome! -Your Friend, SuperDave71
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    Rosie, I also wondered about that. I glad you spoke up. Whatever you feel, I know I am proud of you. What you did is an enormous task and a difficult one to boot. I do find it a bit selfish when others rely on your soothing and supportive words yet when you want to share a victory, no one is around to celebrate. I am here. I am in your corner and I believe in you and your ability to not only heal yourself but to heal your life. Congrats to you and your continued success!!! Your Friend, SuperDave71
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    Master T, Beware the Ides of March.....ha ha ha Get your butt up and make that day a GOOD ONE!!! Your Friend, SuperDave
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    You are more than welcome badd... -Your Friend, SuperDave71
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    Rosie, This is alllllll you babe!! Truly! CONGRATS!!! Your Friend, SuperDave71
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    Mac, Hello there my friend. I konw where you are coming from. First off, I am so glad you had a date. I think that geting back on the horse is a great thing. I remember years back, I was dating someone new as well. She was absolutely wonderful. The sad thing was I couldn't get oer my ex either. I hated the fact that I would compare. I would do it EVEN though I told myself I wouldn't. The main thing to remember is to be honest, not only with your date, but with yourself. Casual dating is fine. Do your best NOT to talk about your ex if you can help it. We all must remember that our ex's are not in th e picture right now. They may NEVER be BUT, we cannot allow ourselves to use other people and allow them to get emotionaly attached to something they can't or refuse to let go of. I try to put myself in OTHER people's shoes. What would I feel if Ireally liked them and they showed me sighns they were interested but they secretly wanted their ex back more than anything. It's happened to me before. There is nothing like the bite of reality. It hurts. Right now you are feeling palin and simple; GUILT. For some odd reason you feel that you have betrayed your ex by allowing this new girl to stay over. Even when she was over last night, you didn't completely feel at ease but you wanted the new girl there because possibly in your mind it was better than being alone. Deep inside I think that the guilt is playing tricks on you. What I mean is, what if your ex did the same thing and you heard about it. Would it matter? I think it would. I think you would be a complete wreck. You are going to have to let go of the "betrayal" feelings. I am sure you were not ready for anyone to spend the night but YOU are in control of your actions. You can say "No" I am not ready or even "I have had a fun night but I need to get some sleep." We have all felt the same as you have. We feel like we are "cheating" when in fact, we are as free as a bird to do anything we choose with anyone. Its the emotional side that gets us...the guilt. The guilt kicks in because of your mental refusal to let you ex go. You are holding on MENTALLY because you can't have her physically. I owuld suggest NOT seeing this new girl for a little while. Talk to her, if you do see her...do it OUTSIDE your home or residence. Try to gradually let go of the guilty feelings. You have done nothing wrong except try to fool yourself into believeing you are ready to date. Take it slow. Put the brakes on a bit...be honest with yourself and with your date. Focus on you because in the end...you are all that matters. You can do it. I am here if you need me. Your friend, SuperDave71
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    Thank you so much Wandering Sword and everyone else.. You are all appreciated... Your Friend, SuperDave71
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    I will check it out and get back with you ok? -SuperDave71
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    OK..fill us in STB!!!?? -SuperDave71
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